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Dreams, Visions, And Auras To Help In Complicated Friendship


I have a martial arts instructor who is a woman. 13 years ago she was a student in the same school and I was attracted to her so I would wait for her to flirt or show some interest. Back then she was a black belt and student of 10 years at the school. She treated everyone the same when giving instruction. I could never tell if she had an interest in me. Due to a car accident, I quit that first year.

I am married now and have reentered the same martial arts school with my kids. I have trained the past 2 years. The instructor seemed to be significantly flirtatious with me and extra-friendly. I was happy at first but that turned to frustration and disappointment. I decided to meditate one night after the first 6 months of training. I wanted some answers as to why my emotions were getting carried away and how she felt about our situation. That night I had a dream of her embracing a shadow of me. I shot up out of bed and couldn't go back to sleep. I looked this up in a dream symbology book by Carl Jung. A shadow symbolized the desire for someone.

A couple months later she invited some of the students out to have dinner at a local restaurant. While she was talking to one of the students, I had a vision of her as a man in possibly another life. As my feelings kept getting out of control, I finally decided to see a psychic I'd known for 10 years.

In that visit I was told that we both desired each other and that we had been guards at a temple and were quartered together for a long part of our lives. In this life we were very close like brothers. I was told in another life we were lovers. A couple months later I went to talk with the psychic again and I was told that my wife would divorce me and the instructor and I would be together.

I decided it was time to talk to the instructor about how I felt. I sent her a few emails and talked to her in person. At first she looked shocked but admitted that she wished she had been around more often 13 years ago to have gotten to know me better. Then she did a 180 and looked extremely upset.

Within a couple days I had another dream that I went to the martial arts school and was locked out. In the dream I went to her home and visited her. She said she couldn't teach me until she talked to the grand master. The instructor wouldn't talk to me for a couple weeks but I overheard the grand master telling her that she was in love with me and that was why it was difficult to teach me. I felt awkward as if I'd done something wrong. I said and did things to sabotage any future between us without ruining our teacher - student relationship. However, sometimes when she is near I feel a loving warm energy around me like an invisible hug or as if we are one. At other times she is very stand-offish.

She indicated once that she is very much afraid that I might quit due to the attraction I have.

I went back to the psychic again this year after the instructor started acting like she wasn't so interested in me anymore. The psychic told me that she and I have had 5 significant lives together and that most people would not have the focus and mental discipline to not touch each other (I'm married now). In one life we were sworn to protect something like being in the secret service. This involved a ceremony with lots of energy involved in our pledge to our duty to protect. Another involved being in the same family. Another we were soldiers and lovers which was acceptable within whatever culture it was. I was not given details of the other two except for that we were very intimate in all 5.

I'm also told an entity inside of me awakened and my martial arts instructor had become a lifeline for it. I was given instructions to rid myself of the entity and dissolve the influence of the ceremony of the previous life or move myself to another place to train. I succeeded in doing this and feel that my emotions are back under my control instead of running my life.

The psychic also told me that the instructor had realized that it wouldn't work out and I was told that it isn't her life to be married and have children. I don't think she is interested in having children (I have two). So this helps me realize the friendship is how it should be and I should value the way things are and not change them. I can't help but wonder if things would be far easier if we dated years ago and found that we weren't meant to be. As time goes by things have gotten better and easier. She is a very good person and excellent instructor.

I have been feeling itching in my hands when thinking about her lately.

Sometimes when thinking about this situation, I'll hear a song in my head with lyrics giving me advice. When I was single I'd utilize information from songs in my head quite often. I could find out if a woman had true feelings for me or was just having fun. Right now the song, "Workin' my way back to you, babe, with a burnin' love inside" is in my head and probably telling me what do in regards to my wife. She loves me and is hurt by my distraction. I have been trying to do the right thing.

It is interesting to note that an acquaintance married the daughter of a former instructor at this school, my cousin married a niece of a former instructor from this school, one of my best friends worked for and is friends with a close relative of the grand master, and that there are several other coincidences or synchronicities having occurred involving this school and my life path.

