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What Is This Man To Me? Soul Mate?

 

I recently re-connected with a friend from High School. We were only peripheral friends then, and only for maybe a year. I hadn't thought of him but a couple of times since 1988. Both of our lives continued on our own paths. I need to mention that I do not believe in coincidences, and am looking for a bit of insight on what he is to me.

In September, my father passed away, and on my way down there I flew through Salt Lake City, which is where he is currently living. A short time after that, we found each other on-line; 3 days after his re-birthday. He mentioned he had tried to find me a couple of times before, also, but I know I was disconnected. Previous to this, my inner-self was anything but peaceful. Immediately following our first exchange of e-mail, I was overcome with calm and peace. I didn't feel to my core alone. I handled chaos differently, I smiled more and I was no longer constantly on the brink of exploding at every little issue. We found out that we had MANY similarities that not a lot of people we knew had (writing poetry, affinity with vampires, recent switch to raw/natural diet, nomadic tendencies, love of travel, both flirts, salsa dancing, horseback riding, wanting to travel to the same places, love of reading/learning, belief in past lives and personal power, detesting TV-all seemingly innocent similarities, except neither of us knew anyone else who had ALL of it in common). We very quickly became the closest friends, sharing things we couldn't share with many others (meditative experiences, my trip to Florida-odd in itself, our spiritual explorations). Then we started texting and calling one another. There are certain things I know before they happen and I regularly get messages of where to find missing items. I know when certain people are going to call before they do. He became one of them. One of my leg muscles will tingle right before the phone rings, but only for his call/text-I kept my cell in my pocket for awhile. Electrical sensitivity? My deja vu's have increased. We are happy to simply share space.

Anyway, things became a bit more cool. I was helping my daughter with her homework one day, and I got a feeling of HIM in my own hand. Like he was part of what I was doing. It happened again a couple of days later while I was taking a clip out of my hair. During a couple of "dreams", one of which I know was a visitation with my father, I laid down with someone after speaking with my dad, and without seeing him, just by the feeling, I knew it was this guy. I have had that happen several times in dreams. We are together, I literally feel him, his essence. Not like a touch, but it resonates from my solar plexus and spreads through my entire body. One night I woke up with an actual scent. My words were, if he smells like plumeria, I'm in trouble.

Through messages in my dreams and meditations, we ended up in our hometown at the same time. The experience was incredible as we participated in two channelings. It was the most welcoming, comfortable weekend of my entire life. Everyone that congregated was meant to be there.

I knew what I was doing. I was going to see if this person was someone I was meant to be with, or if I was creating some story in my head. When he opened the door and we hugged hello, it was comfortable and I felt like I was home. One participant, someone neither of us had ever met before, said I should be sitting next to my boyfriend. When I said we actually hadn't seen each other in 20 years and weren't "together", she commented on us looking like "we were together". Though both of us had a look when we looked into each others eyes after that comment. When we sat together... And the first time we touched, there was no electricity like there usually is when there is excitement or nerves - it was like a merging. Just a completely natural feeling. I had no nerves at all-totally unlike me. I'm usually so insecure and feel so out of place! We went out one night and whatever scent he was wearing smelled just like this candle I purchased in November, and I had been burning up until right before I left. One that was the last one in the store, way in the back of the shelf. A very unique blend of scents.

This man is everything I find desirable. Long hair, musician, tattoo, spiritual, down to the glasses. So not the actual man I married (we are separated). I started writing a short story about our growing relationship before our trip. Several little things actually happened. Seems like someone I would have pined over all these years, but like I said I had barely thought of him for 20 years.

Please, some insight on what he is, what this is. I've got a couple of theories that include past lives together and soul mates. Got any others? Maybe I just need some validation. If it's meant to be, it will be, I have faith in that.

We have put the intentional growth of our relationship into hibernation, which I also dreamed doing WITH him, due to the unpredictability in both our family lives. The progression of symbols in the dream mirrors what actually has happened. I'm waiting for another... This does not mean we have stopped sharing space. Neither of us are willing to do that. We know what we have in each others friendship.

BTW, the spot at the center of his forehead, at his hairline, smells like plumeria:)

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Imogena (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-28)
I have moved into a good space. Will not draw the energy from the negativity, but will contribute to the collective positive. This will in effect take from the negative and add to the positive. This has been an incredible morning, full of messages and loving energy.

I recommend watching/reading the Celestine Prophecy.
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-22)
Hi Imogena, keep those thoughts coming!

Meant to say, please mail me the photo, have recently started drawing auras, so interpreting a visible one should be interesting!
Please, Thanks,
Have a lovely day!
Linx 😊
Imogena (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-21)
RareBreed,

Looking forward to both:) Thank you again for your time and your gift.
RareBreed (2 stories) (22 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-21)
Hi again, just wanted to let you know that I will be doing your reading tonight. I will also email you back about my own experience haha since you did ask:p
RareBreed (2 stories) (22 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
Both of you, please email me on the address I have listed on my profile page =]

Imogena

I can only read auras through person to person visualization. However, I would love for you to send me a photograph anyway because it would give me a visual to focus on when I do my reading for you. When I do the reading, I will be able to sense you and this will help me guide my reading.

