Psychic and Medium Experiences: What is it about?

i would like to talk to you about your gift I can see hear and smell spirits in my home husband says I am crazy and want to know if I can talk to you since you have the gift and can believe when told about sightings I wonder if I am going crazy I have even physically been touched by a spirit in my home again husband thinks I am crazy please contact me at renee_lee95 [at] yahoo.com

There probably should be a? Mark after the title of this -

I believe this post on my behalf was more of a question of the possibility of a twin flame. Like I said - I never heard of it before but spent weeks on reading about it and I should add reading books about many possibilities besides the twin flame aspect.

This just stood out the most due to all the common theme of them.

I still support the belief that there is something more but still not sure.

Him and I do not speak. I don't try to think about him and I live a fairly normal life (not counting my other empathic feelings)

There are random brief moments like I mentioned to Bird on a post- that I can feel and hear his conversations with others.

I would like to block it and it takes a while but eventually it will go away.

24-7 is not at all how my thoughts go- they are quite random as with any other person I have felt.

I think calm and serene may have been a better term - but the complete I still stand by because - there is a complete feeling when you know finally that you have a gift and it is helping someone.

I did mention reading his tarot and that's how the friendship started- sucks because in all this the friendship was the whole reason I kept talking to him. The fact that he accepted that I just know made me feel okay with my gifts. Make sense?

Also this has happened over the course of months and not just hours like it looks in the post LOL. Although I gauge thing in hours because it only takes a moment for a whole life to change. And that is in all aspects and walks of life.

But in the end, what it done is done. I do believe I am better for learning from this experience. I also believed when I met him he has stronger abilities then he was aware of and I know he's grown from that sense.

On the sexual notation - there is many stories I can share about my psychic abilities on the level - it is not the first time I have had that happen - but it is the first time over that distance and with someone I did not know in person. (this is a gift that I do not like but the amazing energy from it is addictive and that alone is weird in itself) I will post about that soon because I probably should have addressed that before this topic. More so I should have addressed the question I had- why do I see in colors and why did he see me surrounded by a color?

An emotional affair is prob a good term for this and most relationships though. Because- if you become emotionally attached to anyone but your spouse (even friends) it could change how you feel - even friends will possibly put strain where its not needed.
The best thing to do is to communicate truthfully.
I am lucky that my husband has witnessed many of my abilities first hand, and he believes enough in me to understand. I do not hide things from him. He knows all that I do. But here I look back and realize that I may have been honest with my husband but X not with his wife. There is where a breakdown occurred. My husband has seen this post and most of X's emails. Honesty is the best policy but I also agree that being a psychic/empath we have to hide some things to keep people safe. So it's going to always be a judgment call.

There are too many things I have felt in my lifetime. And I have many questions and hopefully through mine you all can find better answers.

I apologize for the sheer emotionally scattered post- It didn't describe all my feelings and prob came off a way I never noticed until now. So hopefully this helps.

So in my conclusion- In order to learn from your gifts you must be careful bc lines shouldn't be crossed. I do not intend to hurt - only learn. I accept that things have to end. I hope this gives a better insight to what happened. I wish the best of luck to anyone who is struggling with the judgment calls- If you have anymore questions or insights I am always willing to hear them and answer them. Thanks
Ara

I know what you mean about the connection. I feel a psychic connection to my recent x boyfriend, I feel we have had several lives together. I will always be in love with him...

I must say how amazingly alike all empaths seem to be. And the differences never cease to amaze me.
I struggle lately with my gift. But know it's here for some greater good. I just haven't realized what yet.
I am a personal wellness coach, and love seeing people meet goals.
On the off side, I used to love children like all children for their pure innocence - I do have one of my own (which was a gift in itself) I love her unconditionally and my feelings haven't changed with her. Only in others children.
I keep feeling an off feeling in many kids in my present area. Like suffering is leading them to for lack of a better term the dark side. So I dislike being around most of them.
I do however share your traits if you will on the feelings of others and I do get more of the sad and angry stuff.
I did notice though I tend to pick up the worse 'vibes' faster because I want to be able to fix the pain for them faster. If I feel they are happy then they don't need help. Does that make sense?

Thank you so much for your comments. I will address each of you below...