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Timfaraos (426 posts)
6 years ago (2015-03-28)
I've heard that reiki practitioners call on unspecified 'healing spirits', and channel them into themselves and the patient- as do shamans. We don't know who or what these spirits are. Why not heal in the proven name of Jesus? Better safe than sorry! For an exellent mind blowing autobiography of a powerful shaman, read the book: "SPIRIT OF THE RAINFOREST", by Mark Andrew Ritchie. At (and on the same subject, see movie: "ENEMY GOD". Truly amazing!). Good luck!
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-08-28)
Thanks Oracle 101.
I don't know how to describe what I went through the last couple years but the fog has lifted and everything is getting back to normal on a mental level.
I was physically loyal but my mind went somewhere else. I came to the brink of losing my mind.
I have been sincere and honest with both women. I could see that it was affecting all three of us.
Perhaps it would have been better to have quit training martial arts or gone somewhere else a year and a half ago.
I'd still be together with my wife.
I believe that some emotions and feelings just exist and we have to accept them without blame. I believe these feelings were from past life memories.
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
11 years ago (2010-07-29)
I am not a marriage therapist, but you asked for my personal opinion on what you might want to do to help get your wife back. Men like space and time away to think, but most women like to talk it out and to see proof of love.

Be honest, sincere, patient, softspoken, and loving (and from now on loyal).

Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-07-17)
Walk ins and walk outs. I read up on it last night. Sure enough. I believe now that it happened. On a psychic level it feels like a very good friend is gone and it hurts. I don't feel the ki nor the aura around her for over a year now. I feel mad at the entity that left. She should have been a warior but I hear it would have been very hard on her. Well it was for me too. One student told my wife you should see them together, it's making the school look bad. I wish more people saw and understood things on a spiritual/psychic level. There would be so much more love and understanding instead of fear and dislike.

I forgive my friend and look forward to seeing her again in another life. I miss you.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-07-17)
Has anyone else heard of this soul switching? From what I've heard on coast to coast guests and the psychic I see, the soul mutually agrees to switch with the original soul. The physical body and mental body are the same so your memories and knowledge in this life are intact. However, your life program or purpose may change, past life personalities aren't the same, past life relations are different so groups of friends may change, may take on a different look and career or education. On coast to coast a guest said she divorced her husband because she was a different person and it was never going to work.

All of my past girlfriends would somewhat keep in touch and be friendly except my first. She was 20. We were in love and one day she wanted to end it. A year later she appeared different, she always dreamed of being a journalist but changed her degree to law among other changes. I was happy to see her suddenly become very self-confident and head strong. Any friendship ended. She said that the spark just ended one day and she didn't know why but she had no desire to even continue a friendship.

Just things that happen or a different soul?
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-07-01)
I talked to my psychic last night.

I got rid of the entity.

I also found that my instructor was acting different since last fall because she has a different soul now and is a different person. The original soul which I had previous lives with is no longer in the instructor's body. Therefore I was feeling sad and confused when her interactions had changed with me.

I think on a subconscious level it registered when I looked into her eyes. Something was missing and it made me very sad. It's like losing a close friend and you miss them very much.

The psychic tells me this used to be very uncommon but is now common place. It happened with my first girlfriend and was the explaination for her breaking up with me and changing her degree in college. She seemed like a different person as well. Evidently I've been attracting these people into my life. They've had previous lives with me and need me to be there as their friend but then decide they just can't go on in their present situation. So they exit and a different soul enters. It's all agreed on with mutual cooperation.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-06-25)
My mind had cleared significantly and I've made progress in getting right minded.

I watched a video with Edgar Cayce followers speaking about past lives. They say we have multiple interactions with so called "soul mates" whom we've had past lives with. Old feelings can be felt for good or bad and we feel a familiarity with them. It is easier for us to know what is on their mind and interact with these soul mates.

The important message from followers of Edgar Cayce was to work through interactions and follow the will of God. This would mean to view my instructor as nothing more and nothing less than my instructor. Furthermore get right minded in regards to my wife and marital commitment.

