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I Need to Change the Future my Father Predicted


This is more a call for help than just sharing a story. A little background... It's my dad, not me, who can "see" the future. Not that he can see it whenever he wants, he has dreams of things that end up happening. The night my grandfather died, my dad woke up and told my mom "my father is dead", she immediately knew it was true, and told him, we need to call them (they lived in another country).

The night my grandmother died my dad said to my mom, "I'm never going to see my mother again..." He says that in his dream his mother was basically saying goodbye to him.

He's told me about other things, trivial things, about dreaming about being with a very close friend somewhere... Who he didn't actually know. Years later he was sitting with his roommate who he had met after moving to the States... When it hit him, that was his dream, that's where they were and that was his friend.

Other things, he knew where he was going to live in his twenties, when he was a a lot younger... He had had a recurring dream of standing at the corner of his supposed home... But he didn't recognize the place. Years and years later he stood at the corner of his home... And remembered. He once dreamt of being in a place, that ended up being a Houston Show years later here in a completely different country.

That's just a general idea of the things he's told me, just to explain how it works with him. Well, we've all always known this, how he has somewhat of a weird sense of some future things. Here's the thing... My dad doesn't drink, because he has a very low tolerance and he always gets sick. He had a couple of beers today for some reason and got pretty drunk and started crying and telling me a bunch of things.

He told me about his dreams, about how he's been having them for years (since he was a kid), how he hates them, how he hates knowing what's going to happen. He doesn't understand why him, and doesn't know how to explain it, and how he hoped I didn't think he was crazy. He says he knows so many things that are going to happen, and things that are happening now, he knew... Or at least dreamed of them. I think the alcohol got the better of him and he may have been exaggerating a bit about knowing AS many things that he said (he didn't give details, he just said I know EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS! I think that was definitely the beers). But I know I believe him, I know that he's had dreams that have become reality.

This is what kills me now. He was crying and crying, because he said he also knows thing about his children, about what's going to happen to us. It's mostly two things that worry me. He told me that my brother wouldn't live to be 50. My brother recently dropped out of school and is living in another state in somewhat of a hippie community... We're all worried about what he's going to do with himself and my mom is scared he may get into, if not already heavy drugs and/or some kind of leftist group. My dad says that he (my dad) will move on first, but that he my brother will not live to see old age.

I told him not to worry, I told him I'd take care of my brother and that I would see to it that he would be okay. I assured him that I would never ever let my brother slip away like that, that I'd help him always. That's when he started talking about how, or really I started talking about how maybe he has these dreams so that he can change what will happen, maybe it isn't so much a sentence as maybe a warning. There is a reason why he has these dreams... And there was a reason why he told me about my brother, now I know, now I know that I have to take care of him, starting now before it's too late. I feel like these dreams have reasons for occurring, and that by him telling me about it, that already changes things.

He also told me that I would live a happy life, that I was a good person and that I was going to do fine for myself... And here's the bomb, that I'd have a baby boy. Thing is this, when he first started drunkenly mumbling and crying to me, he let it slip that I was going to have a son, and that he was going to die. At that time I thought he was just being drunk and talking crap. Besides I asked him laughing even, how would I have son? (I'm gay, I know that I can still have children... But when he told me this I thought he meant that I was going to get accidentally get pregnant like NOW, and it was going to ruin my life blah blah blah) but later when we actually sat down to talk, he repeated to me that I was going to have a son... But didn't say anything else, he just cried.

He said that I'd have my son after his (my dad's death) and so I said to him, well at least you've kind of met him already, and asked him why he was crying, wasn't that a good thing that I'd be having a son... And that's when it hit me, first I felt this immense love and joy and everything... At the thought of my son, MY son. And then like a blow to my life, I realized why my dad was crying, I'm going to have a son, and he's going to die, and I cried and cried for the death of a son I haven't even had and don't know if I'm even going to have. It was the most pain I've ever felt in my life. I cried so hard, because all of a sudden I believed it, I don't know if I can say I KNOW... But I felt this joy at the thought, like when you first hear that news from the doctor, "you're pregnant, and it's going to be a boy," I was ecstatic... And then... The most terrible loss of my life.

My dad is passed out right now. He's going to be so ashamed and apologetic tomorrow, he knows he can't drink. But, I feel almost like, I'm glad he did, and told me all these things. Because if it's true, I can save my brother. But how the hell do I save my son? I can't. I don't even know what he's supposed to die of. I can ask my dad about it tomorrow when he's sober but I have a feeling he won't want to talk about it or most probable that he'll act like it's not real and that he was just a drunk talking ridiculous things. I didn't ask him at the time because I knew he'd get rowdy again, and I didn't want to scare my little brother or upset the neighbors.

I wanted to tell someone, I wanted to ask someone's opinion, but I can't talk to anyone I know, because 1. My dad doesn't want people to know, I know this, this is his private thing. And 2. No one's going to believe me... Hey I'm going to have a son and he's going to die, what should I do...

I'm just a mix of emotions, this amazing thrill that I want to share with everyone, I'm going to have a son! And incredible unbelievable sadness...

