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Dreams Of Cheating Men


I've been experiencing psychic abilities since a very young age. Possibly since I was five years old. (I'm 31 now) It started off very subtle and as I got/get older it becomes stronger. It seems like every year I develop a new "gift". Anyway, I've NEVER EVER told anyone this before or spoke about it with anyone because the only person I knew with the same abilities as me is my father. I just couldn't talk about this with him. (You'll see why shortly).

Ok so let's fast forward to about the age of 21. I started having dreams that the guy I was dating was cheating on me. This is the beginning of a new talent that I developed. In my dreams, if I remain still, no one can see me so they act as if I'm not standing right there. If I move they can see me. I figured this out because (sorry for side tracking you but I have to explain my very first dream with this occurrence).

First dream with standing still and invisible: I had a dream that I was in some third world country. I was in the back of a truck. It looked like one of those old Army trucks that have the back out and a green cloth over the top. (Camouflage colored truck) I was lying down in the back and for some reason I was nervous but I couldn't figure out why. Then I heard screaming from men outside of the truck in another language. The men (looked of Arab decent - my apologies if I offend anyone) carried large guns and knives. They pulled the cloth back and revealed young boys that whoever was driving the truck were hiding. I guess they were trying to kill all the young boys in the town. I sat there in the truck with the boys and watched the men stab all of them and kill them. Then one was close to me and the blood squirted on me so I jumped! The man then looked to see where the movement came from. I thought I was next. I thought he saw me and I was next so I was scared. I didn't know that if I didn't move he wouldn't see me. I stiffened up from fright. He said something in his language, looked again and then walked away. That's the first time that happened to me. When I woke up I cried because I knew in my heart that that either happened or would happen in the future to someone and I would never know.

Back to my original dream:

Ok - so I had a dream that my boyfriend (ex now) was cheating on me with three women. I was driving in a car with him and we were being followed by his friend in another car. His friend had 4 girls in his car. When I got out the car three of the four girls walked over and got into my boyfriend's car. I heard him tell them that he was going to take them to the hotel. I couldn't understand why he would say this is front of me but then I realized he couldn't see me. So I stayed quiet. It was strange because I got out the car, yet I was still sitting there listening to everything. I woke up and I wanted to break up with him but I didn't have substantial proof. How do you break up with someone over a dream? So I checked his cell and I saw pics of girls with their tops off in a hotel room. I shrugged it off because I didn't realize I had a new talent. I didn't realize until my next boyfriend that I had a new gift.

My next boyfriend:

I had a dream that he was in a mall, my boyfriend at the time met a young lady. I saw her face. I listened to their whole conversation. They met at the jewelry counter at a department store in a mall. He even met her friends. She introduced him. The whole time I'm watching. I got her name, the way she looked, where she was from, everything! I woke up sweating, turned to him and said, "Who's KIM!" He got defensive and asked me if I went through his things but I didn't! I couldn't tell him I saw her in a dream! He would think I was crazy! So I lied and told him someone told me about her. That they saw him with her. He got upset and told me he was cheating but he loved me. That's when I knew for a FACT that I had that gift.

Sorry for making this story too long but I just have one more point:

This past summer I got fed up from another "gift" that I discovered and I called my uncle because I remember my father telling me when I was young that he would see ghosts. I figured it was worth a shot. During our lengthy conversation he mentioned to me that my Aunt Lucy (his Aunt and my great Aunt) was also psychic. I knew about that already. Then he proceeded to tell me that my Great Aunt Lucy could lay next to a man in bed and see if they were cheating on her! Oh my goodness! I nearly lost my mind when he said that because I didn't tell him about those dreams I had! My dad and uncle are very religious. My uncle is a pastor and used to own two churches before he retired. I didn't want to tell them that I was sleeping next to men. Lol. I know they know but I guess it's just a matter of respect. I still never told my dad but I did tell my uncle that I had the same gift! He wasn't surprised at all. He was just mad that I didn't tell him I had the same gift as him, my father, my grandma and my great aunt sooner.

