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Controlling Psychokinesis


I have always been what I call "hyperaware" of people, situations, and environments. I am not able to read people's future and I am aware that I am completely unable to control when I get a "feeling". I know when something bad is going to happen. Sometimes it happens that day (like when my husband broke his leg), or sometimes it's a few days ahead of time. Once I had "the feeling" and checked up on my kids every couple hours... To find that one of my students was killed in an accident.

But the problem lies here: Since I was a little girl strange things happened around me. Lights and TV's would turn on and off. Doors and cabinets would swing open. Electronic break. Quickly. At first, I believed I had a ghost in the house. However, I have moved and lived in many (up to 15 different places) and it happens everywhere, even at friends houses! I spoke with a very well known clairvoyant, and she stated that I had psychokinesis, and that I was causing these things to happen. Then... It made sense. Many times I touch a light and the light bulb goes out right away. But, what the problem is... Is that I'm a mother of 3 and I cause my kids electronic toys to go on and off, and it is terribly frightening for them. My sons toy electric train has "turned on" when I KNOW I had just turned it off about 100 times since we've gotten it. It's very loud and it wakes up everyone in the house when it goes off at night. Another problem is my 3 year old will bring up his little hand held video game and I will help his and it will turn off. Sometimes when my 5 year old plays it on the way to school... It just turn's on and off and on and off until he gets so frustrated he just puts it down. Is it possible that this is all me? Does anyone know how I can stop it? It does get worse when I'm upset or mad (or pregnant), however many times it happens when I'm sleeping.

I have seen several spirits before. I have seen my aunt who died when she was in her 40's twice (both times were right after I had a baby), my grandmother when I was about 10, my grandfather when I was about 15, and a stranger (about 6 houses ago). (He seemed to be just passing through.) However, they never spoke to me, or used me to deliver any messages.

Sometimes I feel that there could be a spirit in my house around me, but for some reason I'm not able to tell exactly. I mostly have a "friendly feeling", but every once in a while... I stop dead in my tracks with a "not so friendly feeling", but it goes away quickly. My 5 year old has said that he has heard stuff too, but that may be cause we had a few mice... So it's hard to tell.

I would love to hear if anyone has advice for me, or can help me. I'm really not interested in having someone come to the house. Besides my husband thinks all this stuff is foolish. (Although he does take notice when I have a feeling that something bad's going to happen after he broke his leg.)

Thanks so much!

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Vivre-libre (7 posts)
12 years ago (2012-06-08)
The thing with psychokinesis is that it develops most strongly because of the want for something to happen and the need for something to happen. Before you have complete control over this ability, it is important to realize that right now, your subconscious has dominant control over any psychokinetic abilities. Through focus and practice daily, controlling your emotions, and gaining greater control of subconscious activity (note: complete control of your subconscious is impossible) you will gain control over these abilities. If you have any questions concerning the controlling of these abilities, feel free to email me, as I am psychokinetic myself. Bonne chance!
shin-nae-nae (9 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-26)
I think maybe you should try and develop your skills. You seem to have something really special and if you practiced, it would come in real handy. Then you'll be able to use these powers when you want to. You should start off by trying to turn things on and off or focus on what you feel/do when it happens by accident. Maybe then you can figure out the cause and prevent it from happening unexpectedly. I don't know how much help I was but I hope I was in some ways. Good luck! 😊
Friend (12 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-24)
Consider also a shield in the egg shape. The egg shape has some very interesting and unique properties in nature that were discovered by Viktor Schauberger. An egg shape could be more effective at containing energies:

"The Kryahgenetics Egg is a wonderful cosmic tool that can be used both as a protective protocol and also as a quarantine device. To use as a protective mechanism, put yourself in a Kryahgenetics Egg (or have the egg come to you) and have DNA helix running down the core of your body. When you feel comfortable, tell the egg to "Turn ON" and it will immediately start sucking all the debris out of your body, and when it hits the shell it will be instantly neutralized. With each breath, release debris until you feel calm and stable. You can also use Kryahgenetics Eggs to protect pets, houses, cars, airplanes, etc. I have put eggs around planes I was traveling in and stopped turbulence... On many, many occasions. (I know it kind of freaked the pilot out because they forewarned the passengers of serious "bumps" and made the stewardesses stop their services and sit town until it was over... So I double egged the plane and it never happened!) "
ghostgirl3512 (6 stories) (298 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-24)
Meditation usually helps wit kensis of any type. Also, if you practice with it, such as actually trying to turn an electronic on and off, then it will get easier to stop it from randomly happening.

Blessed be
Lolli ❤
hippy (1 stories) (18 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-24)
I'm surprised the evil eye has been considered, it interacts badly with electronics and causes misfortune. You may want to consider talking to your close by family to see if they had any other similiar issues, to find out if it was passed down to you genetically.

Hee's some links:


Sorry if this didn't help at all.

-Blessed Bee,
AnandaHya (guest)
13 years ago (2011-01-23)

Thanks for the websites, I found the second one useful. Its explains similar techniques I used at parties in college when there were a lot of guys that just didn't get why I didn't think they were "God's gift to women."

