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Can Psychic Abilities Be Fine Tuned?


July of last year my fiancé and I were invited on a boating trip with friends. My fiancé, "Tom", was an avid boater. This trip had been planned for about a month.

The day of the trip I had an uneasy feeling from the moment I woke up. I absolutely did not want to go on the boat, to point that I considered faking that I was sick. However, against my better judgment, I decided to just get ready and go because Tom was so looking forward to it and I didn't want to disappoint him. In hindsight, EVERYTHING seemed like it was in alignment to keep us from going. He was late getting out of work. Our babysitter was late coming over. I had this uneasy feeling. My son had a dream the day earlier that someone was chasing me, trying to kill me, but I had gotten away. That also played into my uneasy feeling but was not the sole cause of it. Just an unexplainable sense that something was not right.

The operator put the boat in gear while we were swimming off the back of the boat and Tom and I were both hit by the boat. I was rescued by one of the passengers on the boat. However, Tom died that day.

I awoke today, almost 9 months later, with that same uneasy feeling. It is unshakeable. No way to explain it, just this sense of doom. Also the number four has been so prominent in my mind since the time I woke up. The number four has also been a recurring number for me from the time Tom and I started dating. At one point, I was looking at a clock at 4:44, am and pm for 10 or 11 days straight. I would wake up in the middle of the night & look at the clock, guess what? 4:44 am. I would be unable to sleep and think "Geez, what time is it?" 4:44 am. Weird. I did talk to Tom about this because it was so weird. Also, we were 4 hours late getting to the boat and the accident occurred four hours after we arrived on the boat. I have not had the four thing going on since the accident until today. Today is the first day of the fourth month, but, I don't see how that could be giving me such an uneasy feeling.

I have had a number of premonitions in the past. I have had dream premonitions in the past. I have had countless feelings of the "uneasiness" and then something negative happened. The day of Tom's death and today being the strongest. Obviously, I did not foresee Tom's death, or there is no way I would have let him go on the boat, but I do feel it was a premonition on some level.

I have always felt like I have some type of psychic abilities. Or maybe someone is looking over me, kind of guiding me. Is there any way to hone in on these feelings/premonitions? They are definitely there. This is the story of just one day in my life. There are countless others to which the premonitions apply, this is just the most extreme one for me.

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trueckl (6 stories) (16 posts)
13 years ago (2009-04-13)
I came to this posting to read and gain the same information it is that you are trying to gain. To hone in on the gift I have been given so that I may have better use of it in order to benefit others more effectively, because I too have abilities that come and go as they please and aren't overly difinitive. Upon reading revsilverson's response, I couldn't help with the feeling that, "yes, he is absolutely right!" We have been given a very fine gift, one that we should be VERY grateful for, because there are those that aren't as fortunate. Perhaps it is with that knowledge and not expecting anything further, that we can obtain the ability to further understand what it is our gifts are telling us. Not to hone our techniques, but to just understand them.
LoranaJoy (4 posts)
13 years ago (2009-04-12)
If your really wondering about that number thing, check out a book by Doreen Virtue called Angel Numbers 101 in which it explains the most common ways that angels could be communicating with you by using repetative number sequences. I really suggest you check it out a.s.a.p. I'm really curious to find out what it means. Good luck to ya
seer_of_shadow (5 stories) (63 posts)
13 years ago (2009-04-11)
I'm sorry for your loss ma'am.

As for the feelings, I have had a few of these too and sometimes something negative happens but it seems yours are more accurate than mine. I would pay attention to them and if you feel uneasy about doing something, don't do it.

God bless you.
girlygirl89 (guest)
13 years ago (2009-04-11)
Im sorry about Tom. But, do you think he is trying to contact you or perhaps warn you that something as severe as what had happened to him is going to happen to someone else. I don't really know its just a thought.
aribx3 (1 stories) (11 posts)
13 years ago (2009-04-10)
Im so sorry to hear about Tom. If you try meditating and focusing on your abilities, it helps a lot and usually you understand them better.
aisu22 (1 stories) (10 posts)
13 years ago (2009-04-10)
Well, I'm sorry you lost "Tom". Anyways, you should probably listen to what you feel, and try to the best of your ability to do what seems best.
one_of_a_kindxo (2 stories) (13 posts)
13 years ago (2009-04-10)
meditation is a great work to devolp your skills. I'm really sorry for your lost. I kno what it is like to lose someone speical. I lost one of my best friends. She dies jult 8th 2008. Now I dream of her pretty much every 8th of the month
kb5922 (10 posts)
13 years ago (2009-04-10)
The feelings you say that you have are something that everyone has the capability of getting but not everyone is lucky enough to know how to tune in. One way that I've been told strengthens this is meditation. Sit down for some amount of time everyday and focus on your 3rd eye.

Also, everyone has atleast one spirit guide. There are some meditation exercises that you can find out abput online and try. These can help you get in touch with your spirit guide just as I have.
revsilverson (guest)
13 years ago (2009-04-10)
i'm sorry for your loss. Psychic abilities are gifts from the Divine Spirit and cannot be controlled to your needs. You can however strengthen your abilities or stop paying attention to them. When you remove your SELF from the equation your ablities will grow stronger. Also by consciously dedicating yourself to all the POSITIVE energies in the universe and to working selflessly with your gifts, that's when things really intensify. For me being psychic is mostly detective work. I rarely get a specific vision or dream that tells me everything about an upcoming psychic event. It doesn't work that way because of the energy transformation between the physical and spiritual worlds. For example, even if I get a vision of a departure flight board the shows flight 401 to denver departing 6:32 PM gate 22 all in big bold flashing red letters, I still don't know whay day or year this message pertains to. Or even which airport I'm at. When I study my vision closely perhaps I can make out potted palm trees and people in shorts and hawaiian shirts to give me more clues to where I am but still not the day or year.

Now these "feelings" you have are, in a sense, just as general but your experience has taught you to pay attention. So do that. You can't let it paralyze you into staying in bed the entire day. You should alter your plans somewhat to change the energy direction and keep you and yours safe. But as for getting real specific about what your feelings are trying to tell you? It will never happen and why should it? (i'm writing this to include everyone) isn't the gift you are receiving from the spirit realm enough? Be grateful for what you have been given. Give prayers of thanksgiving for it. Be humble. Don't ask or expect any more. It is what it is- a blessing.

Love and Light

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