I have looked to the master for advice on this matter and he has been very helpfull. He has stated that no comment was made a year and a half ago about the instructor not wanting to teach me out of any feelings of being in love with me. I was in the back of the room when I must have totally misheard his comment. The master is very compassionate in regards to his students. He wants the best for my family. He has emphasized to me to think of the instructor as only my instructor and to keep training.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-03-20)
Coast to Coast radio show had a guest speak about entities and their influence on some people. The guest speaker, Rita Louise, spoke of entities that sometimes attach themselves to people who go through difficult times or trauma as a child. The individual is low on self-esteem and energy so they reach out for help. At this time they are open to attract an entity who may try to live out a physical life through an attachment to the host. She did speak of alien entities but didn't clarify.
The descriptions of the affects these entities have on their host sounded much like what I was going through over the last couple years. If I missed a day of martial arts, I was grumpy and couldn't concentrate. My psychic said the instructor was a lifeline for this entity and was magnifying my desires and attraction. I couldn't concentrate at work and at home.
Now I'm feeling emotionally stable but I try to go and train every other day. I don't feel grumpy if I miss a day anymore whereas I used to get obsessive and irritable if I missed practice.
I think the instructor and I both know that in order for me to train at the school we have to put any friendship on hold and keep things professional on a student teacher relationship. It is difficult being that she seems to be good friends with most of the other adults in the school. I feel left out of the loop but that's the way it is.
I've been told that some of the other veteran students are disappointed with me and worried that I've made the school look bad. I only talked to one student about this whole situation over the first couple years and he's not a student there any more. I'm not a gossipper. I believe the best approach is to go directly to the source or the person involved in a situation. This can be the best way to deal with it. Other students didn't have to know but I guess it was that obvious. So I really need to keep quiet and just train.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-03-14)
In Carl Jung's Dream Symbology a closed door can mean a "no go" situation. Any obstacles must be removed at will or accepted and dealt with.
I had another dream about a couple of my teeth falling out. I had to force myself to wake up and verify my teeth were still in because the dream was so real. The symbology can mean entering a new phase of my life.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-03-10)
Oracle 101. Thank you for the good advice. My psychic never claimed I was ever married to the instructor in a past life. Furthermore, she has given a reading to my Mother and a friend that were very difficult to hear. The friend called me two years later to verify that the reading came true and made sense and wanted to reconnect with my psychic. Thank you for your wise words. I appreciate it. All the input from this website has been great and helped me significantly.
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
11 years ago (2010-03-08)
Sometimes we have fear dreams and wanting dreams. I could be wrong but I do not sense you were married to the instructor in another life, or had even known her in a past life. (Some paid psychics tell the paying client what they want to hear). I sense you are desiring the instructor and so dream about her, especially since you are experiencing difficulties in your marriage to your wife. It is natural to look back on a previous love or relationship and wonder what might have been and if it would have been better with that other person. You might want to focus on your marriage and decide if you truly want to make it work rather than living in a dream.

(in reply to the question you posted on my own story.)

