Empath Meets Her Twin Flame

Ladygirl86 I understand where you are coming from. It's unavoidable to get lost. I hope your doing good. ❤

Ladygirl86 that man is not your twin flame. Lots of people have psychic abilities and/or are star people. The concept of twin flame does not have to be automatically assigned to you because you display those abilities. I am just trying to save you pain and humiliation. I've been humiliated by the twin flame concept as well but I can tell you he is not your twin flame.

Thank you. I will dig into it. As much as I am pulled toward him, I don't have a great feeling about it given how it's been between us. Yes, it is heavy for sure.

Hey Ladygirl, you may want to check into past lives. I've done some reading on it and it's possible you may have a connection to this person from another life. Sometimes if you leave bad feelings in a past life and meet them in your current life, you may have difficulties with them. Many say they feel drawn to this person. If the bad feelings between you are reconciled, you may feel a weight lifted. Might be worth a look.

I cannot believe I am about to revive an 8 year old thread.

I recently realized that I am an empath (clairvoyant and claircognizant, the latter more dominant) - I am very very conservative in nature and extremely rational from which to judge.

I recently met a man 8 years my senior on Tinder while going through a challenging divorce (another story of its own.) My intentions were never to get into a relationship but to have sex. We are both single.

In retrospect, I had seen 11:11 everywhere, disregarded the sign. I truly wasn't aware of soulmates let alone twinflames (learned of it this past week, not even searching.)

When I heard his voice for the first time, I felt the immediate gravitation toward him. He experienced the same. There have been more signs (or coincidents) such as: my house number is his birthdate (which had him think a lot) and my new work place building bears his name (he does not know). All is very strange, I am still freaked out. When I met him for the first time, I felt like coming home, not just familiar. I cannot describe it in words. It's this sensation in my abs/ tummy, not just butterflies, but a strong gravitational pull. As soon as I sat down at the table during the first date, he immediately reached for my hands and we held hands all day that day. I felt a strong flow of energy exchange through our hands.

However, our dynamic for the first three months has always been hot and cold. He would tell me he feel the energetic attraction from me (never said between us), that we have tantric like attraction, blah blah... But continued to run way and came back. When asked if he was an empath, he admitted. He's a clairsentient. During the time we saw each other, we could not have sex right away. Every time we attempted, something would happen. For that reason, we only had sex the last 3 weeks of the "relationship". Well it ended abruptly.

He broke up with me to start seeing someone. Having strong personality and dignity, I let him go (cut off cold turkey). Despite the pain of a broken heart, I feel a strange sensation of calmness. I have never felt this in my life post break up. The calm isn't pre storm calmness, it is the zen as if my soul knows all will be fine. He'd been calling to talk but I cut him off completely. I encouraged him to be on his own to think about what he really wanted because I would not accept a man blowing hot and cold. I don't hate him or wish him any malice. I didn't even care whom he was seeing, not even a least bit curious (strange.)

For the record, we are both highly educated with solid earning potential. He's a doctor

I am rambling now... I am freaked out by all of this. Someone please help guide me.

is he a runner? Perhaps he is not ready spiritually? I think the fact that you were honest about your relationship with x to your husband shows that you are ready for whatever may come, and since he may not have been so honest with his wife about you, it may indicate that he has yet to reach the same spirituality as you have. Denial comes before acceptance.

You can't do anything except wait until he awakens and come around. I have a feeling that he met you for a reason and that he is probably starting to question his being.

I have not met my twin flame but I've heard about it recently and I have reasons to believe that I may have had some dreams where I may have met his/her soul. (I have reasons to believe that I may be the male, even though I am a female in this life). I am still trying to shift through my life and see if I had met this person before but I have a feeling that it hasn't happened yet. This is just what I felt after reading your posts.

There probably should be a? Mark after the title of this -

I believe this post on my behalf was more of a question of the possibility of a twin flame. Like I said - I never heard of it before but spent weeks on reading about it and I should add reading books about many possibilities besides the twin flame aspect.

This just stood out the most due to all the common theme of them.

I still support the belief that there is something more but still not sure.

Him and I do not speak. I don't try to think about him and I live a fairly normal life (not counting my other empathic feelings)

There are random brief moments like I mentioned to Bird on a post- that I can feel and hear his conversations with others.

I would like to block it and it takes a while but eventually it will go away.

24-7 is not at all how my thoughts go- they are quite random as with any other person I have felt.

I think calm and serene may have been a better term - but the complete I still stand by because - there is a complete feeling when you know finally that you have a gift and it is helping someone.

I did mention reading his tarot and that's how the friendship started- sucks because in all this the friendship was the whole reason I kept talking to him. The fact that he accepted that I just know made me feel okay with my gifts. Make sense?

Also this has happened over the course of months and not just hours like it looks in the post LOL. Although I gauge thing in hours because it only takes a moment for a whole life to change. And that is in all aspects and walks of life.

But in the end, what it done is done. I do believe I am better for learning from this experience. I also believed when I met him he has stronger abilities then he was aware of and I know he's grown from that sense.

On the sexual notation - there is many stories I can share about my psychic abilities on the level - it is not the first time I have had that happen - but it is the first time over that distance and with someone I did not know in person. (this is a gift that I do not like but the amazing energy from it is addictive and that alone is weird in itself) I will post about that soon because I probably should have addressed that before this topic. More so I should have addressed the question I had- why do I see in colors and why did he see me surrounded by a color?

