I had this strange vivid dream an year ago. It was some kind of bureau where a man was writing down the names of couples that are together. Almost everyone had their mates except me. I went to him and asked "what about me?" He is just shaked his head saying that the guy who is for me, is going to be late because he is confused between me and another girl. Unless he makes a decision I will have to wait.
I was upset.
At that time I hadnt been seeing anyone. But felt insulted by the dream, I didn't want to be an option. And also most of my friends and family are now married.
I told my mother about the dream, she explained not every thing is black and white.
Anyways a couple of months later I check my facebook and find a message from an acquaintance wanting to reconnect. Tbh, over a course of 5 or 6 years he had try to connect with me but I had been struggling with personal issues and would be just aloof.
We hit it off. We started talking and hanging out. I felt a strong connection with him unlike any other. More months passed by, I realized I liked him a lot. I confessed how I felt. He was in shock but he broke the news that he had just started dating someone else and that he never expected that I would like someone like him.
I felt dejected ofc. We still kept talking. He was confused between me and the other girl. I remained friends but was in pain. I remembered the dream I had. The situation had eerily turn out like that.
After a couple of months being anxious, I couldn't take it anymore and decided after his birthday I will stop talking to him and will tell him not to contact me anymore because I can't be his friend when I have feelings. I wanted to run away from him.
Things changed unexpectedly though. He said he felt happiest when I am around. And the girl is seeing is not sure about him. He decided to stop seeing her. They amicably parted ways. We started dating. Its been 6 months. He has been the best boyfriend I ever had. He cares a lot for me and is kind. I have never been this happy.
I wonder at times is he the guy that was being referred to in my dream.
I am scared too. That things might end and this is some cruel joke the universe is playing on me. He already had trouble introducing me to his parents because of his hectic work schedule and problems at home.
I saw another vivid dream that he had made a surprise visit to my home talking with dad. I woke up really happy.
I don't know what to make of all this. Is it just a big coincidence or fate?
I had dreams come true before, but now I am just scared.