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Honestly I can't believe I am writing this or that I'm writing this on a Psychic website. Most of the stories I have read typically involve younger people who have had their special sight develop slowly over time. My story is quite different.

I am 44 years old. I have been quite emotionally deficient my whole life. I really thought I was defective because I cannot remember ever feeling love for someone, or feeling loved by someone. Well this has changed, and quite abruptly.

I have Never really put much stock in the stories I have read about psychic experiences or empathic connections because it isn't really quantifiable. The story usually can't be verified because it's just a few people involved, and it's a sense or feeling shared between them.

So here is the story;

I recently (within the last 6 months) have formed a very strong relationship with a young girl (19) who was dating my Son for a time. Now it's not that kind of a relationship. I see her as my daughter today, but it took some time for that to develop, and she calls me Dad.

the thing is, since she has been in my life, I feel love. I feel depression, which was something I also couldn't feel before. The emotion has become much stronger as time has passed. I want to dwell on this just a bit so you can get the sense of what I'm saying. This girl came into my life and ripped me wide open. I now feel love so intensely that it is overwhelming. Often I don't know how to process it because I have never felt it before. BTW, my wife knows about the relationship and has taken this girl into our lives. Side note, I have always loved my Wife, in my head, but never felt the emotion in my heart.

Recent developments have made it so that I took a job 3000 miles away from home, and I had to move quickly. My Wife and new Daughter had to stay behind to deal with the details of moving, and they will join me soon. I have been 3000 miles away for nearly 8 weeks now without them.

Here is where the story gets interesting and why I'm posting it here. My connection with this girl has gotten stronger since I have been so far away. When I was back home, I could feel her, I could tell what she was feeling even though she would deny it. I thought I was just good at guessing or just seeing the signs. Now that I am so far away it has continued. I feel a strong conscious connection, but I have started to recognize a deeper one.

She has recently had a lot of trouble with her boyfriend. I have been getting feelings from her. I can tell her mood, her emotion, without even talking with her. Often I send her text messages to address her feelings before she has told me about them, but she hasn't asked me how I know. I can feel her, I can feel what kind of person she is in her inner most heart. I had been dismissing these feelings mostly because I didn't know exactly how to deal with it or to reconcile it within myself. I'm an emotional infant.

Then, recently I have had 2 dreams. One of them was from her viewpoint, I know because I caught a glimpse of myself in a car window and I was her. I saw people that I didn't recognize. Then later she posted some pictures of people that she was at a party with, it was the same people I saw in the dream, but I had never seen these people prior to that. The other dream was much less comfortable because I was my Daughter again, but in a much more intimate setting with her boyfriend. I really didn't want to experience it, and I think that those moments are not for me to see or experience.

So, I told her about this just 2 nights ago. She told me that she has known about my connection to her for longer than I have known. She told me that I have always known what she was feeling, even when she denies it to me. I don't get anything real strong, just a sense of mood or emotion, but nothing you could just put your finger on. I would describe it as an insight. Until she told me, I had no idea how accurate it was. I have been trying to not feel it because I feel like a voyeur or something, especially with the dream clips that I can remember.

My Daughter believes in Psychic connections and so she has encouraged me to let it happen. She doesn't mind that I can feel her. Odd thing is that it doesn't go both ways, she doesn't seem to be able to feel me. Anyhow, once she encouraged me to just let it happen, I had a really intense burst of... I don't even know what to call it. But it happened while I was asleep. At six in the morning I woke up and had felt her heart completely. I could know the turmoil and conflict she was having over her boyfriend who she had just broke up with. I could feel me in her heart and the strong love she has for me. It was a bit creepy because it was all very feminine and I am anything but. It gave me an insight into what girls feel and how they perceive things, but it was powerful and intense.

I haven't shared that with her yet. I am actually scared of this thing. Why me, and why now, and why with only her? I'm afraid that this could get stronger still. I don't want her to confide in me because she thinks I already know, I want her to confide in me because she trusts me to never be harsh with her spirit. I love her so much and would never do anything to harm her. I feel like I'm her protector.

As you can tell, I'm conflicted about this. I can't deny that it's real, but I am at a loss to explain it. I also feel a lot of guilt over it because I could never share this with my Wife or anyone else for that matter without getting a divorce from my wife of 25 years, or looking like I'm a lunatic. I am grateful for being able to share it here though. I'm open to comments and guidance. There is actually more background, but that could take up a lot more of everyone's time, and I think I have given enough detail for you to get the gist of the situation.

I just re-read this whole post, it reads very matter of fact when I feel anything but. I am actually very emotional right now as I write these things. I seem to get emotional over lots of things now that never would have effected me before. To me, it's actually quite annoying. I'm not the strong logical person I was before, I now have this layer of empathy that I never have had. As I said before, it's difficult to process, but it's getting better.

