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Am I Starting To Have Signs Of Being A Medium?


I'm Emily, I'm a teenager and I am confused and scared. I know there is a history of psychics and mediums in both sides of my family, and my parents. A lot of my family and friends call me a medium, just jokingly. I never believed it until a few days ago, when I had a very vivid dream about a friend of mine who had recently committed suicide.

He was talking to me about how sorry he was, and all the things he wish he had done. It was so normal, we were sitting on a couch somewhere and he told me to say congratulations to his brother. We went on about other things as well, about his bullies, about myself, about my boyfriend, it seemed so real. When were done the conversation, he sighed and told me to close my eyes. When I opened them the couch was now a cliff, I was looking over, and he was falling.

I don't know if these are "signs" or not, but I thought they might help. I have dreams about people I don't know, or people I know who have passed away, and really bad nightmares. I often wake up in the middle of the night and get a weird feeling I am not alone. Sometimes I get a chill up my back and my head rolls around (might just be nerves). I also get light headed, overwhelmed, a headache, and get cold, all of a sudden when I am in a new place. When I meet new people, and I feel like I know them some how. I love to write but sometimes I find writing and I don't remember writing it. I have had lots of imaginary friends as a kid, and I zone out a lot and hear a high pitched noise kind of thing. I'm sorry I know this is all over the place, I'm just scared and curious. Is is possible I am a medium?

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vanillabean (9 stories) (168 posts)
9 years ago (2013-01-09)
I would say you are probably a medium. I also had dreams like yours when I was in my teens--visitations from loved ones who had passed. If you seek out a spiritualist church (google spiritualist association or soemthing like that), you might be able to find people who can give you guidance on developing your skills. Once I hit 30 years old, my abiltiies went crazy. I had so much happening to me I needed to seek out other people who could help me, and that is the "church" I stumbled upon. They are not so much a church in the traditional sense of worship as they are mediums who will talk to you if you need help or want to develop. They are a group of people who believe that the soul never dies, and you already have proof of that, as I did. That is the #1 thing--that you have the proof you need, so you are OPEN. Being open is key. Now I have pretty much every psychic gift I can think of, including mediumship, psychometry, clairvoyance, clairaudience, and more. I even have visitations from Archangels and other entities.
cloudess (2 stories) (35 posts)
9 years ago (2013-01-08)
I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend, and I hope that meeting him again helped you cope. I am not a medium myself, I'm an empath and clairvoyant, but I'll try to help clear up a few things. It is true that psychic abilities can be developed because one or both sides of your family have them. But this is not the only way, people who have never even heard of psychic abilities can get them. I'm also going to add, everybody is psychic, if you didn't already know that. This is true, but it doesn't mean that everybody sees ghosts or uses telekinesis. We all have different gifts that were given to us the same way we are different from everybody else. I know seeing ghosts can be scary, uncomfortable, or sad. I have similar experiences when I ask to be shown something, or being mugged by a vision. I understand your confusion and you being frightened, don't worry there are plenty of people on here who have had similar to near identical experiences. I believe you are a medium, and good luck!

Love and Light,

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