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I need help in getting some closure! I am in search of a person who can reply and honestly connect me to my deceased husband! He passed in 2018. I am 29 years old now and he left me with 3 beautiful children. I feel he is trying to reach out to me through the kids they see him and play with him a lot. They are 2, 3 and 9 years old. I sometimes lay in my bed at night and think I smell his scent, maybe it's my mind or I just want to connect with him so bad. His family has come to me a saying that he has come to them but I'm his wife why can't he come to me why can't he reach me or let me know he is really here. I don't believe the stories that they tell me because he didn't too much deal with them while he was here what would make him pass away and contact them? I haven't had a full nights sleep since he had been gone, I've been to counseling and put on medicine in which I will not take because I know there is no medicine that can heal grief or give closure. There is also no councilors who are taught these things that can tell me how to cope or anything they they have never even experienced before in their life. Someone anyone please please reach out and let me know if you can help me my husband has total of 8 underage children who also need some closure. I have money if needed no much but I can pay a fee if the fee is necessary but I would need some proof that the reading would be legit before payment. I am a single mother seeking immediate help! I'm begging at this point and I don't know where else to turn my kids are getting older and asking questions that I can't answer

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PathR (4 stories) (1247 posts)
 
1 week ago (2020-09-15)
Your husband is reaching out to you by using others. You ask why he does not reach out to you. But he has with leaving a scent. You sound as if your grief is blocking you. It is affecting your body, mind and emotions (the 3 lower chakras). I encourage you to ask for confirmation of what ever messages comes to you by family/children.

Best wishes
LightMight (7 posts)
 
1 week ago (2020-09-14)
Hi there Tara,

First, I want to say that you have my deepest sympathy in regard to the loss of your husband ~ your story really struck a chord with me. Secondly, I think the two previous posters, AnneV and DarriuxDarkk, offered some good advice. Also, I wanted to add a few comments of my own, and a couple of suggestions here.

Dealing with overwhelming loss and trying to cope with daily anxiety from losing someone you love, all by yourself, can really tear your world apart. After we lose someone, feeling lonely, scared, and stressed-out are just some of the symptoms of the depression we go through.

Unfortuantely, being a parent and having to deal with grieving, along with raising young children is going to be the toughest challenge of your life. It can feel like a dark cloud hanging around, that never allows the sunshine in. But here's the thing: it's important not to let all the painful emotions and anxiety take over your life. I know that it's easier said than done sometimes, but right now it's so crucial for you to connect with someone who has gone through, or someone who is going through, the same situation that you are dealing with. Aside from seeking help from a counselor, or a psychic medium, would you consider connecting with a support group? Due to Covid-19, it's hard to meet up with groups locally, but there are support groups online that can offer services and help through group messaging, group chat, and personal email if needed. It's as easy as getting on social media, and searching for 'grief support groups'.

A few months ago, I lost both my husband and my mother to cancer, within the same week. I'm a mother of three children; 2 teenagers and a 9 year old. I'm sure you can understand exactly what I was going through for the first few weeks, so I won't go into detail about that. Even though I was coping the best way I could on my own, I still felt alone and confused about my future for me and my kids. Then one day, my sister suggested to me that our family and my in-laws get together on group chat every week. Her thinking behind this idea was so that my children would feel that their family was there to support them. At first, I didn't really like the idea because I knew that many of my family members didn't get along with eachother. To make a long story short, I invited everybody on both sides of the family to join us, no matter if they got along with eachother or not. At first it was a little awkward, but slowly over the course of a few weeks everybody came together to lend support for the sake of my children. It turned out to be one of the best things that could've ever happened to us ~ we have found a way to cope with our loss through support, and we now have some inner peace.

I still struggle with sleepless nights from time to time, and I still have a good daily cry for my husband and mom, but I no longer feel totally alone and anxious like I used to.

Tara, I hope you will consider some of the suggestions you have been given here at YGS. Please keep us posted on how you are doing, if possible.

Wishing you and your family all the best ❤ LightMight
DarriuxDarkk (1 stories) (2 posts)
 
1 week ago (2020-09-14)
hi, agree on Annev. Most of the time the deceased can interact with the living through a dream. I believe on that one.

My brother passed away 7 years ago. We were close and it really hit us hard as a family. There was one point that I had a dream about him. He was smiling and happy as if trying to say he is ok now. He was dressed in white and he left just like that. I believe on that dream he was telling me that he is at peace and happy so we wouldn't have to worry about him. That gave us a sense of peace as well.

If you feel like your husband is trying to reach out to you, try to have a good sleep and maybe he will visit you in your dreams. If you are religious, try to offer prayers for his soul so he can rest.

God bless.
AnneV (4 stories) (1048 posts) mod
 
3 weeks ago (2020-09-03)
Your husband may have reached out to the other relatives to reconcile past issues. My step mother passed a few decades ago and the person she "met" after she passed was me, her step-daughter whom she had been quite abusive to, not her own children. When a person passes, they do a life review and he may have seen something from their perspective (not from his while alive) that warranted a visit. He is all too aware of your feelings and he may be coming to you in the most common format-- dreams. Try and maximize sleep (hard, I'm sure, with young children), but if you're to have a visit, 98% chance it will come via a dream.

As for paying a psychic medium, I think you're better off seeking out a well known one. This is a psychic site for sharing stories an such, not a general platform for promoting professional psychic medium readings.

Anne

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