Unexplained Evil Figure, Homechild Dead Now

It seems as if though you want to place blame or guilt on anything, whether on someone or something, for the cause of your son's death... Gathered from your post implying that your friend invited or brought the demons or the Devil to your family, and that the people with whom your son stayed "gave" him the drugs - not saying that he took it himself.

The way he died or how anyone dies for that matter is of no importance but only if you want to show compassion for the spirit that crossed over, to understand what drove him to take the drugs and why if possible he decided to listen to his friends to take it; and also if you are concerned about the spirit's emotional state at that stage and whether you can help that person overcome that burdens to see the Light, but on the other side there are sufficient Help and aid to take away this responsibility from the bereaved family to aid the spirit on his journey once there. And the second case on whether you want to know the cause of death or whether who could have possibly induced it, would be to seek justice...don't seek the cause of death for the wrong reasons, trying to blame "demons" or to blame people who could have been innocent. No one could have forced him to take the drugs, everyone is born with free will... To go on a "blaming spree" will make you go crazy pointing fingers at anyone that looks suspicious or anything that looks like a demon or the Devil...you'll end up in a state of paranoia, not knowing who to accuse any longer.

There is always the saying when crime and murder is involved: "You can catch who did it, justice can be served but that still won't bring back the person lost".

I am in no way saying that you should not seek justice, just do not seek to blame the wrong people. If someone makes the choice to take drugs, they brought it upon themselves. Also if there would have been any demonic activity whatsoever involved - Satan can only tempt, but the Devil can't make you do it, the final choice lies with the tempted.

You can even get the drug dealer from who your son bought the drugs from convicted, to help other people not to buy drugs from that criminal any more... But those who want to do drugs will with any force and might seek any other drug dealer to produce as their destructive needs demand.

I understand you or anyone else in this position would want to know "why" this happened to YOU... That is exactly and unfortunately always the FOCUS as to "why did this happen to ME, why could God have allowed this to befall ME?". Can you see the "you" and "me" in capital letters? Well the fact is, that this didn't happen to YOU, it happened to your son. Who is the focus here? Your son or YOU? It is about his own individual soul journey, but indirectly yours as well... It comes down to "do you want to blame others or other things for what happened for your own PEACE or for his?". I also referred to when upon wanting to know the cause of death as to wanting the spirit to see the Light, but in this case it is YOU that is in need to see the Light, not your son... It is YOU that is weighed down by emotional burderns of which he is free NOW.

I don't want to believe that those who didn't believe in God aren't in a better place, because to me it doesn't matter whether a believer or not, if this life is but a mere soul journey... When everyone comes to this plane to learn and serve as a messenger for the spiritual growth of others. I believe our soul growth doesn't end here or in one life, or upon one death, it continues regardless of what happens in this life or how you die in this life.

I have a feeling that your son is much more "light spirited" where he is now, and his light won't continue to shine just because his journey ended here in this one lifetime.

On the last note: to want to blame anything and everything, is not the way to go about healing from this event, you will be too blinded by rage to see a greater purpose or God's will in all this, to think about greater things... Your son simply made an early journey which you are yet to make, death is never the end, where his growth ended here it continues in heaven, where his growth ended here yours continue here until it is your time to give up the physical body too welcoming the spirit reality. Any such extreme happenings are tests of Faith meant to bring you closer to God, to strengthen your soul in God... Maybe your son's death will serve to make you remember WHY YOU ARE HERE.

Almost 3 years ago, (May 22,2009) my thirteen year daughter was killed in a car accident along with her 18 year old cousin and 13 year old friend. My sister in law was driving, she survived.

Two nights ago I had a dream about my childs death. But, in the dream my daughter had died of a drug overdose. Specifically methaphetamine injected into her vain. In the dream I confronted the people who were with her (my sister in law who was driving the car was there, and my other sister in law from a seperate marriage was there, amognst other people) But, my focus was on these two. The second sister in law has been in and out of rehab in real life for meth. She finally confessed to injecting my child with the drug. The reason she gave was "She told me she wanted to try it". I don't remember the rest of the dream except for seeing Candice in her casket again.

I had forgotten the dream until I read your post. I am an internet junkie and for some reason navigated to this page for the first time ever tonight.

I don't know why but I felt like I had to tell you this.

