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Are We Telepathically Speaking?


For the past 4 or 5 years, I believe I have been having a psychic connection with this man. The first experience occurred when I first saw him. I watched him and I thought to myself, "Wow, he's cute." He was standing just a few feet away from me. Then he looked right at me as if I had spoken out loud, and smiled. I was kind of spooked. So I thought, "Did you hear me?" He looked away, started walking, and nodded, still smiling.

At the time, I was heavily practicing Wicca, & I was in a coven with two other girls. We were extremely close, and we had been meditating & practicing sending telepathic messages/images to each other. Of course, the telepathy was at a major minimum. When I told them about him, they told me to try it again or actually talk to him. So I chose to try it again. Any time I saw him, I focused on him & I would mentally ask him to touch his ear, touch his nose, or rub the back of his neck if he could hear me. Little things like that. But no matter what, every time I said to do something, he did it. There was like a two to three second delay. It was actually pretty freaky. I asked him if he would approach me, but he never did. So we didn't speak in person.

Once, I remember he was standing outside, and I thought, "Wave to someone. Just turn around, not too many people are around, so no one will think anything of it." And sure enough, he did! Out of nowhere, he turned around and waved at no one in particular. It was crazy. That was one of the more major experiences.

I only asked him to do these things to test if he could actually hear me, not to manipulate him.

Not only could I give him small commands, but I also began to hear HIS voice in my head. It was small talk, like the kind strangers have at parties. But then, it got more personal. I felt like every thought I had, he could hear. At first it was like an invasion of privacy, then I felt like I wanted him to know. We would even tell each other that we loved one another.

A specific incident of this was when I heard him say in my head, "I'm right out front, come see me." But I needed to complete a paper. So I thought, "Wait, I really need to know where Mongolia is." And he said, "It's right under Russia." (which it is) so I finished up, went outside, and he was right there.

I got the courage to speak to him in person after several months, finally. I don't remember EXACTLY what it was that I said, but I put it in very simple terms. I had said it mentally first so that he would know. When I asked him in person, he just shook his head and smiled really wide, like that first time I saw him. He said, "I don't understand," or something simple like that. It really upset me that I didn't get some sort of response from him, so I felt like I was stupid or crazy and after that I've never spoken to him verbally ever since. But for the past few years, I've still been communicating with him mentally. I don't see him as often, but when I do, the connection is like a live wire. It's a very odd sensation.

It's really strange as I have tried it with other people, including my coven sisters, but nothing is as strong as the connection with him. I've wondered why; maybe I know him from a past life? Maybe he is my guardian angel or soul mate? Maybe he's trying to mentally brake me? Or, maybe I'm flat out crazy? Believe me, I thought I was crazy for a while. I have always been intrigued by parapsychology and my mom swears I'm an empath or an indigo child. I've only told my coven sisters of these experiences with this man.

I'd really like to know why this connection is so strong, why is this happening, and if it makes me a bad person for possessing this power over him? I am very confused and have been for so long. Advice/Comments?

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CaseeHoover (1 posts)
11 years ago (2012-05-25)
This story is exactly what I've been dealing with over the last ten years.
Thank you for the responses. They have help me alot!
mairijeaan (2 stories) (10 posts)
14 years ago (2009-12-13)
I doubt that you are controlling him by any stretch of the imagination, though these experiences don't make absolute sense. Why didn't he talk with you? Maybe he wasn't sure it was real? I am intrigued by your case.
excitedillumination (3 posts)
14 years ago (2009-08-12)
Ah! I've been testing this out with some of my friends too. Sometimes they respond and sometimes they don't. I can't tell if they have this gift, also or if it's some unspoken bond that you just don't talk about it and that person just doesn't feel like "playing." REGARDLESS, I believe it's so cool to have the ability to share with someone else, we can really learn a lot.
31CalmBeforeTheStorm13 (2 stories) (4 posts)
14 years ago (2009-04-16)
I have also experimented with this as well. I also have a very strong connection with the opposite sex, but can also have limited connection with the other sex. It's mainly what you prefer. If I were gay, I think that I would be able to communicate with the men better. It's always what you are willing to accept on a sbuconscious level. For me, I long for deep female connection, which I often get. I have never had a female acknowledge the connection or anything but I can assure you that it is real. I'm hoping through dating that I can find someone that is similar to me so that we may share this. It is a very powerful tool and for a long time I attributed it to this one girl with whom I had a lot of experiences with. I considered her my soult mate and whatnot. But I have found out that that is not true. I can connect deeply to others. It's all about what you accept and what you dont- or what you can handle.
Katie (42 stories) (369 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-17)
hi Its sounds like you really connect. Me and my boyfriend do as well. Like we both pick up the phone at the same time and phone each other just things like that. Its mad really but freaky. My boyfriend and other people find it freaky but I don't. I just find it funny. I enjoyed reading your story.
Sour09 (1 stories) (3 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-16)
Thanks Kris.

