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Newly Discovered Abilities-- What Do I Do?


So, this may sound odd, but I actually discovered that I had some sort of abilities through watching Wife Swap. There was a family of "ghost hunters" on it, and they talked about their business and their abilities, and I turned to my mom and said something like, "I don't think I could do what they do. It scares me way too much when I feel ghosts around me."

And she kind of chuckled, as if she wasn't sure I was serious. I asked her if she too could feel ghosts whenever they were present, and she gave me a weird look and told me that no, she'd never felt that. I looked at her, bewildered, and asked, "You mean you can't feel their presence? You can't sense that there's some sort of energy around you?" And she gave me an even weirder expression and again replied, "No."

I started thinking about all of the times I'd felt things in my old house, about how every time I'd walk into the basement, I'd feel this heavy, oppressive energy around me, and hear loud and clear inside my head 'get out, get out, get out, they don't want you here.' I started remembering how I'd see doors creak open on their own and flickers of human figures in the corner of my eyes every other moment. I thought about when I was 12 and I went over to my friend's house and saw the entity of a hanged man in one of her trees, bloodied and anguished-looking; I could feel so poignantly his helplessness and his sadness that I took off running, thoroughly terrified.

I never thought it was abnormal or unique to see or feel these things, because whenever I talked to my older sister about it, she had plenty of stories of her own to share with me. It wasn't really until I talked to my mom that I thought maybe my sister and I were different from others.

So I guess, to sum it up, I'm a little frightened about this whole thing, and I don't know how to control it or hone it or anything. Fear has played a big role in how I've reacted in the past to these abilities I have, and I don't know how to erase that hindrance and focus upon developing them.

It's safe to say I'm very new to this, and I'd really like some guidance on how to go about confronting my connection to the supernatural. Thanks so much for reading, and I hope you'll be able to help.


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Teleman (1 stories) (10 posts)
15 years ago (2009-02-23)
i need help, too. I just recently discoverd my abilities. I really don't know how to control anything but my empathy. It really is confusing.
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
15 years ago (2009-02-19)
Hi Clarisse,
Now that you have discovered that you are a little "different" you are ready to progress upon the path of your spiritual development.

It is with your own knowing and belief in yourself which you must take this path, therefore, yes, you need to dispell the fear. There is nothing to fear, other than fear itself, and as fear is merely an emotion, YOU can control and dispel it.

Meditation IS a good place to begin, and with this, practise makes perfect, don't give up if the first time you try you acheive nothing... Perserverence and taking "lessons" from each of your experiences is also paramount for you on your journey.

It is a very long and very interesting road which you now take, and although each persons spiritual journey is long and sometimes lonely, there will always e things and meetings along the path which will make you smile and love.

Go and start to learn to love... Holler if you need some help!

Lin x
corey (1 stories) (13 posts)
15 years ago (2009-02-19)
well you and me stand eye to eye I know what its like when you first realise you can comunicate with the dead it can be a little crazy at first but listen to the people they really helped me and as for the get out "they" don't want you hear means that there was a less hostile entity warning you but when you hear "we" don't want you heer then you might want to back up a little if you want them out of your house then you must demand them to get out of your house (fined a way to protect yourself) and watever you do don't get scared doing it or the won't leave jest get mad... Really mad
sidraofthestars (5 posts)
15 years ago (2009-02-19)
i would go to your basement and talk to the spirit that's there. If its too scary or disturbing to go alone, I would ask your sister to accompany you (it sounds like you trust her and that she gets what you're going through).
Just talk to it, let them know that you don't mean any harm and you'd just like to be able to come downstairs with welcome. Maybe just let them know how you feel.
You don't even have to talk. Just say it over and over in your head until you almost have a picture of the words in your mind and visualize the spirit getting the message.

I'm not speaking for expirience, so if it doesn't work I'm sorry, haha. I have just found that with spirits it doesn't really work to be as equally bossy to them as they are to you.
Hope this is of use to you!
shadowmind (3 stories) (17 posts)
15 years ago (2009-02-19)
Meditating helps because it calms your mind and allows you to connect more with your spiritual self. My advice would be to get rid of your fear. Like Lost_Soul said, say in a clear confident voice to leave you alone. Most of the time they will. I used to get woken up every night. I told them to quit and they did.
Lost_Soul (5 posts)
15 years ago (2009-02-18)
Mabey you could try talking to the ghost and ask them to leave. If your not ready to do that I heard meditating helps with phyhic abilities (though I don't know why it helps).

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