Anything to say? Please someone say something, I just need to share this and know that it's reaching someone.

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Timfaraos (426 posts)
9 years ago (2015-02-21)
Firstly, I also have a father who cries at something bad... And alcohol makes it worse... But not many bad dreams. But he's strong, because he's a practicing orthodox christian. Dreams come from three sources: our own mind, or god or demons. Sometimes demons show us things that actually happen, or will never happen, just to scare us, confuse us, or think we have psychic powers, and WE HAVE TO SAVE THE WORLD! Don't believe in dreams. Who are you to save your brother or your baby, or father?... You are just a week human, living in sin, like all of us! If you want to help or save someone, don't ask for spirit guides through a psychic medium, or tarot card reader, because they'll make you keep coming back to them, and pay them thousands of dollars, and open up your life to demons. I've 'been there done that!'... If you want to help someone, dead or living, or yourself, you need to run for help to the most powerful and loving spirit in the universe, and he'll help you for FREE! His name: JESUS CHRIST! And His Angels! Pray to him: 'my god and father, I leave my past, my present and my future in your strong and loving hands, because I know nothing is impossible for you, and we are just dust in the wind without your help and protection! I trust you to look after my family and friends, forever! In Jesus' name. Amen!' so tell your dad not to worry about silly dreams... Everything is in God's hands... We are not God! 'Kei serà será', whatever will be will be. All we have to do, is stop living in sin, with God's help. Read the bible and psalms, and PRACTICE the bible. Also pray!... And fast from meat and dairy whenever you can. I know someone who can help you, he's your local orthodox priest. Invite him to sprinkle your home and family with holy water, tell him your problems, and he'll be glad to help, because he CAN! Visit website: 'real life angel and demon encounters'. Good luck. God bless! My phone: +61416412185
CloudyCloudyCloud (51 posts)
16 years ago (2008-09-28)
i believe you & I would give you a hug if I could... (( (HUG)) )
I think you should ask your dad about the deatails of his dream sometime. Ask him if he can see the situation in which the baby boy died. I'm sorry that you had to feel everything hitting you at the same time. That's terrible...
If you can prevent the baby's death, it would be worth trying to get your dad to give you more information.
I wish you the best in your efforts with your brother and father.
nature_gurl90210 (2 stories) (12 posts)
16 years ago (2008-09-21)
Wow! That's a lot of information you gave there... Now I'm going to give you some myself. Always remember that the future is never set stone. Some poeple recieve warnings so it can be changed or so you can avoid it in one way or the other. For your brother, just make sure to take care as best as you can even if you're not with him physically. And for your unborn son. I don't know exactly what to say. I can't tell you to be way over protective of him because that's what probably may cause it. I really don't know what to say except that the FUTURE IS NEVER SET STONE, IT CAN ALWAYS CHANGE.

❤ to you and your family,
Nature_gurl 90210
Kai (guest)
17 years ago (2007-09-04)
Your father should know he is not alone in his experience, nor are you. I have had prophetic visions and dreams following me my entire life as well. They are here to help guide us to show us who we are, will be, or wish not to be. There is no destiny only choice. Enjoy these gifts, your life, and your son.
Liad (1 stories) (1 posts)
17 years ago (2007-09-04)
Thanks so much Martin :) I really appreciate your response. That night was very emotional for me, but you're right I can't go crazy about it now. And yeah my brother finally got a new phone, so I fee like I can start having more communication with him, and hopefully things will go well with us and whatever it is he's doing over there 😁
Martin (129 posts) mod
17 years ago (2007-09-03)
Hi Liad, that's certainly a story from the heart, and I think they are the best kind. So thanks for it. It's a good thing to keep an eye on your brother and make sure he doesn't get brainwashed by any group (radical left or extreme right), you can start telling him how important it is that he thinks for himself, and even though that might make life more difficult (for some), this individuality is precious and he should look at it as a challenge and that having friends and a supportive community is important, but to never let them think and live his life for himself.

On the other hand, don't be in a rush to judge how he decides to live it in the end, because even though it might not follow the mainstream formula of living, it could be as good, or even better, for him to follow an alternative one that is better suited. He should definitely stay off any hard drugs (for the softer kinds, some people will try it a few times no matter what you say and if you're too hysterical about it, he might not take you seriously when it's time to stay away from the more dangerous stuff.) but if he decides to live next to nature with a supportive community (no cult, no doomsaying charismatic leader, of course), it might not be as bad as you think. In either case, if it happens and he is an adult, it's pretty hard to do anything about it, and keep in mind that we all go through experiences in this life, some good some bad, to help us grow spiritually, and sometimes, some people need the bad for a while , so all you can offer is your companionship when it gets rough.

As for you future child, if it even happens (you could end up adopting, who knows), make sure to appreciate all the time you have with him, especially after that warning about his future, but keep in mind that we will all die at some point, your father, mother, you, friends, but you can't let it crush you now and stop living because of it. Just integrate this notion of death in your life because it is part of reality, and any philosophy that avoid the subject is in denial. See the time you will have as a gift, and not the time you won't have as a curse.

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