I like the end message: "Self-defense is sometimes needful, but this does not give us license to harm others out of spite or anger." I plan to research "Dale powers" and his works more. Thanks again.
Shaolin (1 stories) (212 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-23)
Joe, try grounding yourself out, and grounding is excreting excess energy into your environment. Make sure you neutralize every bit of the energy before you excrete it, because it can manifest into varying annoyances like shadow beings.

A good tip for anyone is to do this every day. It will lessen the amount of shadow beings, and no, they do not just come to be from excreted energy, they can come to be while inside us, and taint the rest of our etheric energies. If you start to feel jittery or feel like your nervous system is being poked and prodded somehow, like your body jerks or spasms for seemingly no reason, neutralize and ground out as soon as possible.
Friend (12 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-23)
This web page presents a nice guide to controlling your psychic powers. It should be worth reading:

The other step you should take is to create a psychic shield around you. This helpful tutorial here teaches you how to create a self-sustaining psychic shield:
In your case, you will want to program the shield to contain your psychic influences, and perhaps also provide you protection.
Callie (68 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-23)
There is a bit of a theory about poltergeists.

I know, seems off-topic, but hear me out.:) I say this because you pointed out that this situation seems to ramp up when you're pregnant, which is a very hormonal time.

Poltergeist activity at this point is believed to be pretty much possible from two angles. One is an actual 'noisy ghost' busting around the house and breaking the china, as it were.

The other is, as you're identifying it 'psychokinesis'. Let's just take your defintion (and Rook's very wise double-checks into account!) as I've personally never studied the different... Ehm... 'kinesises' so I wouldn't know where to classify it.

The idea is that teenagers who are natural strong psychics, going through those hormonal rages of 'I'm a teenager raar!', can and do subconciously/unconciously manipulate objects - either turning lights on and off, things falling or 'thrown' from places that have no natural explanations, etc. These are people who can grow up to be rather powerful psychics/mediums/intuitives but at the time have no sense of control because they don't know what it is to control it.

Now this started when you were a teenager (raar!) or younger, and continued. Well, if it had always been this sort of raw energy, unfocused, and had never settled down (a lot of that 'wildness' fades out as people get older, normally) then you'd still be dealing with that 'psychokinesis' that the clairvoyant is referring to. It has apparently distilled into what I call 'mommy danger sense' (I say this with love - every time one of us five kids got hurt my mom was out the door of the house running at us - this includes meeting me 3 blocks away from the house pushing my bike with a broken collarbone, pre the days of cellphones. She calls all this 'common sense' not psychic ability) and a sense to be able to detect when spirits are about, but you obviously still have quite a bit of raw energy coming out.

All this and I don't feel like I've added anything to this 😢 as the advice to learn to control your own power is the soundest I could also give. It all sounds ephemeral and demands the question 'Well what does THAT mean', and the answer is it means in a sense starting from the first step - learning grounding-centering-clearing, or meditation, or prayer, whatever your personal path calls for - and developing a sense of will over what you are capable of. There is no 'overnight' fix, because at this point you're pretty much in a sense used to being able to 'do anything you want', so it could take some time to rein it in.

Shouldn't need anyone showing up at the house. I'm sure there are people who would offer, and even do so with only love or concern, but ultimately it is still something you are going to need to be able to control yourself. Otherwise what would happen would basically end up being either you needing constant remote assistance (someone's will directed at you from a distance forever, and what happens if they have an off-day, suddenly light-bulbs start breaking?) or someone 'locking you down' which could limit those abilities which are currently helpful. (Danger sense is ALWAYS helpful.)
RookDygin (5 stories) (324 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-22)

I posted before I'd addressed all your questions and concerns...

"I have seen several spirits before. I have seen my aunt who died when she was in her 40's twice (both times were right after I had a baby), my grandmother when I was about 10, my grandfather when I was about 15, and a stranger (about 6 houses ago). (He seemed to be just passing through."

2 of these visits seem to have been of a very personel nature, like the spirit of your Aunt was saying 'Hello, I'm here whatching out/over you and your family...

Do you remember what was going on in your life when you saw Grandmom or GrandPa? They may have been trying to help you threw whatever was happening in your life at the time... As far as the 'complete stranger' goes... Not so sure with 'him'. What do you remember of the house you were living in at the time, mayhap it will give a clue... Perhaps it was the (a) former owner ensuring the house was in 'good hands'.

Just a few ideas... As for the feelings in and around your home... Do they happen in the same place all the time, or does this happen all over the home?

As far as the sounds go, if you found mice once, more than likely it's mice again.

Thanks for shareing this with us, I hope you have found some answers that have been of use to you. Please keep us posted.


RookDygin (5 stories) (324 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-22)
Joe...and others...

Definition time here...

Psychokinesis: 1] (Psychology) (in parapsychology) alteration of the state of an object by mental influence alone, without any physical intervention.

