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I wouldn't be reaching out, if at this time I didn't feel it necessary. There is a man that I have been friends with the past 3 years. We first met when we were 16, which was 30 years ago. He and I had quite an encounter. When I met him, it was the first of many in one night. We didn't have sex, but we did have a sexual experience. He was the first person I ever kissed, the first person I ever did anything with-that night. Nothing ever came of it afterwards. He went to a different high school but it was painful for me. 25-30 years later, we connected. We see each other, there is an unbelievable chemistry that can't be denied. He is an artist as well as a salesman.

This is very hard to explain. But through the past 3 years, as hard as I try to forget about him, we have this crazy connection. And he will draw things in his art, that I am thinking about or have envisioned. I don't really even know if he knows he's doing it. There have been instances where, he will draw something, and pair it with a song, a word or a poem. And the poem will be something I have researched the day before, without him ever knowing. He will title an art piece with one word. And that one word, as I'm looking at it, will be repeated at the exact same time on the radio or television. And the word isn't something that is a normal word. For example, he titled an art piece "Catharsis". At the exact same time I was reading it, I heard it being repeated on the television -3 times in within 1 minute. I will vision myself being trapped in a jail cell, and he will draw a woman trapped behind barbed wire that looks like a jail cell, the very next day. The examples go on and on.

I have tried accepting and nurturing the connection. The thing is, the more I accept it, the more he pulls away. The second I try and pull away from the connection and try to break it, the stronger the connection gets and more incidences happen. I've told him about them. And he says he's felt them too, but that's as far as the conversation goes. He tells me he can't have a relationship, but that I'm important to him. It's breaking me. I can't force a man to love me. But we have this crazy connection. Is it all in my head? Am I making them up or making them into more than they really are?

I don't know what to do, because the second I try and break that connection, the stronger it gets. Can I break it? And more importantly, should I break it?

Please help me. I feel tormented.

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vanillabean (9 stories) (168 posts)
8 years ago (2016-03-11)
Hmmm you might want to do some researching (googling) about Twin Flames. Twin Flames often meet up and then meet up again later in life. Soulmates too. Twin Flames will have that phenomenon where when you try to let go, the signs only get stronger. It can be maddening. I have actually been going through something similar for 7 years now. So I know how it feels, like you embrace it and you are rejected, and then you muster your strength and walk away, and then it haunts you in a very real way so that you quite literally can not forget it. Look up Twin Flames and also False Twin Flames. ❤
spookvanger (13 stories) (137 posts)
8 years ago (2016-03-10)
I wish to add to AnneV's comments with which I agree.
I share your anguish as the same has happened to me. During my lifetime I had many psychic experiences which can be read in my profile or my blogs under That is by the way. What I'm about to explain may ease your burden.
One of the most important Universal Laws is the Law of Cause and Effect. In other words, for every cause there is an effect and for every effect there will be a cause. (I trust I'm not boring you!)
Now, the Bible tells you that in order to get to heaven you must be reborn. This is called Reincarnation. When you leave the earth plane, commonly called "die", you will be shown all the things you have done wrong in your life. In your next life you must atone for all your wrong doings. The scale must be leveled or: what you sow you shall reap. This is in very short.
What you are experiencing now can be the effect of a cause in your previous incarnation. In which case, what will be will be, and there is nothing you can do about it. Accept it as your Karma and be pleased that you are at present atoning for it.
May the Love, Peace and protection of the Creator be with you every step of your way.
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
8 years ago (2016-03-08)
Having a connection with a person doesn't automatically (as you have found out) lead to a romantic relationship. This person is being honest with you by admitting the connection but also being clear there is to be no romantic relationship. Hopefully you can respect his wishes and not become obsessed by this. If it's already at that point and you wish to get out of your tormented state, it may be time to break that connection by doing different things with your time and trying to let go of someone who can't fulfill you romantically. Our thoughts are actual 'things' of energy and this is why people can feel when someone is about to call. Your thrust of constant thoughts of him is going to inevitably show up in his work. You say you are friends but you clearly want more. That isn't going to work and if you don't move on from this it may get uncomfortable for him. I don't want to use the word stalking but if someone won't respect another person's request and still won't let go, it can become distorted.

I hope you are able to find some peace.

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