Unexplained And Mysterious Life

I have an extensive past and present of strange and mysterious occurrences both in my dream states and everyday life. To begin I've been told by many different people i.e. A shaman, a homeopathic doctor, and a clairvoyant who listens to angels, among others (none having any knowledge of each other) that I have an open psyche and psychic and prophetic abilities and that spirits are drawn to me. I even had one woman tell me she listens to angels and they have spoken of me. I'm not sure what to believe but if it is just coincidence it is strange. I haven't told these people anything I have gone through or dreamed until after they have mentioned my psychic abilities, but I have been too freaked out to go into much detail with them or ask questions so I let it be and went on with my life, but it keeps getting thrown back into my face. Here are some instances of my "abilities": I was in Dallas, Texas staying at a hotel across from the World Trade Market at the end of 2000. While I was there I had dreams of the World Trade Center being bombed by flying demons, but it was not the one in Dallas and it had two towers that the demons called the towers of Babylon and it was very futuristic at the time, but I remembered it and less than a year later 9/11 occurred. I have also had dreams where I wake up speaking another language for about 5 minutes after I wake which I only know English, but in the dreams I remember speaking other languages fluently, also in these dreams and many other ones I am visited by a dark man who feels like an old soul, but I cannot make him out he is almost shadow like. I have had instances where I am awake and I have seen shadows come through my door or hover around me and a voice that whispers forcefully to them "no not her". I have also been told by others that I am haunted by what I am not sure. Since I can remember I have always had unusual things happen and am drawn to the number 13. Sometimes I feel like this is all just a waking dream because my dreams are vivid and realistic with a multitude of colors. I also can tell how a person feels when they enter a room and sometimes those emotions overwhelm me. I have also oddly, but not as frequent picked up on people's thoughts especially if they were negative towards me and have been able to tell them exactly what they thought (which tends to freak people out). Of course this is only a brief discussion of my so-called abilities (which I have no idea how to fully harness or if I actually possess these abilities or I am just crazy but then again if I am crazy these other people who have told me this stuff must be too and if they hadn't mentioned something to me and it having being told to me over and over again I would still be hiding in the dark and pretending that none of it happens). I guess I am in need of help trying to sort through all of this and come to terms with the reality that in some essence this could all be probable. Does anyone have any insight?