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How Do I Strenghen My Abilities?


I have always been interested in the paranormal. I would listen to family stories when I was a child. My father and grandfather would sometimes have dreams of tragedy that came true. Other family members have had dreams of dead family members when something bad is going to happen.

When I was young 8-11 I remember watching Wheel of Fortune with my family and two times I clearly remember knowing the answers before any letters would be turned. I am the worst speller and I just remember having an over whelming knowing feeling. I wasn't counting letters or anything. Around that same age I remember waking at night with odd vibrational feelings sometimes a very liquid or bloated/inflated feeling.

My mother has always told me I can always see the good in people. This is to my demise. I seem to be able to tell when people are acting out of spite/evil and when good intentions are actually in their heart. It is like I can understand a person's motives for their actions. Get to the root of why they act why they do. Sometimes I can see/understand their desired outcome even if they are not going about it. I am always in the middle of arguments as to explain everyone's actions/motives and explain why they act the way they do without really ever being told.

I tend to make judgments of people after only knowing them a few minutes. My mom had called me one day very upset about a situation in her family. I told her not to get so mad as she didn't understand why it happened and that she would come to learn his reasons and told her the reasons I thought it would be. Several days my mom called me back to tell me my feelings about the situation were 100% correct.

I have also had several telepathic experiences. Knowing when someone in another country was going to call and having to get home to have the phone ring with in 5 minutes of getting home. When people direct thoughts to me I feel it. At times I feel very pushed and suffocated by some people. Once many years ago I woke one morning sat up in bed and watched pictures like a projector on the wall. I had to concentrate very had to make the images go away and when I would relax they would come right back. It was of me and an ex, all the good times we had. About 15 minutes later the phone rang and he told me he had been thinking about me all morning. In the last year a friend and I have tried sending messages back and forth and been able to get what some of the message not always as you would imagine it to come as but it works.

I somehow seem to be able to sense the changes of energy. Feeling like a spirit might be around. Looking over your should kind of feeling. Lately several times I have had a huge pull to go to a cemetery that many of my family members are buried in. I feel like they are around me but not able to understand what they are wanting, unless it's just their way of telling me they are here.

Several times in my life I feel like I have been touched or projected feelings felt physically, but have no idea why or what for. I have also had experiences of electronics going off, toys mostly. Mostly things move or go off when there is turmoil in my life. One night while going through my divorce, my ex and I had been fighting and I had a headache. I just wanted a quiet bath with candles. I could not get the candle to light and I hit my fist on the counter and said I just want the lights off. Right then one of the main power cables coming into the house went out. The electric company had to come replace the line coming into the house. Weird things like this only happen when I have been very angry.

Several years ago I went through a period of hearing what I call voices and thoughts that would fly through my head. Nothing much more than trivial things but it would come true. It was right on 100% of the time. This happened 5-10 times in a year or two long periods. I don't hear the voice anymore but know enough to trust what it says if I were to hear it again.

Off and on through out my life I get strong esp feelings. There have been times it felt more like I dreamed the event more than esp.

My question: I seem to have a wide variety of experiences and none that stick. How do I strengthen them?

Thanks in advance for any advice or help in my quest to understand,


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shangirl76 (2 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-13)
Can anyone help me on how to practice my psychic powers... Because I think I am because I keep seeing flashes of light or dark spots. & I can feel when there is a spirit near by. And at times I hear voices.

So please e-mail me or you can just semt it here.

xxxMegRocksxxx (1 stories) (10 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-09)
Pratice your powers more aften:] ❤ ❤ ❤ its helps me alot. Meditate too... Hehe:]

-Meg (3
Kris (1 stories) (13 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-09)
All this talk has also reminded me of an experience I had about 5 years ago. I've always been interested in ob experiences and read one book many years ago on it. I am able to get into very deep meditations although it takes me time. I had weird sensations and saw some odd things when I used to try it around ten years ago. But there was a day that I woke up with my husband and had a couple cups of coffee and was tired because the baby was up half the night so I went back to bed. When I laid down I felt a funny feeling like I did back when I meditated regularly and I followed the feeling. I was lying on my side and went to peak my eyes open only to see two set of feet dangling next to the bed, bare feet and what looked to be the bottom of a white robe around the ankles. Then a voice told me to just relax, so I did. The next thing I remember was standing in the bedroom drifting to the door and watched my husband walk from his office into the kitchen. I tried to call his name but the words that came out sounded like gibberish. I looked back to see if I could see my body on the bed and saw nothing. All the sudden I was pulled pack to my body and it was like I could see the energy between where I was and my body like a sweeping look. I got up out of bed and went and told my husband. He hated this kind of thing. But he said I had only been in bed for maybe 10-15 minutes. To this day I don't know if it was a dream or real. And he did in fact go from the office to the kitchen while I was lying down. The thing that gets me most is when the voice told me to just relax, that was the most peaceful feeling I have ever had in my entire life.
YVE72 (5 stories) (212 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-08)
Kris...I just thought about the funniest incident with the toys. Back when the Finding Nemo movie came out, McDonald's gave out Nemo fish bath toys and they giggled when the button was pushed.

Well that fish would giggle at night in the bathroom. Its funny now, but back then it drove us crazy. I threw it in the trash because it happened alot. I knew "somebody" was setting it off, but it would wake me up at night.

xsomuchforsleepingx (1 stories) (10 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-08)
Hey Kris,

Well, I must say you do have a very interesting story, I too love paranormal things although I won't be able to sleep for hours at night, thus my user name. =]

Agreeing with YVE72. I think you're psycho kinetic. To be fully honest with you however I'm really new to all this so I wouldn't trust me as a perfect source.

I would go to the cemetery, perhaps your deceased relatives need you at this time. Of course, I'm sort of cowardly and would not go alone, but still... Who knows?

I'm sorry I wasn't much help. But they do have psychic classes designed to help you out with your gift.

❤ xsomuchforsleepingx
Kris (1 stories) (13 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-08)
Thanks, I have read a lot of books. At my height of interest in this (before I got married and had children) is at the point I did hear what I call the voices. But at the time the toys went off all the time was the biggest time of turmoil in my life and I did hear a voice back then as well. The only time it talked to me was when my infant daughter would wake up at night. I would be asleep and hear a voice say the baby is waking up and in less than 5 minutes the baby would cry. That or hear the sound of a door bell. The door bell never really rang but I went to the door more than a few times to make sure. Once again in less than 5 minutes my daughter would wake up. Cool and crazy all at the same time. I did however acknowledge them at the time and thanked them often for waking me up. My husband at the time however found no humor in it and would run around the house cursing and telling it to leave anytime the toys went off. They would go off 2-10 times back to back.
YVE72 (5 stories) (212 posts)
15 years ago (2008-10-08)
Hi Kris... Your abilities seem to be random, like mine.

Late at night electronic toys go off in my house. Someone's just trying to get your attention.

I think you're also psychokinetic, meaning you can manipulate energy or objects. I remember looking in my kids room one night for the remote because the power button on the TV was broken. I was getting agitated because I couldn't find the remote and the TV turned off all by itself. I thought it was cool. One day I'll get the nerve to practice.

There are books that claim to help you hone psychic abilities. I skim through them sometimes, but I'm not quite in the mindset to commit yet. If you think you're ready, go for it.

Peace & blessings. 😊

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