I would like some advice if possible please on how to deal with a dream ii had about 9 months ago. I had a dream of my mum lying in a bed next in a corridor next to double doors. My dad who passed away in 2000 was also in this dream, but I shall go into the full dream.
I had not seen my mum for 15 years when I had this dream, we had had a fantastic day out in Blackpool England. When I eventually said goodbye my mum was in a bed near these doors with my dad holding her hand. This I found strange as my mum and dad divorced and hate each other. My mum's face was towards the door and she told me she loved me, and I said love you too, but when I said to my dad I loved him he just smiled and nodded his head. Was this his approval of me contacting my mum, or did he know she was going to pass? I woke crying my heart out and said to my partner I needed to find my mum. So eventually this month August 24th 2012 I found where my mum was, Blackpool, in a home. I got the go ahead to write and contact her but she died before I got that letter to her. Do you think that my mum knows I love her? I have been told my mum was asking for me too. I feel guilty that I never got to her sooner how can I tell my mum that I'm sorry and that I love her any advice would be great thank you. I have had a few of these sort of dreams and I'm scared of having another incase it comes true again, is there any way I can stop them, I also have dreams when someone has passed over of them coming to me very clearly in dreams saying to stop grieving and that they are happy and at peace, is this my imagination playing with me or is it real please any form of advice or techniques will be greatly appreciated. I don't like these dreams too many have become true or I have come in contact with who the dreams has affected. Thank you in advance for any help given xxx