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Is My Daughter A Medium?


My name is Elizabeth. I have a 4 year old daughter named Kianna whom I believe has psychic abilities. I strongly believe in spirits communicating with the living, but I don't know the facts. I am not very familiar with her gift, so I need help.

Every since she could talk she has told me stories about dead people coming to her. Recently, it has gotten worse! She refuses to sleep because she is scared that "they" are coming for her. She is scared to go to the bathroom by herself, she refuses to sleep by herself. There has been occasions where she has ran into the living-room to hide behind the couch screaming, "Hide mommy, the old lady is following me".

Recently, we went and viewed a new home across the street from a graveyard. She refused to get out of the van because she said dead people were waiting for her. Me and my other kids went in and looked at the house, when I came back out to the van she was hiding in the trunk under a blanket. Originally, I thought she had a very vivid imagination, but now after seeing her under her bed shaking and trembling in fear, I believe that people who have passed are coming to her.

Her dad says that his grandma was psychic and also a medium. I believe that Kianna has inherited this gift or curse. How can I help her? How can we make "them" go away?

Please help.

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Timfaraos (426 posts)
8 years ago (2015-03-28)
'Solare', i'm not saying that if a kid sees spirits, it's a sin! Most babies, and some kids see spirits! But it becomes a sin, when you use occult practices to INVITE the spirits, CHANNEL them, or TALK TO them! See my prophile for more info. (When my cousin was a baby, she lied in her cot, and looked at spirits that were moving around on the ceiling, her eyes darted around, and she smiled and giggled... (probably angels). When her mum asked her what she was looking at, she would point her finger in the air, at the ceiling, and say: "friends"... That's awesome!) We also see babies in their parents' arms, in church, looking at the ceiling, pointing their finger in the air and smiling, or cooing! In my mind, they see the angels present in the church! God bless!
SolareBlackthorne (2 posts)
8 years ago (2015-03-03)

Firstly - yup she's definitely a medium. Secondly, like some of the people who have commented - I've lived with my gift my whole life (well for as long as I can remember and my mother can probably tell stories from before then - I'm just lucky she's psychic too). Unlike what Timfaraos said - there's no such thing as sin with this - it's a gift! And honestly when I was younger I was so terrified that it was a curse. My mum would often find me hiding under my bed because I didn't like the lady that lived in our old house. Eventually my mum convinced me to talk to her and I found out she was actually really nice and was just lonely and needed someone to talk to (apparently I reminded her of her daughter). But basically what I'm saying is that you should protect her from spirits she doesn't like - there's often something going on there, but sometimes - even if you can't see them yourself - try to get her to speak with them. Sometimes they're just lonely. Sometimes they need help. If she really wants them to go away - the light option is a good one. It will take some practice for her - but I think she can do it. If you want to help her - this is what my mum did (remember she's psychic too so unfortunately I do have an advantage there...) : she sat me down, spoke with me about how the spirits made me feel and asked me what I wanted to do. I remember saying I wanted them to go away and she showed me how to do the light thing - which is literally closing your mind to anything but the focus that you have a white, warm light surrounding your whole body and that it blocks anything that may want to contact you. There aren't any truly permanent methods - she may just need a break from the fear like I did:)

Hope this helps you!
Timfaraos (426 posts)
8 years ago (2015-03-02)
If her great grandma was a psychic medium, that is a generational sin... And it has opened the door to ALL spirits, incuding demons in disguise, to invade your family's private space... Sad but true! The only way to get rid of it, is to get right with God, Jesus. How? Well, stop occult practices: comunicating with/channeling spirits through a psychic medium, or ouija board. Don't visit a tarot card reader or fortune teller. No witchcraft or spells. Etc. And stay away from sin. Read the bible and psalms, and PRACTICE the bible. Also pray, and fast from meat and dairy when you can. For more supernatural protection, invite a greek or russian orthodox christian priest, to sprinkle your house and family with holy water, TELL HIM YOUR PROBLEMS, he'll be glad to help, because he CAN! Good luck!
Twilightexperince132 (24 posts)
13 years ago (2010-02-15)
i know how she feels I'm only twelve and I have had these experinces since I was her age its still kind of scary my mom still thinks I'm lying but I know I'm not trust me I know what its like. 😢
VendettaSiblings (guest)
13 years ago (2010-02-08)

Being "psychic" is a gift:) However, we do understand your concern over your four year old experiencing some of its negative side effects. Meditation and shielding are two things that may help her quite a lot. Since she probably won't want to go through the whole shielding procress, and we doubt she'll want to meditate, we very much liked Preacher247's quick lesson on shielding. If you have any other questions or comments, please do not hesitate to contact us. Oh...also, remind her that you're there to help her... And that even though SHE'S in charge, it's okay to feel scared.

Ghost_Girl (5 stories) (24 posts)
13 years ago (2010-02-08)
your daughter has recieved a gift a a very young age. Me and my family have had a simalar phenomenom. What we did to get the spirits to leave is ask if all spirits could leave her presence. Though maybe the spirits are here to protect her from something ahead. What I do today is I ask if all evil spirits could leave. Then you can welcome the spirits that wish to help and mean no harm to stay and protect.

Hope this helps! 😊
GhOsT gIrL
Camillarose (guest)
14 years ago (2009-04-24)
You can't make her gift go away but I'm sure if you explain to her that dead people can't hurt her. Eventually she will understand. And she will learn to accept her gifts.

