Comments for A Better Tomorrow: Page 1

haha yes some people can be cruel and some people can be cruel for underlying reasons. I knew someone that had a certain type of 'disease' that made them act a certain way, and it made them seem extremely cruel, yet at the same time I was unfamiliar about this uncruelty... Because it was something I never felt emotionally from someone before. Later, I found out that she had a mental disorder... So sometimes it can be horrid to deal with some people, but one must be open minded to the possibilites of what others deal with.

You could have just caught someone on a bad day

But most of the time you can see it from a bad day to just a negative person all around

Holli - as always your voice caught my ear. Years ago, I was 23 or 24, an older woman was mean to me - at a job. She said mean stuff. I was nice despite it. A few months passed. My friends told me that they had talked to her. I wasn't afraid, just feel some people need to vent. Weeks passed. Then she apologized. Her son had Downs syndrome, she left work and cared for him. Her husband travelled and she resented me being young and all the plans I made. I told her that was perfectly understandable and I admired her taking care of her son, but I would like a little more peace. Her son was in his twenties. She had dealt with this for decades. Sometimes, we just don't know peoples' heartaches. I felt she had one. Didn't know until this apology about the son, few did. He died about a year later, his heart. That is not uncommon with Down syndrome people, but it was sad.

AAAAHHHH! You have been reading my mind! Oh man does it feel good to know that I am not the only one. Lately, I've been having to deal with this negative energy person that insists on coming at least twice a day to talk to one of my co-workers who sits near me. I have to listen to her drivel and try not to scream, or launch across the desk to choke her. I basically told her the other day that I would never say another word to me after she said some mean and childish things. Today when I walked past her to go see my boss, she growled at me! And this woman is over 50 years old! I wanted to smack the taste out of her mouth, but all I could do was laugh at her poor, bitter soul. 😆

True, but sometimes they don't even have to be 'in the door' if they are leaving from work... People that I have a real good connection too... I can view almost at anytime... And it just really sucks when someone has negative energy like almost all the time. I have already talked with them, and we are working to stop the 'madness' haha, though luckily got past the whole part of feeling their energy and what not... So that's over with. Now it's just changing their thinking habits... Which can be very hard if you'd have them over a long time... And it's painful for both parties. But sometimes you can't always block it out, I just wish sometimes that people were more concious in general.

I know what you mean by feeling people's negative energy. I'm usually good at predicting people. I can't stand when someone comes home in a bad mood. I can feel it as soon as they walk in the door. It actually makes me anxious and my back tenses even more causing me even more pain. I personally can't stand it. The positive side of sensing people is we are more aware of danger. This has saved me several times throughout my life. 😊