2] The production or control of motion, especially in inanimate and remote objects, purportedly by the exercise of psychic powers.

I'd like to ask if any of these objects have been checked to see if what is happening is due to 'loose wires', dieing batteries ect...

I'm not trying to discount your experiences but as always the 'normal' must be accounted for before the 'paranormal' can be assumed.

Have the games/toys done this around you without the battries being in them? (good indication it's not dieing batteries...


Joe631 (2 stories) (89 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-22)
[at] Shaolin interesting I didn't know the aura causes electromagnetic energy. I thought it was just pretty colors for people haha

This might explain why I'm CONSTANTLY getting shocked by light switchs door nobs and the likes. Its actually very very annoying.

I share similar traits though with you Mommyof3 and I don't think its a ghost or spirits. You probley are the reason for most of the events happening and now its a matter of learning to control it is all it sounds like here.
AnandaHya (guest)
13 years ago (2011-01-21)
I would put a protection bubble around your kids, whether its you or a spirit that would keep the energy from interferring with their toys.

You say your emotions and pregnancy feeds the strange occurances. Therefore I would suggest that you meditate and learn how to control your emotions, aura and other powers. Don't let it control your life.

Meditation is to clear your mind of all distractions and focus on one question, thought, or object. You chose what to meditate on. I would suggest nothing negative because that draws negative energy. For example don't meditate on how annoying these things are. Instead meditate on how much you love your kids and husband and would like better control of your abilities so that you can live life to the fullest.

My husband feels uncomfortable talking about the spirit world too and has ask that I not "put ideas into their heads" which translates as "keep all conversations with the kids grounded to things most other can see and will not ridicule them for." Its not that he doesn't believe me so much as he wants us to function and succeed in this world. So instead of talking to my son and daughter about "shields" I teach them about the power of "prayer" they prays by using words, songs, dances, mudras and spirit energy. They meditate with me and copy what I do when I set up shields around the house. I don't explain it to them but they find peace in the rituals.

From your story I think you have the ability to handle most of it yourself. You might just be lacking the knowledge. Best wishes and contact me if you need more help or want to swap kid stories, my daughter turn 3 in March and my son is 5. Lol, I try and stay grounded as possible but its hard when abnormal things keep happening.
Shaolin (1 stories) (212 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-21)
Simple fix for this one, just learn to control your aura. Your aura is an electromagnetic field around our energy bodies, and if your aura gets too close to the physical proper, it can and if strong enough, will cause electrical and or magnetic disturbances. These however, are not psychokineses. Psychokineses is when you make things move with energy. Is there anything else about this that you would like to share to see if it's only you or if maybe there is a spirit or two following your family around? Your own aura won't effect electronics farther away from you than your aura reaches. Do you drive your son to school, does he take a bus? If he takes a bus and your aura is reaching that far, you need to reign it in before it ends up causing physical or energetic health issues. The farther your aura goes the more that it comes in contact with, and if it gets mingled with someone elses negative emotions it could be bad. Mind you this would only happen if someone pushed the emotions into your aura, or you were thinking about them when they felt bad. Some reach out to others with their auras when they think about them.
Day2Day (1 stories) (31 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-20)
Hi Mommyof3

I am Clairvoyant dealing mostly with precognition dreams for 34 years. However, in the past, I did have an experience similiar to yours. I moved into a home some 16 years ago, my son was very young, and after a short while I noticed ceiling fans and lights turning on, toys did go off at 3am in the morning and I got a clear sense, especially near the downstairs bathroom and staircase that their was a man in the house. I felt he was doing these things to scare and ramp up negativity in the house.

Before I go on, I just want to say that the rest of this is just my opinion and I certainly don't want to scare anyone. Experiences that seem the same can happen for very different reasons. Ok, with that said.

Since you mentioned your childhood experiences and stated seeing spirits of family members; along with maybee sensing a ghost in your home? It seems to me that you are showing strong signs of being a Medium. Spirits are attracted to Mediums both good and bad. I believe spirits can attach themselves to certain people. If you are dealing with a spirit, showing any sort of fear, anxiety or fustration will just keep the situation going.

I dealt with the spirit in my house by first getting some sage candles. It's an old Native American tradition. Sage is supposed to clear negativity in the home. The next thing I did was a blessing of my own words through the house. The last thing was the hardest. Everytime I noticed or sensed something happening in the home I spoke to whoever this was in a calm, collected manor saying things like "I know your here, but you know I need you to be quiet". If the light and ceiling fan suddenly came on, I simply walked over to the switch and said "What did I say about the lights". It was not long before all these things stopped and it didn't come back again.

Again, I'm not any kind of expert, but I hope it can be of some help to you
bbdeathspark (4 stories) (617 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-20)
Atmokinesis is just a mixture of the elements and energy. It's no "single" ability, just a mixture of them.
Sunspotter (6 stories) (109 posts)
13 years ago (2011-01-20)
How interesting! I myself have only experienced atomokinesis and contact with ghosts- but once your kids turn into teenagers turning off those electronics will be so helpful, trust me;)

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