Oracle101, Psychic and Medium for 43 years
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Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-22)
For clarification I'll add that the instructor never hit on me nor did I feel that she was coming on to me. My emotions were sliding out of control so I sought out my own psychic experience through dreams to find out what it was all about. The information I received has been helpful and sometimes tormenting as well.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-21)
Wandering Wayne, Soki Usui, is very interesting. I wouldn't mind reading more about him. He reminds me of a medicine man or holy man in the American Indian tradition. I've heard that in groups that study reiki you can feel energized for the first couple months but become similar to a bank of batteries used to energize new students of reiki. I'm sure this isn't the case in all schools but be cautious. That's why I practice it on my own.
I'd like to hear about your experience. I'll email you when I have an email used to retain my anonymity.
I think we all have abilities that we can exercise but sometimes they'll shut down if we call to much attention to ourselves through these abilities. This is one reason why I'd like to stay anonymous. I can learn more and write about my experiences without calling any attention to myself. I want to learn more about what others can do and what my potential might be.
Imagine if you could manipulate the weather through a mental projection. You wouldn't want anyone to know and anyone with this ability would hopefully be very responsible with it.
WanderingWayne (4 stories) (107 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-21)
Hi again. I read some of your other post. It seems I share your ideas on hunting and have also read the books by Tom Brown. Great books. I live half way between Seattle and Portland, where I grew up hunting and fishing. That has helped lead me to a great love of nature and a special connection and love of creation. After reading some of your other posts I thought I might be able to point you in a similar but different direction on energy. If you've searched for energy you've probably read about this already, but on the chance you haven't here is something I have become very interested in in a short time, and excited about. I read about Reiki a few times and just passed over it. When I went to the book store to buy a book called Hands of Light it was gone and in the same place was a book by Lawrence Ellyard called Reiki Healer, so I bought it and started reading about Reiki on the first day of this month. Next week-end I go take Reiki training for Reiki 1 & 2. I am the type that over thinks and second guesses everything, so this is kind of an odd thing for me to do, both the quick time frame and the solid decision to do this. I know they always say go with your feelings but this time I have very strong possitive actual feelings that this is right for me, like nothing before that I remember. I also was strong in feeling that I had picked a good teacher, plus in my sleep someone told me "go to Portland, Oregon" where this teacher is. Anyway this was just to tell you that Reiki is a different kind of energy than most. A single purpose type of energy for self exploration, self healing and a way to be of service to others. Strange to me how quickly I have come to believe that that is the way it is. For me the ICRT (International Center for Reiki Training) founded by William Lee Rand was the most logical choice and a woman who is into shamanics and loves nature was a logical choice for a teacher, but more importantly I guess she "feels right". I don't like that phrase really, but it fits here. Reiki is different than Chi and Qui Gonk and if you haven't looked into it very far is worth a read. Usui, the guy that is credited with discovering/rediscovering it did it through a 21 day vision quest. Interesting subject anyway. Email me if you want and I'll tell you how it goes. My email is on this web-site.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-21)
Does itching in areas of the hands mean anything? When writing this article I was experiencing itching in the right palm between the first two knuckles on the palm side.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-21)
Liam_Galaxie. You're correct according to my psychic. I have bad karma to pay back to her. She told me that about 11, 000 years ago my wife and I lived in a rigidly disciplined culture that had all the men serve two years. We were selected to marry by a match maker and I wasn't happy with the selection. However, she was the one I had intended to be with in that life. When I went to serve my country, I sailed off and didn't return for a long time, maybe 10 years. When I returned she had to wait for me and couldn't remarry. She was also too old to have kids. Part of our destiny was that we would have children together. So this life is my chance to counter that bad karma.
Liam_Galaxie (4 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-20)
Don't worry about it.
You've made decisions in this life and the most important thing is that you learned from them.
Soulmates like that stay with you,
So I'm sure the two of you will have laughs about it when you are in the spirit world.
Do everything you can for your wife and love her as much as possible.
There was a reason you chose her and didn't act on your feelings towards you instructor.
Remember that you'll have to go through all of these experiences again if you can't handle them this time.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-19)
Sueonmaui. Yes you have some wise words to share. I'll put that into practice. I utilized the dreams to understand it all. However, it was all so overwhelming. The last couple of months I've felt more grounded.

