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Being a Medium


Everyone will think it's really cool to be a medium, to me I fear it's like I can't control what I see. If you read my story "Orbs and Spirits" then you know what I am talking about. I think it really scares me to death and the things I see are just too much.

Just last night I heard this voice of a men telling me to look, so I looked in my room and I saw nothing. Just like my other story I found out that the things I saw were spirits. My father said I should not fear them but the fear just keeps growing in me, Sometimes I feel that I must cry. I have had this since I was ten years old, like that it ruined my childhood (I am 12 years old but almost 13). I have read many stories about being a medium and I really enjoyed them. The only thing I like about being a medium is that I can help my friends and family with there decreased love ones.

For example: my cousin really loved her grandfather and since he died when he was sleeping, and I bet he did not know he would die, I am trying my hardest to bring him to this world. If he wants to tell my cousin anything, I am able to do that 24/7. I know how much my cousin loves him so am trying my best to bring him here.

Thank you for reading this.


And if you can help me try not to fear this please tell me. I was born a psychic and medium and I get scared fast, so please with all my heart if you can help me, please tell me.

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OfficialKaiKayako (9 posts)
10 years ago (2011-09-07)
I do not know if I can help you, but we can probabley help each other.
I can help you to not fear your gift, and you can help me communicate with a loved one. Sound good? Email me please!?
Moon_dancer34 (1 posts)
10 years ago (2011-08-18)
Darlin', I'm 15. I've been a Medium sense as long as I can remember, I see Aura's, I can feel emotions, intensely through people's eyes. I know I am reading this, a lot later then you posted it...
But you're going to see some pretty scary, shiz.
The best thing you can do, if you don't want to see it, Tell it, you will listen to it later, that you have some stuff you have to do right now. And if you want to help it, Ask it what it wants. I can't go into hospitals because of these Spirits, but sometimes, all a Spirit wants, is someone to hear them out. And acknowledge that they are there, and that they are dead. -- For instance, I was on the phone with my friend, and I was telling him about how I dislike War's, and on my Step Dad's computer popped up two or three different pages, One about Floods in Washington State, One about Three troops killed in Afgan, and I walked over to my step dad's computer, and read what it said, I told my mom, my mom and I looked everywhere on the Internet for this troops name, or maybe where his family was, We found out he had a Daughter, and a Wife, and I think a Son, And when we came to the picture of his Family, he told me 'Tell them I love them?' And Poof he was gone, he just wanted one person to listen to him. -- Maybe this will help.
mediumnick (1 stories) (27 posts)
11 years ago (2011-02-28)
trust me I am too and I can also hear them to and you will never be able to control it at least from what I know. I see women kids men and I also see balls of light that are so beautiful and it is really calming. I'm just a beginner to so I really have no techniques that I know I just wanted you to know that you have similar experiences like me
Cylester (1 posts)
11 years ago (2011-02-19)
I know the feeling, I see ghost,demons, and the ghost even asked me for my help. Ever since I was 3years old I saw angels, when I grew older I saw angels, ghost demons. I recorded something in my house, I'm 37 now, and it said 'i realy hate you'. Dont know what was. I even have prophetic dreams, and sometimes when I sleep my spirit feel something in my room, I can see in my sleep state my spirit search in my room what ever it is in my room and I can hear my spirit say 'in the name of Jesus begone'. Did any one had these happen to them
Domo (17 posts)
13 years ago (2009-02-19)
you are not a medium, you are psychic. Mediumship is another thing, it is when other souls come into your body, and you can say what they want you to say for them
lrkmedium101 (7 stories) (105 posts)
13 years ago (2008-07-08)
i suggest that you pray and meditate everyday to gain even more control. I can also do what you do bring people back who are in heven for a moment. I did with my grandmas father. My grandma is the only one that knows of my gift.
❤ leah
SunderMic (3 stories) (123 posts)
14 years ago (2008-04-05)
Of course its scary, only you can see them because of your ability, where not many can.
ive been seeing this one spirit recently an elderly lady, scares me all the time, but I have to overcome it to try and help, if I can which I'm trying to make my abilities better by meditating, you should do the same it will clear your mind. And to see the spirits more better and you will get used to it as time goes on.
pinkbabe63 (guest)
14 years ago (2008-02-13)
Don't be that scared about what you see. I have dreams and visions and although they are not really powerful yet I knoww that when they get more powerful as I get older some of them will be scary but although your scared you need to try not to be that scared because you are gifted with this connection and even though its scary these spirits probably need your help and if you can help them then that's great. Even if you can't or you don't understand it don't worry, like you dad says there's nothing to fear! If you need more help contact me or someone else that has replied just try not to think about it too much and don't worry! If you want to read my stories of my experiences feel free! 😁
monica (guest)
14 years ago (2007-12-01)
What you are seeing and feeling is real. Life exists on may different planes and dimensions. This includes all of our selves and all the selves of all others in each dimension of existance.

