My So Called Gift? I'm 16 And Confused. Help?

Here's the story. Before this I was always interested in the paranormal and psychic abilities but I didn't think any of this would come up. I believe it all started when I took a trip to Ohio and visited my family on Easter this year. The first night we walked in I took a picture of this TV cabinet of my aunts with a rosary on it just because. Well a few hours later sitting in the living room with my family, the cabinet unlatched and opened very slowly. We all started flashing pictures of course and my aunt caught an orb nobody understood why I was freaking out at the time because of the picture I had taken of it before. That night me and my dad slept down in her basement, well he did. I stayed up and for some reason I felt as if I wasn't the only one awake still I felt as if I was being watched. So being my curious self I muted the TV and took some EVP recordings and I did catch something. It was a female voice and to me it sounded like it said "Jesus". So the next morning I mentioned it to my dad and he said nothing. Well night 2 came along and of course I wasn't going to sleep down in the basement again so I slept upstairs and my dad woke me up at 5 in the morning because we were getting up to come back to Georgia and he looked at me and said "did you pull the covers off of me last night?" of course I just looked at him in shock and asked more questions so we got in the car and he told me that it happened to him the night before when I was also down there but he didn't tell me because he didn't want me to be freaked out. But it turns out that he actually got a video of this. In the video an orb flies out of the ceiling and it was draining his phone battery and you can hear a weird buzzing sound that wasn't coming from him. Finally we came home and things started happening. The first thing I noticed was my cat looking around wide-eyed like and meowing at the walls but I didn't really think much of it until one day I saw her rolling around like she was being petted. Something told me to snap another picture so I did. I got an orb flying across my cat with a tail like thing and a face. I sent it to my dad and he blew it off for a while but he told his friend at work about it and his friend told him about some of his past experiences with the paranormal and gave my dad the number of a medium. Before my dad called this guy me and 2 of my friends decided to do a séance which to my understanding can be a bad idea and open up portals. We did a protection prayer and a closing prayer and never let go of hands. During the séance I video taped most of it but my phone cut off during it. Every time we brought up my name we noticed an orb would fly out which really freaked me out as if I wasn't already. So my dad calls the medium after that and the medium tells the guy that "I have a gift and I can channel if I wanted to." He told my dad it was my aunt which I already suspected and asked how she died which unfortunetly, was suicide and during the séance I even asked if she was stuck in purgatory (my family is a catholic family.) The guy asked my dad if he's been through a divorce lately and my dad did recently divorce my mother. The guy knew every thing. He said my aunt didn't like what was going on in the house which would probably be the divorce thing. So he told my dad that he would channel her and get her to the other side that night. Well its been a few months and nothings really happened but after he apparently got her to the other side that same night every time I would close my eyes I saw white faces passing it wasn't scary the faces really had no emotions at all. I read online this is a sign that your loved one has passed on to the other side and that its a psychic ability which is why I'm here because I'm trying to figure out if its really true. The guy also mentioned to my dad that there were evil around my aunt during purgatory and I had a dream after she supposedly passed on of me waking up during my sleep and seeing a dark figure on my wall and throwing my cat and that I ran to my dad. I haven't slept in my room every since the séance or anything which is awful but I guess I'm just scared. Now lately I've just been having headaches in my house and no where else, seeing things dash from the corner of my eye not knowing if its really there or not. And once I woke up and saw white above me from the mirror. I also have the feeling of being watched but that could just be paranoia but I'd love to know your opinions on this, do I really have a gift or what? You can email me at thiscantmeanhaley@yahoo.com if you'd like more information or to tell me anything you think about this. Note: I know all of this probably sounds crazy.