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My Cousin Who Passed Visits Me


I will begin in 1994 when I was first contacted by my brother-in-law who died of a drug overdose. I would hear things, feel his presence, see his image on my sister in laws TV, and I also saw a wreath fly off the wall. He was present with me for 13 years.

Now, my cousin who was killed my a drunk driver on Cct 26, 2008, has contacted me several times. I see mists, hear music faintly that is not playing in my house, my cabinet doors slam in the middle of the night, her presence is all around me, electrical things suddenly stop working, bright light in my eye when I was under my covers asleep, smoke curling down from a ceiling fan to the floor, footsteps; shall I go on?

I have been told by another medium that I have strong ectoplasm and medium abilities. I can sense things, hear and smell things that aren't present, and I truly believe she is contacting me and other friends and family she is close too. One of my family members actually saw her in the bedroom, an apparition I assume. We are not afraid at all, and enjoy her coming to visit us.

Help, I would like to hone my medium abilities if I truly have them, and I feel I do. I am a saved Christian person who truly believes in God and I would never engage in anything evil or dark spirited.

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CupcakesAtTwilight (10 posts)
15 years ago (2009-03-16)
One more thing, you don't have to do any dark magic or anything "naughty". You can hone your skills (if you want) over time with just simple meditation and practice.
CupcakesAtTwilight (10 posts)
15 years ago (2009-03-16)
I think you should let your abilities develop by themselves, but I am also a naturalist - I believe things should happen naturally with no help from us.
Very cool about being able to contact your relatives. It's always nice to have communication with them.
Good luck with life to come, and I hope you continue to develop.
simplegurl018 (1 stories) (7 posts)
15 years ago (2009-03-16)
i think meditation helps out a lot but I also think that the more you open your self upto the I deal of it the more recipitable you will come
ICU (11 posts)
15 years ago (2009-03-14)
I know that mediums picture that they enveloped by a bubble of light around them when they are connecting to spirits. This is so that they are protected by dark energies. I suggest you do some research and find out more. There are plenty of information online.
WednesdayGirl (guest)
15 years ago (2009-03-10)
Me too! I am a Christian and have a strong belief and bond with God. He has given you gifts to help others. The abilities are also there to protect you. The Holy Spirit can guide and warn you if/when harm is near.
As the others say meditation will help. You could start by looking up free tips on meditation (through Google). Then, later when you get a chance you could find some starter books.
Many blessings to you. ❤
jadetiger (8 stories) (55 posts)
15 years ago (2009-03-09)
Okay, I am like you. I can sense, smell and hear them. And on occasion I can see them. As for honing your abilities, well, I can tell you it can take as long as you want it to take. I have been like this for 28 years, and sometimes new things still pop up from time to time. Like in the last 10 years or so, I have started seeing and hearing angels. And I also have started seeing shadow people, which I have noticed have been a lot more active recently.
My dad died 3 years ago and I can go to his house and he is blowing smoke in my face. He doesn't do it to anyone else, because they can't smell it and I think he has heard me tell my mom that he is smoking a cigarette again. We always laugh at that.
But back to you, I believe that these are gifts from God. This is so that we can understand that they are still with us and we can pass on any messages. The ablilities will grow with God's help. Ask and you shall receive, right? Well, ask in your prayers or meditations. He will assist you, I feel certain in this.
But I hope that I might have helped.

mystical2 (16 stories) (483 posts)
15 years ago (2009-03-09)
Meditation helps you focus and gain more control. Being Christian, you can meditate while using God's word, if more comfortable for you. I do not like anything dark myself.
mrcogllrdo (12 posts)
15 years ago (2009-03-09)
I'm developing similar abilities like yours. One way that you might develop your abilities is to focus on these feelings you receive and magnify them. You can also have an astral projection and go to your cousin and have a conversation with them. Either one works. Like I said, I'm not experienced in these type of situations. It might also be possible to see them with your 3rd eye, but I'm not necessarily sure that's possible.

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