About 4 years ago, one of my friends passed away. His name was RJ and two weeks before he died, I saw him at a friend's house. I hadn't seen him in two years so we really didn't talk much, plus he was married now and had a baby and we kind of had a thing so it would've been weird. We found out he was killed and went to his wake in Austin.
When I came back home to Houston ,I was on the phone with my cousin Tanya talking to her about RJ and what happened. I was about to go to her house because I was too sad to stay home. Months later, I had a dream with RJ. I've had ALOT of dreams with him but there are only about three that I can remember and I don't know why.
In the first dream, he was swimming around in a pool and I was watching him and then I pulled him out almost as if I was saving him and that was that dream. In the second dream there was one other person with us, my friend brenda, we were in a canoe, heading who knows where... He didn't talk to me he just smiled at me and that's all he ever did except for in one dream. The third dream I remember is the one where he asked me to ask my boyfriend at the time if he wanted a glass of water. I didn't understand why he wanted me to ask that and I told him I would feel stupid and that "he" (my boyfriend) would think I was weird but RJ said to just do it, so I did. I walked up to my boyfriend and I said "RJ wanted me to ask you if you wanted a glass of water" and I handed him the water. My boyfriend looked at me and got really happy and hugged me and was holding me and said "aww babe". He didn't even notice I said RJ. While he was holding me, RJ was standing there smiling at us but only I could see him.
I'm not with my ex now but we still talk and we're good friends. What I don't understand is that every dream he's been in of mine, there is always water. I don't remember the other ones exactly but there's water in them and I know it's him and they're not just dreams. I know he's trying to tell me something. Maybe someone can help me and I could talk to you more in detail about everything because it's too much to put it all on here.