I will be thinking about all this. It is very possible that my coven sisters and I are blocking. We practice sending images/words often, & they are usually relatively clear. But we've never held conversations.

Though, I don't think I've illustrated exactly what happens between him and me; I wrote what was most important and basically gave an overall summary. There are so many details and occurances I left out that have happened in the past 5 years. Really, I am not trying to as much as it just happens. About a week ago, I wasn't even thinking about him, and I heard his voice repeating my name then say, "I'm here. I miss you." It threw me off as I was NOT tuned in. So I went outside, and he was. I documented it; it occured October 8th- last week. When we first began to communicate-the point in time when I could also hear his voice- it was not intentional. But the more I became aware, the more I concentrated. He can actually mentally address me by name.

When I see him, I don't think he is amazingly attractive or anything like that. The connection goes beyond seeing. I can literally feel energy and vibrations coming from him. I feel as though he is sending me this energy, and I am not just picking up on his stray or aural energy. It is a very strange feeling.
Kris (1 stories) (13 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-16)
A question no one has yet to answer- why him? Why is this connection with HIM, and not one of my coven sisters, or any other random person? I don't even physically KNOW him.

Why not your coven sisters? You and your coven sisters are learning... While it feels great and wonderful I'm sure there is some fear there. Do you really want them reading your thoughts? Do you really want to read theirs? Are you afraid to know what they are really thinking? You and your coven sisters may be subconsciously blocking each other. You are all privy to the knowledge of doing things of this nature and who really wants all their thoughts read? You may be creating your own block and are you really tuning into their energy when you try? Are you trying to hard to communicate this way? Listen to your body and don't over think trying to communicate with your sisters. You don't feel threatened when you try to communicate with a stranger. 😁
Kris (1 stories) (13 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-16)
I don't think anyone could answer exactly why... The two of you may have similar frequency/energy so it takes your brain less effort to communicate together. Maybe you felt less threatened by trying to connect with someone you don't even know, so you were more relaxed to actually allow it to happen. It is truly possible that he doesn't know that this information he has in his head has any truth to it. To him this could be just random conversations he is having in his head. I've been messing around with the telepathic thing somewhat this last year and it's not as cut and dry as you think. I understand the connection you have made, I get it. But that doesn't mean he does. It doesn't mean that he gets every word you are saying. Some people get telepathic information differently. You told him to touch his nose... Maybe it made his nose itch when you sent that. When I played around with a guy friend of mine I would close my eyes and relax when he would send me messages. I would get a visual of what he was sending mostly in black and white unless a color was important in the message. I would sometimes get subtle feelings. With him it was never like a voice in my head. But I don't know if it was more empathic or telepathic that was going on. Because there were two times we got on the phone together and I got a headache right after getting on the phone with him and it turned out that he had a headache. I would be able to get the headache to go away after getting off the phone with him. I would also get very physical feelings from him. He could pinch me from 45 miles away. If he would concentrate on me physically I could pin point where he was concentrating. I never got clear thoughts from him that I know of but if he was mad at me he didn't have to be anywhere near me to "be in my face" I could feel the hate or him pushing from miles away. Just don't assume someone you don't know has a clue to what is happening or how they are getting the information and in what form they are getting the information. We all have different strong points of getting information and it might not really be in words in his head that he is getting it. Exchanging of thoughts especially someone you don't know is going to be confusing for both of you. Are you projecting this "connection" are you projecting your feelings on him and him not really having these feelings on his own? There are so many questions you can't answer because you don't have a relationship of any kind with this person and you are still learning. You can project feelings of affection onto people that have no affection for you. Tread lightly sweetie with people you don't actually have a real relationship with to be able to communicate what is going. You are still learning and you don't want to "create" feelings people really aren't experiencing on their own. I became very confused with the person I was playing around with telepathic stuff. I began not to know what were my feelings and his. It isn't always all fun and games learning to deal with what your gifts are and how they relate to reality. Hope this gives you some things to think about. 😁
Sour09 (1 stories) (3 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-15)

I truly do not believe he is conscious of all this. And you raise an excellent point- he may not know where the information is coming from, just random thoughts of his own. Although, as I wrote above, there was a point where we would mentally converse and BOTH of our thoughts were exchanged. Which means, I wasn't just asking him questions or to do things, I was giving him information about myself and my life. How could he possibly explain knowing such personal things about my life if he doesn't know me?