Qbro - The sex thing was so surprising to me too! I thought it a little silly when I woke up. I'm not a virgin and have sex quite oftwen but it seems like most of the time what ever "it is" that hold me down always wants somthing of a sexual nature... I never mentioned this in my story before but I just moved into a new apartment about 6 months ago and that's when I started having these experiences. The first couple of experiences were of me not being able to move and having a feeling of a million hands all over my body but completely awake... I even felt like I was being lifted up off the bed. Those ones are the scary ones and only happened in our new master bedroom. Every single time I am alone, during the early afternoon around 9 or 10ish am. So after the last scary experience in our bedroom I decided that I would not sleep in there ever alone only on weekends when my boyfriend is home and can sleep with me... I just sleep on the couch instead. The dream above I had while sleeping on the couch it was a completely different feeling dream, I didn't feel in danger like I did in the other dreams and this was the first time the spirit ghost or whatever it is let me see it and talk to it. So I have a theory that there is bad energy in my bedroom that I can pick up on too much and that when I sleep on the couch in the living room I'm safe. Usually during the day I don't come in the bedroom more then 2 minutes to pick out my clothes and the rest of the day I keep the door closed because I can feel somthing in one of the corners of our room its a super strong feeling that whatever is in that corner is not good and wants to hurt me if it can get to me. Thank you for your comment It helps alot:-)
Elizabethjames: I Thought I was alone this whole time! I keep researching but I get nowhere and I even researched sleeping disorders after the first few times of this happening. I did find somthing called sleep paralysis that I thought I may have, I do really want to go to the doctor and get tested because I think I may have insomnia and since moving into this new place I only get about one good nights sleep every three months. What your saying makes a lot of sence to me but at the same time my dreams are so completely real I still can't rule out the possibilty of somthing trying to contact me. I'm really glad you left me a comment becuase it really sounds like you and I have a lot in common sleep wise... This stuff just started happening when we moved into this apartment and it doesn't bother me enough to move and I reaaallly don't want to move I love my house and I don't mind people contacting me I just don't want the scary ones to come back again. I'm only 21 years old and really never researched any of this paranormal stuff until it happened the first time about 6 months ago... Do you know of anyway to protect myself from the bad spirits?

This weird marking on you- Does anyone else see it glow? Or are you the only witness of it's presence.

I do believe we can carry things from past lives or be scarred somehow.

But like the others have said and I get this cold creepy feeling from your post that you are not being a hundred percent honest.

As well as somewhat of a premonition/vibe you made this story up about someone you know to intentionally hurt their feelings.

In that case, you have a lot to learn about yourself and others.

If I am off the wall wrong, which is always possible: You may just have a deep seeded need to want to be different. Embrace your individuality and maybe answers will come?

Replying to you here for 2 reasons- One I wanted to read more about your gift- I think you do have together more then you think. If not your more accepting of the nature it does come. 2 thanks for your response to mine. It does ease my mind a bit to know that you understand. I didn't take what you said harshly. I know that some of what I said in the actual post sounds different then what I truly feel. But I am having a hard time writing it (Which for one is a big deal being that I am a writer by nature). There is more I want to say at the moment in response to a few of your stories and I will get back to them in a bit. But I wanted to thank you again.

hii...
I was just wondering if you had any visions of a tsunami or a biggg earthquake in mexico... Or smoething to do with the san andreas fault? My freinds uncle is also phsyic and he saw something devistating a while back... I'm just recently trying to get more insight into it:S
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Ara, I saw you commented on one of my posts so I will put my reply here as I figure you will see it more easily:). I do have to apologize first off I read my comment back to myself a moment ago and realized it sounded rather harsh. I didn't mean it to come across that way, its just when I sense or know something I always feel its best and can hone in best when I just put it bluntly. I do believe that my reaction was my psychic part, not opinion. When I read your post it was if someone was telling me what I wrote as if it were fact, so I can only assume it to be. I am still learning how to trust my psychic side, believe me I doubt it more than I dont! I have a lot of trouble dealing with it also, I wish I was as together as you made me sound! Lol It is a learning process, I have learned in the past couple years to just go with what I get, and most of the time I'm correct- which is a very hard thing to do for fear of being labeled as a wacko or worse, being wrong and then in turn not being believed when I am right. I feel you on the voices and the going mad feeling too, it can be SOOO overwhelming. The best thing to do is just relax, realize that you are not alone, and that you will be ok. Just go with the flow so to speak. I can go weeks or months with little or nothing and then suddenly the dreams, feelings, and voices are back with a vengence. Believe in yourself, and listen to what you get, but go forward with common sense as well in your actions. Good Luck!

Psychic abilities, Mediumship, and other gifted abilities can often be mistaken for Schizophrenia and other mental illnesses. The best way around this is to PROVE your abilities to nonbelievers.

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To increase powers: It is not necessary to increase "powers". You are given the abilities to use it for good. When you accept this and the Universe feels you are ready, then they might increase. Until then, use what you already have, using it to help others.

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Your mother might appreciate knowing what you had seen.

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I think it is an excellent idea.

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You will relate to the story I posted. I used to be just like you. You might find my stories and posts helpful.

Oracle101, Psychic and Medium for 43 years
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You seem to have some abilities that are similar to mine so you might want to read my stories and posts. You may find them helpful.

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