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Excessive Negative Energy


Sometimes I feel all this negative energy. It's not even negative it's just unpleasant. Like when you hug someone who is in pain or crying although you are happy to help them, it feels like afterward all their bad emotions have rubbed off on you and it's like wearing an old shirt you desperately want to take of but can't because it needs to run it's course?

So where is all this nagging energy coming from? Touching certain fabrics causes it to appear and washing them doesn't do any good. Like the blankets that come with our student housing I can't even stand to look at because of the color or something about them that bothers me so much! The cold walls are horrible and DRAIN my energy. Arranging my bedroom fung shui helps sleeping a bit, I still can't stand that room though. Where is all of this negative energy coming from? The words "hollow" and "nagging" come to mind. How should I cope with it?

But living with roommates is the biggest horror. I'd like to love them but we don't get along, it feels like I'm completely discarded from the group because I don't fit in. I prefer not to hand out at bars or stay up and drink (yuk) until the next day or gossip, I hate it- drives me crazy! I try to ignore it, but knowing someone is somewhere in the apartment with you is distracting in itself.

And off-topic,I'm wondering if anyone can relate? I've always gravitated to older people who I can possibly see as role models (I'm 17) and they're always surprised I'm ten years younger or so... I don't fit in ever with my age group, except for friends from childhood, why? I'd like to though. Regarding the living space, how do I cope with it? Any comments, ideas I would absolutely love to hear, similarities, anything, it would be really great! Thank you! -Anna

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Astral_Mapmakers_Society (2 posts)
12 years ago (2012-03-28)
Working mind with energy (as many stated above) is very good. But it also sounds like you need to physically clear energy residue. Dried Sage (white sage too) If you burn this like incense, and chant a saying for any neg. Energy/ghost-- must leave in the name God, ect - and then spread the smoke while making crosses over every door and window in the house 'nothing is to enter here', and spin the smoke around you as the end. This is a very ancient method, that works excellent for all neg. Energies of any sort. And if you have bad dreams, place sea salt under the 4 corners of your bed, and sweep it up, toss it out in a week or when you sense too. Hope this helps if you are still looking for answers 😊
Shinigami0 (2 stories) (204 posts)
13 years ago (2010-11-23)
As other posters have stated, it is more than likely that you are an empath.

Sometimes, the negative energy can be a pain, but really, in a lot of social situations, it can be a gift.

As others have stated, you need a shield. Here's the easiest way to accomplish that. (Its how I was able to form one; it gets easier, the more you practice).

Try to imagine a white light surrounding yourself, kind of like a bubble, when you encounter negativity, and think of the saying, "I am rubber, you are glue". Think of the negativity as a minus sign, and keep it out of your bubble, by focusing on anything positive, or plus signs, that you want in your bubble.

This method has been pretty helpful for me, especially in crowded places, like grocery stores (mainly Walmart), where negative emotions run high. It is also helpful when dealing with entities- I wish I had heard of this method before I went on a ghost tour, lol. I thought I was having major pms or something, at each location, because my emotions would automatically change for no reason. 😆

Also, one reason you may not like hanging around a lot of your age group may have to do with your maturity level. I too, really only like my childhood friends/ people I have a lot in common with. It also might have to do with personality traits, such as being a bit shy. And don't worry, you're not the only one who doesn't like drinking. 😉

About your roommates... Have you tried rooming with people you share interests with? That always helps to ease tension. How would you describe your relationship with them?

I hope this can be as helpful to you as it was to me, when I needed it. If you need anything else, don't hesitate to ask. 😊
NaturalScience (229 posts)
13 years ago (2010-11-16)
Public consciousness in the West to-day is full of NAGGING and EMPTINESS - or better, lack of DEPTH, of PURPOSE, of FOCUS. It is a heavy cross to feel this so immediately, most of us get numb to it just to be protected. The reason why some of us keep feeling and suffering it is that there must be some who can change it, at least by keeping themselves off useless nagging or "meckering" as a German would put it, and by seeking depth, purpose, righteousness and supporting all who do this too.
Remember that no tree grows until it reaches the sky, not even that of collective mediocrity and irresponsibility.
And the "termites" that will make this tree fall are you and me and all who allow themselves to feel what is wrong to-day and to resist where they can no matter if the changes they can achieve are minimal as to their perspective. One termite is nothing but there are SOOO many. Wait and see - the tree will fall within our lifetimes, within next years, this is sure!
If you feel bad at touching certain pieces of clothing perhaps there is somewhat more - recognition of the "vibes" that remain on the clothes from those who made them. You know, most of our clothes are sewn in "3rd world" regions by people who live as slaves - no wonder they leave "stains" of their anger and frustration on the products. Garments made by happy and well-paid people may be expensive but for you they could be well recommended. Weaving and sewing by yourself could be another solution - if you have the talent and the time.
SnowAngel12 (guest)
13 years ago (2010-11-16)
Like everyone said your an empath.

I understand what you mean when you just can't stand being next to someone. Its worse when its your loved ones, because you are more in-tune with them.

Some objects needs to be cleansed. Not the usual put it in the washer. There are many ways, but each person has their own way that works best for them.

Role models, wise man/women, teachers, etc... Are about the same area of similarity to me, but each have their own definition. I know what you mean by gravitating towards people who have more wisdom, thoughts, or ideas. Not surprising that you go hang out with older people than you. Nothing wrong with that, its just tells you how mature your way of thought is. Some people it takes awhile to even get to the point of "maturity", but then again, each individual person defines mature in their own way. But at the same time there are adults who still act like teenagers and thinks their mature... Those people... Is a whole different story I rather not go into.
kayrodz (3 stories) (16 posts)
13 years ago (2010-11-15)
i am feeling the same thing now too. I am having a hard time being around people who I feel is so negative it drives me crazy. I love these people but at the same time everything they do, say, or the way they behave causes me to want to run from them. I try to keep a positive face and attitude toward them, but deep inside I want to tell them how terribly they are behaving or tell them to get over whatever is making them angry, sad, etc. Iam a empath a very sensitive one at that. I struggle everyday. Sheilding with a white light helps. It's hard being around people who don't serve love, when we live in a world filled with people who are bullies. We feel there deepest pain in our energy feilds and it stays with us. Do some research on clearing your aura at the end of the day. You are not alone. Lota of love!
bbdeathspark (4 stories) (617 posts)
13 years ago (2010-11-15)
Yeah, Rashidah is probably right. Since your an empath, your sensitive to everyone's energy, and unconsciously, would want to stay out of a group, unless the mood is a happy one.
Rashidah (guest)
13 years ago (2010-11-15)
You are probably an empath. You have to shield yourself at times.

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