The Lady In The Victorian Dress

It was shortly after my husband and I had moved to Hawaii and got a place two weeks later, I had started having a feeling that there was someone that would watch me sleep it wasn't a bad feeling at all, it was kind of comforting to me like it was there to watch over me. I then began to keep having this feeling that I was being watched, and that is when it had started I would notice that in one certain corner in my bedroom there would sit every night in my bedroom a shadow figure. Like I had said it had not made me uncomfortable or anything like that, I told my husband what I had been seeing and feeling and he told me that he had felt something there too. So he had asked me if I had tried to communicate with whatever or whomever was there, I told him no I hadn't and he told me I should probably try, I thought about it for a while then decided I would do it when I had felt right about it. I then began to notice other things happening in the house like I would smell like cakes and stuff being baked, and flowers. I would also notice things being moved in my home and my husband said he hadn't moved them and I know I hadn't, I finally started to try and communicate with this being I felt that it was there to watch over me. I then began to communicate with this being every day I had thought I was going crazy that I was talking to someone or something I could not see then finally she showed herself to me so at this point I had a face to go with the voice, I had told my husband and he told me that he hadn't seen anyone at all. So it was a weekend and I had went shopping with my friend I come home and my husband starts asking me questions of what the lady I had seen had looked like and had been wearing and I kind of looked at him puzzled, then he started to describe to me in detail of what she was wearing and how she looked. My mouth had dropped and I had told him that was her, The woman in the old Victorian dress he told me she had walked past him while I was gone and he had known it wasn't me for I wasn't there. Well time has gone on and things hadn't changed at this point she was in the corner in my bedroom every night just watching me, I then had decided to go back home for a month and when I had returned she was nowhere to be found or seen. If there is anyone that could help me with some kind of input. I know that I have had many experiences through my life, but I don't understand why she had left.