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Disappearing Mediumship?


Currently, I am 17 years old and have experienced paranormal activity on more than several occasions. I'll list a couple of the things I've gone through.

Once, I was at my grandmother's house (which I'm convinced is haunted for more reasons other than this one), and I was about 10 or 11 years old when this incident happened. My mom worked the morning shift at this time which started way before my time to catch the bus. So, I'm laying on a couch trying to rest, and all of a sudden my eyes open and I see a man sitting in a chair across from me. I know he was a spirit because nobody was downstairs with me and the typical "within a blink it was gone" concept applies. I open my eyes for two seconds, and I see a man who was probably 5'7", sitting in a chair, reading an open newspaper which blocked most of his face (although I could tell he was bald), and he was wearing brown pinstripe pants, suspenders, and a white tank top. I've described this figure to all of my family members, and none of them can connect him with anyone they knew.

There was another time when I was living in a townhouse complex called Poet's Village, and my friend and I were out playing around our side of the 'village.' In between the two circles of 'houses' are the manager's office and a bridge because a little creek passes between the circles. We reached the manager's office (it's pretty dark outside at this time) and I see a fully visible, almost illuminated figure walking away from the left side of the bridge. I stopped dead in my tracks because it was odd to be able to see this figure considering how dark it was and also the fact that it looked very much so like a grim reaper. My friend saw the shock and fear in my eyes and asked what was wrong, and I said something along the lines of: "Do you see that guy down there?" Well, of course, I was the only one who could see him, and we ran back to my apartment where I repeat exactly what I saw to her and my parents.

There have also been a few times where I have clearly heard voices (and when I say voices I mean there were two different spirits who said something to me at different times) but could not see them. I've always considered myself to be a sensitive because I can feel the presence of earthbound spirit (s) and can sense things like what their gender is, approximately how tall they are, or what it is they're doing at that moment.

The reason I wanted to share my experiences with you guys is because over the past few years I have noticed that everything paranormal has stopped. I don't know if it's because I moved into a house where there doesn't seem to be much activity or what it is, but I kind of miss having the ability to sense/feel/know what or who is around me. My mom and I went to a group reading recently, and at the end of the reading, I asked the psychic medium what could be going on. She told me that it could be that I simply haven't had the time to be open to spiritual experiences and that I should dedicate a few days a week to meditation and to allow myself to have time.

If there are any mediums or psychic mediums who could possibly give advice about what may be happening or what I could do to 'get my ability back,' it would be greatly appreciated!:)

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booboo (4 stories) (13 posts)
3 years ago (2021-03-04)
yes I have noticed that just be for the pandemic started I had something come to me in the night and enter the rear of my head everything went total black for a few seconds as something had reached into my head next day I could pick nothing up and felt really normally feeling a little confused but it never affected my empath side and I don't normally have to try it just comes to then my gaurdian angles visted me for a brief second or two then took off with guides these are only energy but inteligent so either something going on the other side or something else my main ability at first when I was very young was clairaudience then when I was just before the age of nine I started having clairvoyant visions but I did not know what it was I thought it was the flu as I wopuld also have problems breathing like I was going to faint and fearful even though there was plenty of air id struggle to get to the back door for some cold air just before I past the kitchen I suddenly go transfixed and see young men in the kitchen and it was broad daylight were has when the experience happened it was night time around nine pm always seems to happen when there was no adults about my mother took me to a doctor but find nothing wrong apart from run down and needed more iron in my diet
EvelynHeart47 (1 stories) (4 posts)
8 years ago (2016-05-09)
Thank you so much, Jasmine! I greatly appreciate the advice (:
I hope things work out and I wish the best for you in all you do. Once again, thank you a ton ^_^
jasmine_glaze (84 posts)
8 years ago (2016-05-08)
Dear EvelynHeart47,

I see you had quite a few experiences in the past, some of them even scary (like the grim reaper). When it comes to spiritual gifts, usually young people are more open to these. It's caused by person's body growth which goes along the spiritual awakening.
However, as we live in the world where parents don't teach us about paranormal things, there's nobody to let us know what is actually happening and we need to figure stuff on our own.

As everything else, spiritual gifts can slowly weaken and eventually disappear throughout our lives. It's the same as when adults are talking about what they used to do in the past (for example being good runners or having drawing/painting skills) but with lack of practice their skills have disappeared.
The spiritual skills can be practiced starting meditation. When you meditate, you focus on your surrounding and become more connected to the spiritual plane. It means your ability to see/hear spirits will improve over time and new gifts may appear as you grow stronger.

I hope it helps, i'm waiting to hear from you

Yours, jasmine
cayce17 (8 stories) (192 posts)
8 years ago (2016-05-04)
EvelynHeart47,some people in my group live close together and they meet up sometimes, but this group is over the internet. You just have to e-mail me and I can set up the group for you, if you do want to join. I'll be looking forward to hearing from you.
EvelynHeart47 (1 stories) (4 posts)
8 years ago (2016-05-03)
Oh cayce17, that would be wonderful! Is this a group that just offers each other advice, or do you guys meet up? Of course, I would use my abilities to help others. That's one of the big reasons why I want to regain them (I help people on an emotional basis so if possible why not a spiritual basis too? 😊) And thank you so much! I'll email you whenever possible (probably more so near future since things have been a little crazy lately).
cayce17 (8 stories) (192 posts)
8 years ago (2016-05-02)
EvelynHeart47, I can help you with training your abilities and help them get back to you and make them stronger even. I have a group that helps me with training and learning how to properly use my abilities, and I'm learning how to help others as well needing help like I did. If you do gain these abilities back will you use them for good to help others? And if you do want help gaining them back here's my e-mail:

Rainashea16 [at]
EvelynHeart47 (1 stories) (4 posts)
8 years ago (2016-04-29)
Well, my great grandfather passed away a few years before I was born, but my family doesn't think that it would be him. Although it could be which would be great:)
And thank you so much for the advice. I wasn't sure if there was anything else anyone thought I should do. God and Spirit be with you,
Magickyg413 (8 stories) (96 posts)
8 years ago (2016-04-29)
I believe what you first saw is your grandfather, did he passed away just recently or a long time ago?
And yes in order to developed your abilities, you should follow what the psychic has told you, there's nothing wrong with meditation.
Thank you for reading this, I hope you have a blessing evening,

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