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Contacted By An Ex Love


I returned to live in my hometown after living out of state for the last 18 years. I am of Hungarian background and my paternal grandmother and aunts were all very well versed in the spirits.

While lying in bed one night, a memory surfaced of a very sweet moment during my 15th year of life. I was with a potential puppy love in school and we were holding hands. He left town a few days later and we never got together again.

I had not thought about this moment for years but reliving it was very sweet and it stirred up emotions that I had forgotten. However, it was not a normal memory. It was if he was right next to me, holding my hand. Might I say, no one has ever made me feel this way again, I am now 46, divorced twice.

So, I began to look for this person and much to my dismay, discovered he committed suicide in 1998. Since this discovery, I am just consumed with him. I tracked down his grave, which is unmarked. He was buried with his mother but the family did not mark the grave. Luckily, the undertaker gave me the info.

I am thinking that he is contacting me from the other side for a reason. My brother keeps telling me I am just melancholy but I feel there is something more. Can anyone tell me if there is a way to find out why he is contacting me?

It has gotten to the point, where I am actually visiting the grave daily.


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zsuzsaarpad (1 stories) (3 posts)
12 years ago (2009-02-17)
Just to clear the air, I am not visiting the gravesite out of sadness, there is not pining for the dead here. I am trying to determine, why the contact has been made. I have had a few contacts since posting this story and have determined the reason.

Academylin, feel free to contact me via email (my profile), as I would love to share the message I received...thanks
missyamada (4 posts)
12 years ago (2009-02-16)
Aww that's so sweet. It's really too bad though. 😕 Maybe he was your soul mate? Then again I don't want to say anything that may make you feel like true love is no longer an option.

I can see that you're sad, but it may not be healthy or best if you become too attached to him/the grave. Not saying you are, but just a heads up so nothing bad happens. 😊

Maybe you can try and contact his spirit and talk to him?
natti (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-02-14)
there is a slight chance that it might me something but you should not lose hope
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
12 years ago (2009-02-12)
zssz, keep us informed and let us know if you do find anything else out?
zsuzsaarpad (1 stories) (3 posts)
12 years ago (2009-02-12)
Thank you. I will do so. I just discovered, that the date of his death in the newspaper was incorrect. He was pronounced dead on March 6, however, he was missing since the first week in February 1998. This is the exact time of the year in which I had this experience.
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
12 years ago (2009-02-12)
Hi Zssz,
I know this seems like my "get out" route, but as you have practised some mediumship in the past then it really should't be to difficult to retrieve the information you are seeking from within meditation.

Do you practise meditation at present?
If not, it's time you started, you will be able to answer all of these types af questions and more, from meditating. And if you do, well then you need to steer a meditation towards seeking what this young mans concern was/is, and ask for guidance in discovering what it is that you can do now to help him!

If you are new to meditation, the answers will not appear overnight, so to speak, the more you put in to the pracise, the more you will get out!

Let me know if you're still "stuck"!
Linx 😊
zsuzsaarpad (1 stories) (3 posts)
12 years ago (2009-02-12)
I do have psychic abilities but usually they are to guide others through tough times. I have had some contact with the dead. When I do have contact it is clear and I know exactly what is needed.

This recent situation has me perplexed, as I have not had direct communication from the deceased.
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
12 years ago (2009-02-12)
Hello Zssz (apologies for abbreviation)

Initially the obious thing to suggest would be to go and see a medium for their perception of this, although I would be more inclined to find out for myself.

You make no indication to your pesonal psychic capabilities, although you said relatives were practised (this is a good indication) but a little knowledge of your personal belief strategy would be helpful.
As I think you can discover what "he " wants yourself.


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