No Fear... This is your reality because you are a loving/loved conscious being. You are awake. Keep the faith...learn, love, laugh.
ginahunt3 (2 posts)
14 years ago (2007-11-07)
You have a special gift that I only dream of having. I have small occurances which I believe are from the spirit world. When my grandmother died she was awake and alert but she was on life support and could not speak with the tubes down her throat. She did try to say things by moving her eyes and head (nodding) when spoken to. In the 2 years since I have been trying to tap into any abilities I may have with no luck. I need closure but I can't afford a reading with a profesional medium. Cherish your gift don't fear it. Just try to learn how to control and understand it. Continue to help your loved ones because the messages from beyond that you give them are the best gifts you can give them and the ones they will cherish forever.
bornundervenus (2 stories) (17 posts)
14 years ago (2007-10-17)
You know the phraze there is nothing to few but fear itself. This is a truth that I try to live by, though not always am I unafraid of the things I have experenced. When you are afraid get stern, talk to the spirit and tell them not now. I'm 26 and adopted I have had some drama in my life so it wasn't until I was 16 that I knew I had a gift. If you want you can read about some my experiences(suddenly I'm psychic). Two days ago I saw a shadow in my apartment that looked like someone was sitting on the couch next to my boyfriend (who is not a medium). Then it looked like the shadow slid down behind the couch. It wasn't until my boyfriend stood up that I realized that the spirit stood up and moved away from the couch. I told him about it and he said that he didn't want to know because it frightened him. He's 24. But again like I said before talk to the spirits and tell them to leave you be, or not right now, and see if you get a little peace.
Ghost_Whisperer (guest)
14 years ago (2007-10-16)
I've been a psychic medium for as long as I can remember and I understand how stressful it can be. However, the facts are ghosts need someone to cross them over and if you have the opportunity to help... Why not? No one should let fear rule their life. I used to be scared of what I saw, too, but after realizing how much I could help them and their loved ones left behind I accepted that the gift was a part of me and I might as well make the most of it. You should, too.

Yes, it can be scary at first, but in the long run you may be grateful for the gift. Think of how many ghosts you can cross over, families you can help... Being a medium also opens up many opportunities. Meditating, thinking positively, communicating with spirit guides (you don't have to be scared of them; they're just there to help you), and self-hypnotism can really help. (Of course, everyone has some bad days and you might want to put salt out like Katie said to get a good nights sleep) But in general you should keep practising and it'll get easier over time.

What's stronger; your fear or desire to make the world a better place? If you want to heal and help people and spirits, just hang in there remembering how much good you can do. If you want to let fear stop you... There IS a way to decrease your mediumship abilities, but I wouldn't suggest it. The Chinese symbol for 'crisis' is also the symbol for 'opportunity' and God never sends you anything you can't handle. You've really got nothing to fear but the fear itself. However, it's really your decision at the end of the day, so just think about it.
Katie (guest)
14 years ago (2007-10-16)
I have see ghosts and orbs . It can be frightening at sometimes they come when your least expecting it. If you don't like the spirits then put salt on your walls and put half glass of holy water at the side of your bed DON'T DRINK IT THOUGH. Orbs are spirits so I would say I see ghosts and spirits.
Kyte (guest)
14 years ago (2007-10-16)
I see so many similarities between us. I too was born into a psychic family, and have been around many who are openly spiritually including both my parents. I am 14 about to turn 15, and all my life I have been able to see spirits. Though I rarely ever communicate with them. I have felt your fear because I have felt like I was being watched while sleeping, I have seen dead relatives, and have been able to describe them fully, even if I've never seen a picture, or even met them. Though recently it seems if you accept what's happening its less frightening.
Though I understand fully its hard not to be scared out of your mind! I say you should say a prayer before going to bed, and sometime in the morning, that's how I usually cope with things. Though sometimes it can be a curse people like us are gifted because we start out in the world as a "medium" instead of studying for years. I say you should further increase your powers because likely there not going to go away. I'll talk more on the subject later. God Bless.

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