A while back me and my fiance had a mild argument and I slept on the sofa for the night, while asleep I dreamt I was sitting on my fiance's lap, at the computer desk, I looked across the room and behind the kitchen counter (I am in a small studio flat and my living room and kitchen are joined) I could see the silhouette of a man crouching behind the counter, I panicked and asked my fiance if he could see it and he said no and looked at me as if I was stupid.
The man behind the counter came forward and showed himself as my fiance but his face was flickering in the same way that people do if you look at them in a certain level of darkness. I again asked my fiance if he could see it, he looked hard, told me there was nothing there and went back to what he was doing, refusing to look again.
The figure sat on the sofa and all of a sudden had another figure, with the same flickering face, of myself in it's lap, he was holding her in his arms, looking over to me, smiling at me and then kissing her.
I woke up, not afraid, but feeling a little shaken and confused, I went back to bed and slept as close as possible to my fiance.
I didn't think anything of the dream at first as I've had weird and almost similar dreams before, mainly when I was younger.
But a few days later, or the morning after, (I forget which) my fiance left for work at half past 5 as usual and I went back to sleep. I woke up and had kicked the blankets off myself, I was about to get up and dressed when all of a sudden I couldn't move, I was led almost paralyzed, I looked towards the door and saw the silhouette of my fiance, I thought nothing of it at first, but as I tried to talk to him to ask why he had come home from work, I found I couldn't speak. I tried harder to force myself and after a while I managed to force out a broken whisper, for some reason I asked "where are you?" And in a loud, quite clear whisper he answered "I'm here" I slowly asked "where" I received no reply, I slowly asked "who are you" and tried to lift myself from the bed, I tried as hard as I could and finally managed to sit myself up but he had gone. For some reason that I forget I called out asking him to come back, asking him to show himself again, to talk to me, but he did not.
A few days later it happened again, my fiance left for work, I fell back to sleep and after a while something woke me up. I looked up to see my fiance, stood right next to me at the side of the bed. My vision was blurred slightly from sleep, but he was there clear as day. I tried to say 'hi' but again, I could not speak, I again managed only a broken whisper and asked 'are you ok' to which he answered, again in the loud whisper something along the lines of "yes, go back to sleep" and smiled at me. I lifted my head to look at the clock and saw it was 10:00am which was unusual as he wasn't due home until 2:00pm. As I looked at the clock I could see him walking away in the corner of my eye, as he reached the end of the bed I lifted myself to tell him the time and ask if he'd forgotten something, but I looked up and he was gone, I searched the flat and the doors were still locked and he was gone.
Later that day I sent my fiance a text, asking if he'd forgotten something that morning and asked why he didn't talk to me properly when he came home, a little while later he replied, telling me that he hadn't gone back home that morning, he had left for work at 5:30, went straight to work and had stayed there. I asked him again when he got home but he definitely had not been home at that time that morning and he just brushed it off as nothing.
I know there's always that chance that it could be nothing, just a daydream or something, but although it hasn't happened again in a fair few weeks I haven't stopped thinking about it. I don't feel scared or anything, if anything I felt quite calm after each time it happened, even though I know it wasn't my fiance, but it would be nice to know what or who it is that I talked to and has been watching me, as I quite often rush from room to room with the feeling that someone is there, usually in the hallway where there are no windows, although the rushing may be mainly due to my on and off fear of the dark it usually feels like someone is there. Even just to know whether it's a blessing or a curse that whatever/whoever it is is here, and whether I should feel safe or be careful, because at the moment I am quite unsure. Knowing whether to expect good or bad, whichever it is, the knowledge would comfort me a lot.
I am unsure if this is at all relevznt to my other experiences given that no matter how real it felt I doubt it's possible but I just thought I'd say just incase:/