Being a bereaved parent (and sibling) is so hard anyway, but it seems that "evil" or bad selfish people, seem to want to be around. Or maybe its just that we notice more when we are in so much overwhelming grief.

It will get better, or more easy to cope. I promise.

I think you should get rid of any negative infuence. ANYONE or thing that makes it harder to focus on your grief and that of your surviving child needs to go now. I read a lot of grief books written for or by bereaved parents. I had to cut out some very close friends and family in order to cope and grieve in my way. My three surviving children experienced overwhelming grief and trauma also. You will have to learn to cope along side your son. He is hurting but he will be allright with your love and support.

The Compassionate Friends have a website you should check out.

Also, you deserve to know what happened to your son.
You have the right to know, call the police department, send emails file complaints. Insist to talk to the boss and his boss and her boss if needed. Stay on them.

All the best. Feel free to contact me anytime. ❤

I understand what you're going through. Your friend must have known what she has seen. Being Satan I doubt, but like what you said a demon. Demons are just spirits with a tendency not to like anyone. But I don't believe others that pass on can interfere with the living.

From what I understand, fate is not set in stone. Personality determines decisions and actions which later determine fate. Since personality can be changed for better and worst, fate can be changed. Since fate can be predetermined, then your 'future' can be determined. You can read it on the sites glossary as Akashic Records. It might be a bit far fetched, but this spirit could be taunting you.

As for your other son, he has been experiencing similar events? I understand if you wish not to talk about it. One of the problems that has been faced is what others have seen bring them psych problems. I hope we brought a little more light to your situation.

GeneX I'M not sure of anything but that he is dead. They are still investigation it. He was found dead at a friends house according to the EMS report. The people's house he was at said he O.D...everyone that stayed there has a different story as to what happened, who found him, where he sleep, what he took (its crazy) we do know they gave him drugs, a lot of different kinds too. Even stated in ems report he was gruggling from 1:00am to 6:30am and one person there was a LPN. Its a long story and nothing makes sence.i"ll talk more later it iis getting to me now I need to get this off my mind, but I will talk more later thank you

cyopathic,yes he was a wonderful person. Wise beyond his years, he loved to help people and like myself he could sence what kind of person they were, this is so hard right now because this just happened last month. (his death) a week or two before we promised that if we died that not to worry because we would come back to each other and to know we would always be together even if just in spirit, and about the demon as I call it appeared to my friend here in my home about three weeks before my son died. I have not been bothered with any negitive things since I was a child. My friend on the other hand has had this happen four times in the last year or so. Once in ohio she felt a evil presence and it scared her then she said when she was in jail a cell mate sat up in bed and began talking to her but that is was a different voice and appeared to be in a trance, then when she moved back to alabama about a year ago she had another incounter, each time it gets worse and stronger she says. The last time it happened to her it was here at my house, she was scared to death. She said she was asleep and felt something running its fingers thur her hair she said she knew it was evil she could fill it. She had chills up and down her spine. Also she said she felf a heavyness on her chest, she said she saw a figure resembling satan it had horns and a long tounge that split at the end like a snake also the tounge had grey outline around the edge of it. She said it spoke to her but it was in tongues or some language she didn't understand. She seen smoke come out its nose and watched the smoke disappear into the air. I must say that was one scary night for us all and in a way I became angry because I love my family and friends and won't them safe and not to be afraid. I told them it thrived on their fear and they needed to believe in God and goodness as much as they did this thing.i"m not afraid but I would like to know what is going on. My two oldest sons one being dead and the other suffering from psycosis that just started the first of january., my son with psycosis was seeing and hearing things and having mind signals sent to him and codes has since moved in with my brother. I know all this sounds crazy and this is just some of what has been going on the last two months. And yes we are seeing mental health but we don't speak about this just the loss of my son josh

I'm very sorry to hear about your boy. As what GeneX has said, neither God or Satan can be the reason, but both sides can give a temptation to free-will. I am near the same age as your son and I'm sure he was a good person.

As for your older son, I'm sorry to hear about his psychosis. This case is relatively new, it might take a couple more months to get a final say in it. Also if you wish to ever talk more about it, Brokencar1 [at] yahoo.com

Not everything is caused by Satan and God. I am not religious and I have seen things all of my life, I do not know of what help I could be on that, but your son, if you can, tell me about him and how he was found, criminology is a hobby of mine, as well as forensics.