Does anyone else experience standing still and being invisible in dreams? Can you tell when a man/woman is cheating on you? It happened to me as recent as this past Saturday! (Good thing was that I saw that the guy I'm dating was talking to three girls but it is all innocent. Nothing sexual).

Please reply. I want to know I'm not the only one.

Thank you,


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Cocodreams (2 stories) (66 posts)
9 years ago (2013-03-09)
Hi Stephanie167,

Hahaha! I like your dreams! I can relate 100%! My dreams are very similar to yours. Your dreams sre telling you a stosry and showing you what happens clear as day when you aren't around. That's exactly how mine work! Thanks for responding and good luck:-)
Cocodreams (2 stories) (66 posts)
9 years ago (2013-03-09)
Hi Jam2200540,

Wow, I am just seeing your post. I've only "rejoined" this site because my father wants me to share his story. I'm glad I came back and am able to read and respond to your reply - I apologize for the delay.

Well, having dreams that your boyfriend is cheating with your sister doesn't mean that he is. It could mean that he finds her attractive or vice versa. I kept having recurring dreams that a now ex-friend of mine liked my boyfriend and they were sneaking around together behind my back. I asked him about it three times and he denied it. Come to find out, she had a major crush on him that he wasn't aware of.

I found out because I emailed her a photo of him and I that we took over the weekend and she forwarded my email to undisclosed recipients talking about how much she likes him and how she was angry that I was sending her the photo. The problem was that she UNKNOWINGLY included me in her list! That's how I found out my dreams were trying to warn me. However, he wasn't cheating.

Moral of the story, sometimes dreams aren't EXACT but serve as a warning to make you alert.
Stephanie167 (2 posts)
9 years ago (2012-12-19)
I am glad I found this site. I know I too have a special gift, I have premonitions dreams also. My dreams range from Boyfriends to events. I had a pretty sad premonition this pasted weekend about my Boyfriend.
He is in the Military reserves, so he doesn't get shipped out. But he does go away for trainings in the States. He went away for two months. Anyways I had a premonition that he was doing good and still faithful to me. It was wonderful. Then, about two weeks later this pasted weekend I had another premonition.
He just got home last Monday. When he called, I missed his call and he left a voicemail, he sounded so excited but also like he had a sneaky little secret, I could feel him laughing inside. That loser Anyways, I called him back at seven am he was already sleeping because he works overnight as a cop. Then, fell back to sleep myself. That's when I had my dream. In the dream I was inside of a club sitting on a bed, he came in to meet me and we both were so excited, kissing, hugs, smiling and then we had sex (unprotected). Then, his soon to be ex-wife walks in and sits on the king size bed all the way at the end. I thought to myself wow she's pretty, and she seemed nice and sweet. She looked at me, and I felt calm like she was no threat. Then, this third women walks in, she starts flirting with him, and the whole time he gives me his undivided attention, he didn't say a thing though like his ex-wife. The girl doesn't like that he is focused on me, so she tries harder and harder, until he gives in and he has sex with her right there, unprotected, on the bed, I knew I was having a premonition. After he has sex with her, he goes back to looking at me, ONLY, and she gets angry. She then starts staring at me like this was war, and kept pursuing him, and trying to make him her man. Right, then I said to myself you have to remove yourself from this triangle. That's the only way you'll win him if you want him. This girl posted a threat unlike his wife, she seemed dangerous to me physically not just trying to steal him, and I knew I had to leave him. I saw for the first time how his wife looked, I know exactly how the girl looks who he is sleeping with, from head to toe. The club is where they met!

I needed to know if my premonition was on point. So, I called a psychic friend. She confirmed that everything I saw indeed happened down to a tee. He is supposed to go back to the same training site in two months for training. I'm not going to wait around looking like a fool. I'm going to enjoy my life and date too. So, I told him I knew he met someone and was having sex with her. I broke up with him, bc I know for a fact he will sleep with her again when he goes back. Oh the ish was fun when it was a secret, and he thought he'd be doing us both. The minute I blow up his spot, and broke up with him and he didn't have the chance to sleep with me before I did it, and before Christmas. Must be eating him up inside. Oh your horny, fly that girl out, oh yeah you can't because your still living with your wife who is suing the pants off you in this divorce. It that girl going to wait for you for two months when you get back? When she starts tripping who you going to run to and lay up with to get your mind off it? Not me the women who I know you love. He does love me. Sneaky secret that! Now he has time to make the right choose. It's always fun, when it's a secret, well not anymore.

