The Masked Watcher

My flip flopping attitude is because of my lack of knowledge about it if what you said in the case is true then that should clear up my indignation thanks for the help AnneV

I think you are correct in that it is not a negative being. Like the billions of humans on earth, some spirits (we too are spirits but with physical shells, for now that is) are good and some are not. This spirit does not behave like a guide though because guides are less participatory and don't cause annoyance. They are generally at a higher vibrational level and don't fleet around in peripheral vision.

As an outsider, it's hard to peg what might be in your company. Based on the information you are giving I would speculate that it's a spirit that you have had a past life with (but they have not reincarnated as you have). Not all spirits from our soul group (a group of spirits that tend to share many life times with us) reincarnate at the same time. If it's a particularly close one, they may hover around in this one (life), longing for our companionship.

You seem to have a flip flop attitude towards this thing. As you said, it causes you infuriating feelings yet infatuation. That probably causes it confusion too which is why it's being less direct. Why not make up your mind how you feel about it and just project that? If you truly don't want it around, ask it to kindly leave. If you want to have a mature relationship with it, drop the indignation part of your attitude and ask that it show more of itself. It obviously has enough of a tie with you to seek you out in the first place. Personally, I would opt for option two because I think there is potential for growth here but each to his own.

Best to you and thanks so much for sharing your story.
Anne