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The following comments are submitted by users of this site and are not official positions by psychic-experiences.com. Please read our guidelines and the previous posts before posting. The author, Duckett5, has the following expectation about your feedback: I will participate in the discussion and I need help with what I have experienced.

PsychicJR (8 stories) (541 posts)
 
10 years ago (2014-04-25)
Okau just to say that you meditating makes it weaker maybe she is the one that is giveing you it that's what I could think of

Or

You re a psychic vampire and took the feelings from her abd she was you pray and you could have felt her sorry I don't know much bout this hope it helps 😉
Duckett5 (1 stories) (15 posts)
 
10 years ago (2014-04-16)
I received an email about this post after so long. I felt I should follow up with what I have learned. Control is an illusion. These gifts are given to us not for us to control them, but to teach us to open up to what the universe is trying to express through us. The lesson is not to "get" the mastery over it, but to "Let" it happen through us. We tend to see things in terms of our five senses, or in strictly physical terms. We are being shown that there is a whole other side to us that is of spirit and energy and we need to open up to it. My path has opened up to so many things once I released the notion of control and went with the flow. I have had so many different kinds of "psychic" experiences since writing the original post, but now I don't see them as an object of my attention or focus, rather as a side effect of living a life of feeling and love and happiness which has all come from my releasing the idea of control and becoming willing to let the universes energy flow through me.

Blessings to all.
sierrabatley (3 posts)
 
12 years ago (2012-08-11)
ive had the same experience with my brother, I can feel him even though hes far away. I can hear him in my head and had dreams where I was him and living his life, it scared me at first but it made me closer to him when hes not here with me.
Javelina (67 posts)
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13 years ago (2011-03-27)
Duckett5,
Just the fact that you are considering my opinion as a valid one gives me hope for your situation. Sometimes our abilities can get us into trouble, and we will usually be the last ones to come to the realization that we had picked up on something and let it consume us.
The thing I find the most difficult to deal with is coming across someone that feels truly helpless. Their sadness and fear is almost too much to bear and all we want to ease their burden, soothe that sadness, and help right their situation. It can eat you up if you're not careful. It becomes personal to you and you want to fight their demons for them, when what we should be doing is helping them to learn to fight them on their own. It's hard not to want to be the savior in that situation.
Peace be with you brother, you'll do the right thing in the end.
Thanks for listening. 😊
Duckett5 (1 stories) (15 posts)
 
13 years ago (2011-03-26)
Javelina, It's amazing that you are the one who wrote this reply to me. I have recently been drawn to your other posts and considered them to be on point, you seem like a straight shooter. Since this is the case, and I have a new perspective on "coincidence", I will seriously consider what you have written. Thank you for your perspective on this.
Javelina (67 posts)
 
13 years ago (2011-03-25)
Duckett5,
I was holding back from commenting on your experiences for fear of sounding harsh and over protective. But something keeps drawing me back here so I figure I may as well put my thoughts forward on the subject.
Before I get into the meat of this I think it only fair that you should know that I'm coming at this as a mother of three grown daughters. That right there should give you an idea where my thoughts are on this.
You sound like a nice person, and that's what is making this so difficult for me. I don't want to discourage you from your new found feelings and abilities, far from it. I too am an empath of sorts and my ablity is quite strong. Much like yours, mine easily crosses distances, and I pick up much more when working with electronic media such as I am doing now.
This has been a problem at times and I am constantly receiving advice from concerned friends about the use of shields. Even after reading your comments below, I am still on the fence about it as I've always felt that by doing so I'd be inadvertantly shutting out things that could be important. You see, I have a knack for getting to the core of a subject/mystery to find what makes it tick and I'm afraid if I put up a sheild I may been denying the information I would need to get to conclusions I seek.
All that aside, I must warn you to back away from this relationship you've been fostering with Jen. The fact that her presence in your life has awoken your sensitivities is all fine and good, but to be perfectly honest it has moved from an awakening to bordering on obsession.
The fact that you call her "daughter", when she is not, is a bright flashing neon warning sign. It is a sad attempt at legitimizing a relationship that you have no right to be in. She is a friend of your sons, which is where that should have remained. The fact that your wife is going along with this is not surprising, and although she is an innocent in this situation, she could ultimately be seen as an enabler. Do you really want to drag her down to that?
You cannot, though you'll try, use Jen's perceived willingness to go along with this as an excuse to continue persueing her. And yes, you are the persuer in this mess. For although she is chronologically an adult, she is still much too young to go head first into this. You don't have the right to do this to all the others who would be adversely affected by your actions.
You may not see your actions and words as anything but innocent. And all the talk about you wanting her to marry another and have a good life is convincing to a point, but you are showing all the signs of obsession and if you don't find a way to curb your emotions and change the current situation, it will spiral. And the people who love you will suffer undo emotional stress and heartache.
I am not sorry for the position I've taken and I'm sure that others will disagree with my assessment. But I must warn you that I've got a pretty good track record when it comes to things like this, and I'm rarely wrong.
Reread everything you've written here from my perspective, if that's at all possible, and hopefully you'll see what brought me to my conclusions.
😐
Duckett5 (1 stories) (15 posts)
 