Lastly, a few years ago when I was 22, I had a premonition that the first man I feel in love with told me he loved me and asked me to marry him. I was also living in a huge house or mansion. AND in my dream one of my girlfriends tried to sleep with him, and he denied he sending her off angry. SO he was faithful. The most crystal clear dream premonition I've had to date. However the dream was in the future, and at the time I was upset wondering why it didn't happen sooner. But it's been a couple years, and I heard a voice in my head today saying Boaz is on his way. Boaz is in the bible in the book of Ruth, read it you'll fall in love with the story. So, if this premonition happens, that other women can have him. To think I saved myself for his return, loser. Although he's the second man I've every loved. But thank God for my gift! Could you image the pain I'd be it if I didn't have this gift, and found out too late.
Also, I want to apologize for the bad language. As far as unprotected sex he was the first guy I'd done that with, and to know he did the same with someone else, HUGE warning. Always use protection. Good luck ladies.
JAM2200540 (1 posts)
9 years ago (2012-10-28)
Hello Cocodreams. I am sorry that this comment is so late I just never thought of looking up something like this online. I do not know if I have a special gift or not, but I believe that others do. I have been having dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me with my sister. She is a year older then me and she did not have a boyfriend for the first year that my boyfriend and I dated, but now she does and she is in love so I do not think that she would be sleeping with my boyfriend anymore.

I have not had the dream in a couple weeks, but before I would have it all the time. It wouldn't be the exact same dream every time. Sometimes it would be in different places, but I could clearly see that it was her and my boyfriend together. Some of the dreams I would be invisible and others I would catch them and wake up balling my eyes out. I have had dreams like this in the past of other boyfriends cheating on me, but I just blew them off because I did not care about my past relationships as much as I care about my boyfriend now.

He thinks it is crazy (not me being crazy, but the thought of him cheating on me crazy) when I wake up and tell him that I again had yet another dream of him and my sister. He is mostly at work or in college so I do not see him having the time to cheat on me. I also purchased a bellybutton dream catcher ring thinking it would help me stop having these dreams and they stop when I wear it, but when I do not I have the same bad dreams. I know it is not just my conscious because on a regular day basis I never think about him cheating on me and I trust him 100%... Please let me know your thoughts of my story.
Cocodreams (2 stories) (66 posts)
12 years ago (2009-05-08)
Hi fairie. Thanks so much for reading my story. It is a horrible feeling, like you said. I don't get that upset because I'm glad I found out sooner rather than when most women do - when its too late! My dreams are very on point. Not only do isee the name of the person/people and face and place they met but I also see the name. Sometimes first and last. Its really cool but I find that I second guess my dreams only to find out that they were on point.
faeirie (2 stories) (7 posts)
12 years ago (2009-05-04)
Hi Cocodreams,

Thanks so much for your comment on my am I dreaming story, I am still a little confused myself about these experiences.

I have never dreamed of a cheating partner, but I had a dream that me and my family were sitting in a stadium, waiting for the world to end when a guy with dark hair and dark eyes came over and sat between me and my partner, I could see his features so clearly but had never before met him. My partner disapeared and the man kissed me and said everything happens for a reason, now is the time to begin living and I felt a great attraction to him. The next day, I was in work and a new guy started who resembled the man in my dream and a week later he was talking to me about travelling, and he repeated the exact words that were said in my dream. 😆

Isnt it horrible though when you have these dreams, and you feel paranoid toward the people you love, as you know that something will happen?
TaylorHatesLove (11 stories) (93 posts)
12 years ago (2009-04-30)
I see exactly where you're coming from with your boyfriend dreams. I get them all the time when I had one, I knew when he was cheating, lying, going to break up with me, etc. And I saw them all through dreams. That's talent, you can predict your relationship so you have time to make it better.