Edmund. This is the first time in my marriage that I was so distracted. There was a friend in college whom I don't talk to much. She and I were supposedly married in 12 different lifetimes. The psychic advised me to not go out of my way to recontact her and now I'm understanding why. Its interesting how as we get older we become more spiritually and psychically aware of our environment.
Sueonmaui (6 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-19)
This may be difficult but spend the same amount of time you have spent obsessing over your past-life connection, instead spend the same amount of time thinking about your current relationship with your wife. When you have resolved the issues of why you have allowed your mind to wander, what part of you, you felt was not completed in your current relationship... When you are able to pin-point this, then work on it within the relationship. The answers are all within you, not projected out into this other woman. I went through something similar with a man and I am married also. Honor your current bond and the sacredness of it. Don't throw valuable chi away to something that is not within your circle. If you find that your circle is no longer inclusive of your current marriage partner, then voice that and move on. But allow yourself to do that with no expectations. Do not do it "beacause you think you will go after and be open to this other woman." Let nature take its course. Right now, the course is to correct yourself, nurture yourself, and center. Blessings.
Edmund (578 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-19)
Rabbitinthemoon... Interesting story... Do you think that in this incarnation you spend some time apart to develop other relationships? Or to gain a different insight on life? The reason that I ask is in this incarnation that I am in now I had to sever relationships with others that spaned several lifetimes for the same things that I ask you.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-19)
JLH27 This whole experience has been extremely difficult for me. I've broken down and cried in private and in public if stressed I'll start laughing and smiling when I'm actually feeling down. I think I'm a stronger person overall because of the experience.
A couple people close to her have said I should have asked her out years ago. I had been in some difficult inter-racial relationships and some were not easy. I almost got beaten up by a girlfriend's brother and friends in one relationship. In others the family doesn't always accept you. It makes it much harder to ask the girl out unless she shows some definite interest.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-19)
[at] Wandering Wayne The psychic has gotten into the subject of past lives because I have some limited memory of them. Believe me one life is enough to handle. Having memory of more than one requires some serious mental focus. I've tested my psychic with things I've known the answers to and she scored 100% every time.
Here's what she told me in regards to martial arts and ki. You won't believe most of it as I think it is incredible but I hold an open mind. She said, "What are you doing there. You've already taken martial arts hundreds of times in past lives." I was surprised. In the conversation she added that I'd trained as a warior monk in Tibet for 5 consecutive lives and my temple was destroyed in the 50's. Finally, I needed to change my path and in one of the latest lives I fell down a cliff outside the temple shattering one ankle and breaking the other. I had to be carried around by the other monks for the rest of my life. Today when I train my ankles bother me and the psychic says there's nothing wrong with my ankles but my soul memory is triggering off these symptoms to prevent me from getting out of balance and out of focus in this life.
She has also told me to read about reiki and that I can heal with my hands. I've been practicing this and it helps with muscle cramps and arthritis type symptoms.
I could go on and on because I see her once or twice a year like a dental check up but for a healthy spiritual life. Maybe you'd find interest in finding a good psychic and asking them about such matters. I believe a responsible one will only tell you what you are ready to handle. It can take a while to find a good one or maybe they'll find you.
Rabbitinthemoon (3 stories) (47 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-19)
[at] jlh27 I think most women don't want to be marriage breakers and from how I've seen her act and overheard conversations, It appears to have been difficult for her over these past couple years. I think you may have misinterpreted my story. I went to the Psychic for explanation and counseling so maybe I didn't explain fully since I was focusing on my own psychic experiences in regards to the matter. Instead the psychic told me she did desire to be with me up until this past summer which is when I enrolled my wife in the school.
I sincerely believe that presently I'm viewed as a dear friend.

[at] Liam Thank you for the encouragement. Your on the same page as I am.
WanderingWayne (4 stories) (107 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-19)
Interesting story and the people in your life that are connected to this school is amazing. Did you every think to ask the psychic how many more of the people in your life now are from your past lives. I would think that the study of Martial arts and also possibly Qui Gong or Chi energy may be important to you in this life to prepare for the next. Just a thought.
Jlh27 (2 stories) (12 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-19)
Sorry but it sounds like you are obsessing about a woman who is not feeling the same way. Past lives together or not, you have a wife and children but are consulting a psychic to understand why this instructor doesn't want to be with you? I fully believe in past lives but this story is odd
Liam (3 stories) (13 posts)
11 years ago (2010-02-19)
WOW what a story extreamly interesting. Not that I have had any experience with past lives but I don't think you should cut off the realtionship completely. I mean I know you said your still in her class and what not, but if the time came where you felt it was time to move on and leave her in your past I think it would be a bad idea.

Also keep in mind your wife, I'm sure its on your mind 24/7 but perhaps in a apast life you and your wife where together more than this instructer. At the same time I think that perhaps you and the instructor should just keep a link in your current life time line, just so the next life isn't broken... If you know what I mean. Who knows perhaps in the next life you two are meant to be with one another and are destined to do somthing that may influence the world greatly. But this may not happen if she is in some way not involved in your life now.

Just some food for thought, thank you for sharing this with the world though its fasinating.


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