Lots of love and wishes

CamillaRose 😊
ginalynna (1 stories) (2 posts)
14 years ago (2008-10-06)
Hi there, I am also in North Carolina! I am 38 years old and have had some similar experiences as your daughter but not as vivid. I know of the fear she has. It is real. I only wish my family had understood like you do. I spent my entire life feeling alone and misunderstood although outwardly I covered it well. The love and compassion that you are showing her is the best "medicine" there is. I know because it was only recently that I have been able to share and discuss these things with others. My family still thinks that I am playing with fire... But they don't see and feel what I do. I know that my gift is from the God of the universe, not a curse as I once questioned. I know that this gift was given to me for a purpose. I am still searching for answers. Good Luck to you all. ❤
GhOsTwHisPeReR (guest)
14 years ago (2008-10-05)
I have lived with this gift my whole life I am only 18 but I know what I'm talking about the others are very right about creating that light around her it should be her engery that she puts out to protect her. Also you can also help her because everyone has their own spiritual helpers or team (being their spirit guides, angels) and you can tell your guides to protect your daughter and tell the ghost or spirits they are not welcome because they are scaring her... On the flip side the spirits are not trying to harm her they may have just not crossed over into the "light" or the "otherside" and could be wanting her help because she can see them. If they have crossed over they are usually not mean but you can tell your daughter that she doesn't need to be afraid of them but instead ask who they are and what they want. I hope that has helped
hemuench (6 posts)
14 years ago (2008-10-04)
Hello, we have had similair siiues in our house. My daughter was 3 in June. Starting early spring she started having experiences. Her expereinces ranged from wanting the cat out of her bed at night that had died a few days before to talking with her other mommy and daddy from before. She was also having Mummy visit that was scaring her, etc. She had a hard time telling the mummy to go away and leave her alone it kept coming back as well as some others. We ended up dong a few things. 1) Each night her brother, me and her hold hands in a circle and say a prayer "Angel of God, guardian dear, to whom gods love commits me here, ever this day be at my side to light and quard, rule and quield. 2) Then we ask the Arch angel Micheal and our guardian angels to surround our house with the white light of universal love and divine protection. Please protect and keep safe our house, property, mommy, caillin and jaocob... And so it is!" She often sees the angels arriving as we say our prayer. But I finally had to put my foot down. 3) I was speaking to my guild and the kids one night and God and said, "This is my house, these are my kids, and no spirits are allowed to conntact in our house." My guild filters for me what needs to get through to me if he feels it is apprapraite, nothing for my daughter. The house is her safe place. My daughter does have an "imaginary friend" taht visits. She is ok with it so am I. Her name is kelly. It is her "sister who is waiting to grow in my belly then she will live with us." That is a whole nother story. I agree your daoughter needs to be empowered and needs to set some boundaries for herself, but we are also still their parents and need to protect them until they can do it themselves.
pinkbabe63 (guest)
14 years ago (2008-10-04)
Well a lot of children seem to have psychic abilties when they are younger and most of the time it does pass but yes she might of inherited them and might still have them when shes older I know she might be afraid but think how much she could help people. Try watching a program called ghost whisperer it will really help you understand. If she could talk to these spirits then maybe she could pass on messages and help them pass over, also watch a movie called the sixth sense that might help too. It can be really scary but just think they don't mean any harm to her on purpose most of them just want help and guidance so they can pass over. If you need any more help just send me a message on one of my stories.
mystical2 (16 stories) (483 posts)
14 years ago (2008-10-03)
I also have a son that sees at times.
I don't know the reason exactly, other than spirits being there, but another spiritual gifted man I know told me NEVER to take my son to a cemetary. Not saying you shouldn't. I have meant to ask him why and I forgot, but will. I have gifts of my own I am still learning about while trying to help my son understand as well. He actually reacts and responds fairly well for his age. He is 10 now. There are times when he will want me to walk him to the bathroom too, normally at night time. I'm not sure if you pray to a God, but I have him pray every day and have taught him to wrap white light around him. I always tell him that God is stronger than anything he sees and to try not and be afraid. I tell him to ask God to help and he will help him. I also have him say the protection prayer to Saint michael.
YVE72 (5 stories) (212 posts)
14 years ago (2008-10-02)
Hi Elizabeth!
Your daughter does have a gift of seeing ghosts & spirits. (My daughter sees spirits & angels occasionally and she's 4, too!)

They come because they know she can see them. Spirits do have a tendency to put the word out once they find someone who can actually see them.

Help your daughter not to be afraid. Most entities are not there to hurt her. Spirits are paying a visit & ghosts haven't crossed over into the light.

You can keep the "negative" ghosts out of your home by doing a smudging ceremony with white sage (go online, buy some). This however doesn't control those outside your home, because spirits & ghosts are EVERYWHERE and always will be.

She has to learn not to fear them. Her fears may be of the unknown and because everyone else thinks we should fear them. Have her try to communicate & see what they want. They might just want to say Hi. Empower her.

I tell my daughter all the time that if they're bothering her tell them to leave. But she wants me to do it. And I say, "No because they aren't bother me, they're bothering you."

There is an excellent show called "Psychic Kids" that comes on BIO on Saturday night 10pm EST. I watch it every Saturday. VERY HELPFUL. Also try reading "Psychic Children" by Sylvia Browne.

I hope this helps. Good Luck. 😊
preacher247 (20 posts)
14 years ago (2008-10-02)
here's what I think could help I know she's young but if you could get think with all her might when she see's a spirit to close her eyes and surround her self in bright safe feeling light i.e the light of god. This notion its self will keep her feeling protected for the rest of her life. And any time she's scared she will surround her self with light and have the courage to overcome any thing life throws at her. Hopefully she should start to feel safe when shes seeing these spirits so they won't pray on her fears and also by her admitting the light she should remind the spirits themselves what they need to do. By her learning how to generate & manipulate her energy for what she needs at a young age like she is could give her a head start in her physic life that lays ahead. It will also teach her that she has control over what she what's to experience and at what time should she chose to.

Best regards


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