But anyways, besides seeing it in dreams, you can tell when someone is cheating on you when they act suspicious or say things you've never mentioned, or get all defensive, etc. I'm only 15, but I was in a BAD relationship in which my boyfriend (now an ex) did every single one of those bad things.

Hope this helps. 😊

Taylor ❤
Cocodreams (2 stories) (66 posts)
12 years ago (2009-04-30)
Hey girlygirl89: I really do appreciate you reaching out to me. I am extremely perceptive and pick up on things that the average eye wouldn't normally perceive as "abnormal". I noticed it right away. Writing has always been natural for me. Articulation has always been fluid in my writing and speech. When I was 13 - 15 years old I remember winning essay contests and giving speeches. I even started to write a book at that age. Yet, in still, I didn't use some of the words that these so called 'tweens' use on this website. Pay close attention. A lot of them have the same style of writing and even use the same words in the same exact way! They always say their age immediately. Why do you need to announce your age every time you leave a post? It just seems odd to me and, quite frankly, a turn off. I'm on this website to get insight and to share some of the experiences that I've had. I don't need to ask anyone if I have a gift and how to enhance it, etc. For what? I have a life! I plan on living it. I don't eat, breathe and shiat (excuse my language) this all day. It's a side thought for me. I know I have a gift and confirmation isn't necessary. That's just one of the many issues I've seen on this site thus far. My friend Psalm Psinga joined yesterday and he noticed a few also and he is gufted also. A deep person that has a heart of gold.

I won't talk your head off anymore. Just for you I will remain on this site but I will also remain cognizant of my feelings and people's writings. Please add me as a friend. I seem cold but I'm an extremely friendly, down to earth person that has a passion for love, laughter life and an intense drive to cut through bull shiat and throw it to the wayside. Feel me? I know you do! Much Love!
girlygirl89 (guest)
12 years ago (2009-04-30)
cocodreams, what you wrote about a lot of 14 and 15 year olds being on this site did get me thinking too. I recently noticed a whole bunch of them just "take over" this site. Just the other day I was thinking about how most of the so called 14/15 year olds are more articulate than I am and I'm 19. Before I attributed that to them being more mature for their ages but now I am wondering about it all... For all we know it could be just puberty that made them think something of a psychic nature was going on and that made them flock to this site... I wouldn't know... Also when asking about abilities and my expereiences I found a lot of them to be way too knowlegeable for the average 14 year old (I live with a 12, 14, and 16 year old so I guess I should have suspected something) I guess I thought my siblings where way immature for there ages. Please don't leave the website, you seem like a very down to earth person who could help others who need you. 😢
Cocodreams (2 stories) (66 posts)
12 years ago (2009-04-30)
Hey Psalm Psinga! Welcome to the site! I'm so glad you joined me here! When I found this site I knew youu would love it because you too are a very gifted person. We share a lot of the same views and gifts. I hope you find a platform to discuss what you normally couldn't have with people in your day to day life. Love always
psalmpsinga (2 posts)
12 years ago (2009-04-30)
Hey Princess,

Wow... All of that was going on. Definitely provides insight into why we had to walk parallel paths for a while. I hear the innocent cry in you and it rocks my core as always. But as always, when it gets crazy, you know what to look for. Thanks for pointing me to this sight as well. It means a great deal to me that you kept me in mind concerning our gifts.
Cocodreams (2 stories) (66 posts)
12 years ago (2009-04-30)
Yes, you're the 1st! You know how you say I'm gifted? I mean-deep in my heart I feel gifted and blessed and want to share my blessings and gifts with others but I'm so humble that its hard for me to accept such a high compliment!

I am very very very glad that I was able to give you insight. You've been on my mind since yesterday. I always wonder if you're ok. I wonder if you're pickingg up some of the negative vibes that some people have on this site. I wonder if you are smiling. (I'm not flirting with you. Ha ha! I just really do care and can't rest until my job is done)
XtjrX (7 stories) (300 posts)
12 years ago (2009-04-30)
Cocodreams: am I the first person to post to this story? The way you explain you story makes it interesting to read. Clearly you are gifted. But I think what clearly makes you special how you react so well with others here. I know you gave me greater insight into gifts. I added you to my favorite posters.

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