That does theorize a lot, though. I suppose he gets a lot of 'hunches' from me, according to your explanation. That sounds absolutely rational. Thank you for this new take on it. I hadn't even thought about that.

A question no one has yet to answer- why him? Why is this connection with HIM, and not one of my coven sisters, or any other random person? I don't even physically KNOW him.
Kris (1 stories) (13 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-15)
Something to think about. Have you ever been out and done something and wondered why did I just do that? Hmm... That was stupid, why did I just do that? I think everyone on here has had a moment where they felt like they were loosing their mind if only for a moment. That or you have had a time where you either didn't realize you were special because you thought everyone has this gift you have. But they don't or don't realize it. Often people only have one or two experiences that they think is really odd that they can't explain especially if they have never had anyone in their life to talk about this kind of thing with or any exposure to it. There is a good chance he has no idea where this information is coming from or why if he is aware of it at all. He may have been standing outside wondering where you were but has not clue that you were tuned in or that he was answering your questions. To him it may just be very random thoughts going through his head. He may not have the awareness to tell the difference of where this information in his head is coming from. He may feel a connection with you and not have a clue about what is going on. Don't believe for a minute that he even believes in this kind of thing. There are many people who don't and it scares them. Anytime you pick up on information and you don't know the person or how they feel about this kind of thing, tread lightly even though it seems so clear to you. You never know how they will act. 😁
luannegarrett (1 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-15)
i am so glad I found this---i have had a couple (what I thought) were telepathic experiences; both with guys I liked. Both tmes it scared me somewhat---that is my problem with my experiences---fear controls me and doesn't allow me to accept and experience...
angelbearbp (1 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-14)
I'd really like to know why this connection is so strong, why is this happening, and if it makes me a bad person for possessing this power over him?

Dear Sour09-I thought the very same thing! Like I had this connection and felt I had mind control or something!

I have had lots of experiences with telepathy that mostly happened when I was younger but have stopped ever since I started taking Zeprexa for my supposed mental problems... Doctors don't believe in this stuff but I do! I think you should pursue this guy but don't freak him out. Bring it up some time when you feel ready.
HalfMoonX5 (42 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-14)
This has happened to me twice, actually its still happening. The first I was in my early teens and of course I liked the guy, I did the same as you, told him to meet me, he didn't. I think they refuse to reply because they are half counsciously doing it and have some idea that they are, but can't really process it, or they are scared that its really not happening. I thought I was the only one with this experience I'm glad there is someone else. You need to talk to him, there is a reason why that connection is so strong. The second guy this happened to me with, I acutally fell in love with him the first time I saw him, it was really weird, I began missing him when we had never said a word; we still haven't. He seems to be scared of me slightly. Once he tried to talk to me, but mid sentence something held him back and he left quickly, its like something pushed him away and he quickly said, nevermind. You can wait and see if there is a stronger connection with another, but its usually very unlikely. So in my opinon you should go for it again,don't lose the chance, star out with normal conversation and as you get to know him better bring it up whenthe time is right but be careful what you first say.
Sour09 (1 stories) (3 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-14)
Thanks so much for the reply, Anne.

That was the conclusion my coven sisters and I came to- I'm speaking to his higher self & he is consciously unaware. I've done so much research and have come up short. I still question- why him? What roll does he play in my life? And I don't understand how his conscious self doesn't know when I am mentally speaking to him- while I am looking right at him.

When I meditate, he comes to me and speaks with me. I can actually see and feel him in my mind. How can someone be so very developed, but not have ANY conscious recollection of it?
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
15 years ago (2008-10-14)
Either he's fully aware of the telecommunication between you two and is being very odd not acknowledging it (which makes no sense and that would be a bit mean) or he's not consciously developed enough to know it and you're simply speaking with his higher self. The second scenario sounds much more plausible. I'm sure you're speaking to his higher self which probably finds the whole thing amusing since his base self is a puppet at this point. I mean, to watch the physical shell touching its nose, waving at no one, etc., has got to be pretty funny and how weird of him not to notice he's doing weird things, unless waving to no one is a random occurrence to him and then he's just plain nuts.

Anyway, if he's denied any conscious role in this exchange, I'd leave it at that or he will claim you're crazy. But to get answers to questions you've asked means that you're probably not and can sit back and just enjoy what you have with him on a unique level.


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