13 years ago (2011-03-24)
Damn, I was hoping for more input. I am trying to meditate to control what's happening to me, but it seems to be having the opposite effect, or none at all. This "Gift" is accelerating into much more and I can't do anything about it. I don't want this anymore.
Duckett5 (1 stories) (15 posts)
 
13 years ago (2011-03-15)
I wanted to let you know that I have had an additional experience. The other day, Friday morning, I felt a serious panic. There was no reason for it in my life, it began to bother me so much that I sent a text to Jen to make sure she was ok. She was.

We have been moving from Idaho to Florida so all of my modern conveniences have been packed on a trailer in transit. So I didn't find out until just this past Sunday that there was a serious disaster in Japan on Friday Morning. I am figuring that this must have been the panic that I felt because nothing else has surfaced to explain it.
Duckett5 (1 stories) (15 posts)
 
13 years ago (2011-02-28)
I was wondering if anyone has any thoughts on what kind of psychic connection I am experiencing. Should I expect it to broaden to me feeling the emotions of others? Why do you suppose it surfaced just with Jen?

I have lots of questions that may not have clear answers, but I am interested in opinions.
Duckett5 (1 stories) (15 posts)
 
13 years ago (2011-02-26)
Edmund, Thank you for your advice and direction. I had been working on "Shielding" techniques through meditation that I had read about here on the site. I actually managed to stop the connection all together which isn't what I wanted to do. I didn't realize that I am connected with Jen all of the time and when that connection was blocked I became physically ill, it was like emotional withdrawal for lack of a better term.
I will work on doing what you said and hopefully I can get more than just on, or off. Any help in this regard is much appreciated.

Thank you for your wish of love and light, I am happy to receive it and wish it to you as well.
Edmund (578 posts)
+1
13 years ago (2011-02-25)
Duckett5... That is a very interesting story. I would look at it as a learning opportunity since you stated that you were quite emotionally deficient. In fact it is quite the emo bomb. Now that you have an insight on how the other side thinks and feels you can take that into consideration when dealing with women. It may be important to label the connection with Jen in your mind. As an example you can simply state that it is a psychic connection or that you knew each other in a past life. Once your mind accepts the label then you can put limits on how much you wish to recieve. Again that is a unique story... Love and light to you both!
Duckett5 (1 stories) (15 posts)
 
13 years ago (2011-02-24)
Thank you Anne, I do view it as a gift. I am still figuring out how to integrate it into my being, but it's an awesome, scary experience. Jen (that's her name) and I have discussed her finding someone special and moving on in that direction and I'm more than fine with that. She wants to integrate me into that as her Dad and all the rights and responsibilities that go with it, naturally I am honored.

I still don't know what to think about the connection I have with her. I told her about the "emotional download" I had after she told me to "Just go with it". I was embarrassed because it was so personal, but she told me it was OK and that she felt honored that this special gift could make our bond even closer. She is a very brave girl, she told me not to fight it.

I am still concerned that I will know things that are in her heart that I shouldn't know, but she is completely open to it.

I have been doing as much research as I can to try to catch up with this. I am currently reading the book "Celestine Prophesy" to try to get a grasp of the bigger picture.

Thanks again Anne for your kind words.
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
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13 years ago (2011-02-24)
We all have emotional layers to our being even if we don't yet feel them. It's part of being human. For whatever reason, it took a certain person to unblock your emotions. The how's and why's don't matter as much as the fact that you now know love.

You may think things in life just happen and it's all one big coincidence but I think everything happens for a reason. Ultimately, on your deathbed, you will not be doing a life review of the material things you've left behind or even a career. What will impact you the most will be your relationships. I don't think you were meant to leave this life without knowing love. People are put in our path to take us to the next level of our spiritual growth. And now that you know love, I'm sure you cannot go back to what you were before, nor would you want to.

This girl may not may not stay in your life in the manner in which you want. She very well may find someone, marry and have her own life. But no matter what, she will leave you the most important gift a person can give or share - love.
Anne

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