I have been with my boyfriend for seven months today (March 17), but I have known him for over a year, maybe a year and a half now. Even though I have been with him for that long and have only been talking to him for that long, I feel like I have known him practically my whole life. I also feel like we are connected way beyond just physically and mentally. I feel like we are connected by our souls as well. He thinks so too.
Every time either of us would get sick even before we let each other know, we would always end up feeling what the other feels. One time when he was with friends or at home, I even felt that something was wrong and I was sad and upset. I texted him saying I was sad and he called me. During that phone call, he told me that something happened that day that upset him. A few other times he was out having fun with friends and during those times I ended up getting sick to my stomach and/or dizzy and light-headed the same time he was doing whatever he wasn't supposed to. We even tested our theory by him messing around without him telling me and if I felt sick, I would text him and ask him if he was doing what I thought he was doing and he always answered yes.
Also, we have had dreams about each other before we even met. One time, I had a dream that I was going to a dance with my ex (boyfriend at the time) and that same day, my boyfriend had a dream about me leaving some guy he didn't know at the dance and going with him at the end of the dream and he told me that he woke up crying because he somehow had a strong connection to the girl in the dream and she looked like me. I even tried comparing our dreams and he said that I wore the same dress as I did in my dream about me and my boyfriend-at-the-time. More recently, me and him have been having close related dreams, whether they're both nightmares or just dreams.
Ever since I have seen his picture and met him online, I have felt a strong and natural connection with him. Even as I have been with him and spent time with him in person, we can feel the connection as if it is a thread holding us together. And as soon as I heard his voice on the phone, it felt as if I was so close to him and I fell in love with him right away, even without knowing it at first and he fell in love with him. He told me he felt that same connection, and we have both been wanting who the other person is since we could comprehend what love is and what kind of people we like. It has all felt like such a huge dream and a fairy tale come true. I have even had a dream about me and him but his name wasn't his real name but a different name and so was mine, but the dream seemed so real.
We always know what the other is thinking or is about to say, no matter what. And looking at him is like looking at my long-lost love. I don't know why or how, but it does. When I'm not with him, my soul feels torn in two and when I am with him, I feel so completely whole and more.
We have also found it interesting how we started dating on the 17th when his birthday is the 17th of December. I didn't even noticed it until a few days after we started dating and I told him about it. We agree that this is either a huge coincidence or it means that we are meant to be. We have struggled and survived through some hard times in these seven months and I have stuck by him no matter what he did in the past and what happened to either of us that caused us major grief.
There is so much more to say but I can't seem to get it all sorted out. I am just wondering is what my boyfriend and I have soul-deep? Are we really souls intertwined and psychically connected? I would like to hear any and all insight you have about this.