An emotional affair is prob a good term for this and most relationships though. Because- if you become emotionally attached to anyone but your spouse (even friends) it could change how you feel - even friends will possibly put strain where its not needed.
The best thing to do is to communicate truthfully.
I am lucky that my husband has witnessed many of my abilities first hand, and he believes enough in me to understand. I do not hide things from him. He knows all that I do. But here I look back and realize that I may have been honest with my husband but X not with his wife. There is where a breakdown occurred. My husband has seen this post and most of X's emails. Honesty is the best policy but I also agree that being a psychic/empath we have to hide some things to keep people safe. So it's going to always be a judgment call.

There are too many things I have felt in my lifetime. And I have many questions and hopefully through mine you all can find better answers.

I apologize for the sheer emotionally scattered post- It didn't describe all my feelings and prob came off a way I never noticed until now. So hopefully this helps.

So in my conclusion- In order to learn from your gifts you must be careful bc lines shouldn't be crossed. I do not intend to hurt - only learn. I accept that things have to end. I hope this gives a better insight to what happened. I wish the best of luck to anyone who is struggling with the judgment calls- If you have anymore questions or insights I am always willing to hear them and answer them. Thanks
Ara

I know what you mean about the connection. I feel a psychic connection to my recent x boyfriend, I feel we have had several lives together. I will always be in love with him...

Ara, I saw you commented on one of my posts so I will put my reply here as I figure you will see it more easily:). I do have to apologize first off I read my comment back to myself a moment ago and realized it sounded rather harsh. I didn't mean it to come across that way, its just when I sense or know something I always feel its best and can hone in best when I just put it bluntly. I do believe that my reaction was my psychic part, not opinion. When I read your post it was if someone was telling me what I wrote as if it were fact, so I can only assume it to be. I am still learning how to trust my psychic side, believe me I doubt it more than I dont! I have a lot of trouble dealing with it also, I wish I was as together as you made me sound! Lol It is a learning process, I have learned in the past couple years to just go with what I get, and most of the time I'm correct- which is a very hard thing to do for fear of being labeled as a wacko or worse, being wrong and then in turn not being believed when I am right. I feel you on the voices and the going mad feeling too, it can be SOOO overwhelming. The best thing to do is just relax, realize that you are not alone, and that you will be ok. Just go with the flow so to speak. I can go weeks or months with little or nothing and then suddenly the dreams, feelings, and voices are back with a vengence. Believe in yourself, and listen to what you get, but go forward with common sense as well in your actions. Good Luck!

Well, I appreciate the feedback and all along I have been nothing but honest to my husband about everything bc it has scared the heck out of me. Like I said in my post before this I was unsure of any of this. Again-there are still many more things going on then just the small things I put here. I do not pine for him all day. Nor do I try to think of him. The complete feeling is a feeling like there was something lost but when his thoughts/feelings come into play its found. Maybe it's just the feeling of knowing my gifts at that moment too. Even he mentioned once, that the energy is what I seem to want.

IwanttoHelp: I have had weird feelings for several years of others - I am not sure if he is one - but also I mentioned the past life thing. My past goes back far and long.

I believe him and I have met before. He agreed to that as well.
I may be wording my feelings wrong, or it coming out in a way that it seems different.
I have left him be. And I do not want contact with him. I just want to know how to stop feeling his everyday occurrences. Such as if gets hurt physically.
I used to feel anger and pain for no reason when I was happy. And many more emotions that have tied into the empath ways. For example I can feel when my mom is sick or when a friend is in pain. I also can feel people I don't know by walking past them.
There have been other people I have met online that say they are drawn to me. This particular man just had a different energy.
Since I was younger I have had dreams of places I have never been that seemed so real. And daydreams that make me feel as though I am there. I thought I was losing it truly.

I do know emotionally this is damaging that's why I said my goodbyes earlier this week. I guess my main concern now is how to shut down seeing and feeling him and his family at random times. They aren't all the time and are odd. There are probably more things I'm forgetting but my mind is scattered with this and many others feelings and thoughts.

The pain you felt was his wife finding out he was talking to you a few times a day on the internet. It was the pain that he decided for the sake of his marriage to end contact with you. It is possible to have instant connections with others as you described, it is normal. However, you were both having an emotional affair, and that can be just as damaging to a marriage as a pysical one. Leave well enough alone and move on.

As for the "supporting evidence" you've gleaned off the internet about soul flames there are a heck of a lot more articles and books, and from some very developed souls, that say we are all part of the "One". The illusion of separation is very grand and only at the highest levels do we realize this. We war, kill, torture and cheat because of this illusion.

Who doesn't appear next to perfect when it's presented over the internet? You may or may not have karmic ties with this person (you're on your way to creating some though) but this is a train wreck waiting to happen. Infidelity comes in more flavors than the physical (and please don't tell us that you only think pure friendly thoughts about this person, especially after he "bed" his wife and you were part of it). You're lying to yourself to think you aren't doing a disservice to your marriage by obsessing over this person.

Of course you've got psychic ties with this person. We can develop psychic ties to anyone we're thinking about 24x7! I can remote view any human being, dead or alive, if the interest is there. We lie to ourselves (and those we are trying to convince it's a "higher" love) because facing the truth would be difficult. I'm sure if you shared this article with your husband or his wife, they'd have a few words for both of you.

Complete when he is around? That's how you should feel all on your own. This is part of our spiritual development and isn't something we put onto another human being.

A person with sense would terminate this communication and get some marriage counseling.

I think he knows that you feel the same
And he doesn't want you feel the pain he has or something happened that seperated you two. I don't know much about twin soul or flames so sorry if I'm wrong.
AraLestat, did you also felt what he felt before you two even met? 😜 (curious).