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What Is He Trying to Tell Me?


About 4 years ago, one of my friends passed away. His name was RJ and two weeks before he died, I saw him at a friend's house. I hadn't seen him in two years so we really didn't talk much, plus he was married now and had a baby and we kind of had a thing so it would've been weird. We found out he was killed and went to his wake in Austin.

When I came back home to Houston ,I was on the phone with my cousin Tanya talking to her about RJ and what happened. I was about to go to her house because I was too sad to stay home. Months later, I had a dream with RJ. I've had ALOT of dreams with him but there are only about three that I can remember and I don't know why.

In the first dream, he was swimming around in a pool and I was watching him and then I pulled him out almost as if I was saving him and that was that dream. In the second dream there was one other person with us, my friend brenda, we were in a canoe, heading who knows where... He didn't talk to me he just smiled at me and that's all he ever did except for in one dream. The third dream I remember is the one where he asked me to ask my boyfriend at the time if he wanted a glass of water. I didn't understand why he wanted me to ask that and I told him I would feel stupid and that "he" (my boyfriend) would think I was weird but RJ said to just do it, so I did. I walked up to my boyfriend and I said "RJ wanted me to ask you if you wanted a glass of water" and I handed him the water. My boyfriend looked at me and got really happy and hugged me and was holding me and said "aww babe". He didn't even notice I said RJ. While he was holding me, RJ was standing there smiling at us but only I could see him.

I'm not with my ex now but we still talk and we're good friends. What I don't understand is that every dream he's been in of mine, there is always water. I don't remember the other ones exactly but there's water in them and I know it's him and they're not just dreams. I know he's trying to tell me something. Maybe someone can help me and I could talk to you more in detail about everything because it's too much to put it all on here.

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TheFather (2 stories) (27 posts)
8 years ago (2012-08-13)
Hmm Water means cleansing... Your boyfriend had it... Has your boy friend done a sin? Was he entangled with the death of your friend?
LeilaniMahal (1 stories) (15 posts)
8 years ago (2012-05-12)
He's just giving you a message, I agree that the message was to move on, he was showing you that he can no control of what happened to him, just know he acknowledges you and all who he's loved or been loved by in life.
ShadowsTwo (1 stories) (3 posts)
8 years ago (2012-04-27)
I always thought water in a dream was spiritual. Maybe he wants you to clense your spirit?

Im not an expert or anything... Just my take on it.
amaz0n (14 posts)
10 years ago (2010-09-23)
water is cleansing. It cleans, it gives life and sustains it. I don't know what it is that you're letting you bring yourself down in life, but I believe he wants you to wash it away and be clean of it. Start new. Water is also moving, he wants you to move on, move on from him or any other past happenings that you've been holding on to. You have your whole life ahead of you and he wants you to remember that.
zEnAiDa_x3 (5 stories) (11 posts)
13 years ago (2007-04-15)
oh and another thing, it's kind of weird that I just read my horoscope and its kind of telling me to slow down and then I just read this comment you left... See this is my horoscope for today

Even if you're not sleeping in this morning, you're liable to be daydreaming anyway. Later in the day, you might feel the need to hurry, but remember, you can't hurry matters of the heart.
zEnAiDa_x3 (5 stories) (11 posts)
13 years ago (2007-04-15)
you are so right, I think I understand, thank you so much I will think about it more now and see if I can come up with something, thanks aprilm04!
Aprilm04 (guest)
13 years ago (2007-04-15)
Well just my feeling is that your friend may be trying to tell you to slow down. If you think about water, it is very calming. When you are swimming or in a canoe, or jogging and need a drink of water. I don't see death at all. I see him trying to tell you to stop and smell the roses and slow down. He was not able to do that in his own life and he wants you to. Think about it a minute! Get back with me.Ok
zEnAiDa_x3 (5 stories) (11 posts)
13 years ago (2007-04-10)
hey aramasamara (wow that was hard haha) I dunno that's what, I always thought that too. But is he saying that someone is going to drown because I know he didn't drown, they killed him its soooo confusing but thanks.
aramasamara (22 stories) (577 posts)
13 years ago (2007-04-10)
I just got an odd feeling of drowning but that's just me :/, or maybe it signifies a symbol of connection you share... Though I can't say what it is or isn't its in your own mind and not mine. So, you will have to just keep on analzying.

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