Also, when I read about Mor's palm reading of you, it struck a chord with me because when I first read this post and Academylin's perception of Wedding's Day, I had the sense of "two weddings" which I believe relates to the overlap.

Academylin

I am so glad that you weren't offended! I respect you greatly and you're the whole reason I joined this site! I have been reading your posts for about two months now and have come to get a sense of your spirit self. You are destined for great things and a lot of times it intimidates me:p consider me slightly envious of your insight.

I especially like your writings on Trance Figuration.

I would be glad to do a reading for you - I merely need a focus point. What are you interested in knowing about your own path? And if it is okay, I would like a picture of you (though I don't think it's completely necessary as I can feel your spirit self when I read your writings).

Peace and Light
Imogena (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
Do either of you, by chance, have the ability to read auras from a digital photograph? If so, I'd like to send you one that was taken when he and I were together. His mother has this ability, but I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable by sending it to her. Although she is a trusted "old friend", she is still his mother in this lifetime (strangely enough, while I thought about the 3rd sentence above, in my mind I called her my mother-in-law).

Good day to you both!

~Imogena
Imogena (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
RareBreed,
You have to ask? Definitely interested! LOL. Let me know what I need to do. Today is a busy day for me, but I think I can make room, in between this and that and the other thing. My ego says NOW, but my lesson is patience, and it all being a process... Agh!

Academylin,
No worries about the mis-direction on the meaning of Wednesday - humorously, he is Scandanavian and has a tattoo of Thor's hammer on his back. No coincidences, right? There are so many signs with this guy...

And also, I do dreams, so if either of you have something you have a question about, let me know (I was thinking about offering that last night, but forgot-I'm like that:) Thanks for the reminder, RareBreed. Sharing our gifts is what it's about. We're all in this together.

Imogena
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
Hi Imogena, Rarebreed...

When I typed the information above... I was struggling for the word... As I posted it, (obviously) it came to me!

Superstition and tradition, were what I should have said, illustrate wednesday to be the best wedding day, my apologies for mis direction.

Sunday used to be the most popular wedding day, as it was the one day most people were free from work. Puritans in the Seventeenth Century put a stop to this, however, believing it was improper to be festive on the Sabbath. Today, Saturdays are the busiest, despite the rhyme

"Monday for health, Tuesday for wealth, Wednesday best of all,
Thursday for losses, Friday for crosses, Saturday for no luck at all"

Http://www.weddings.co.uk/info/tradsup.htm

No offence taken Rb, please can I have a reading too, pretty please?

Linx 😊
Imogena (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
Academylin,

Wow, I am again floored, as I fell asleep last night asking for an answer to what he was to me and how things would work out... Our next steps. His mother-whom I love, and insists I call her Mor, Danish for mom-she is part of my soul group and the one who does the channeling, looked at my palm while we were together and told me that my marriage line is broken, but I have 2 marriages this lifetime, and the two sections overlap, meaning I fall in love with my 2nd while I am still married, which correlates with what has happened. I am trying to stay positive, but since we put this into hibernation I cannot stop thinking about him. Like he told me, everything will be alright, but that doesn't stop me from missing him. I'm watching and listening for those messages!

Today is a way busy day for me (and I can't seem to tear myself from the computer), and I'm doing something for myself tonight and going out-woohoo!- so maybe look for my notes from the CD tomorrow or Sunday.

Have a great one,
Imogena
RareBreed (2 stories) (22 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
Hello Imogena

I love this story and I would like to do a reading for you based on the search for your soulmate. I think your intuitions are key here and that you are pretty well dead on. I met my own soulmate under similar circumstances and had a dream about his name years before I met him.

If you are interested in hearing from me or getting the reading done, please let me know. I don't charge for things like that because I believe that we are all connected and that we should all be in the business of helping each other in terms of the spiritual rather than making a buck.

I would be able to do this via email and it wouldn't be an automated reading but rather one of deep intent and meditation. I would consider doing both a rune and a tarot reading. Please let me know.

: (I don't like to be rude... But Wednesday is not shortened from Wedding's Day... It means "Odin's Day."

The name comes from the Middle English Wednes dei, which is from Old English language Wēdnes dæg, meaning the day of the English god Woden (Wodan) who was a god of the Anglo-Saxons in England until about the 7th century. Wēdnes dæg is like the Old Norse Oðinsdagr ("Odin's day"), which is an early translation of the Latin dies Mercurii ("Mercury's day"), and reflects the widespread association of Woden with Mercury going back to Tacitus.

PEACE AND LIGHT TO ALL! And I certainly hope I have not offended anyone.
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
Imogena, Wednesday is of course shortened from wedding day, this is the common day for weddings throughout history! (smile)

I had noticed your post re; the channeling, and am interested in reading this when you have it together, thankyou!

I don't know that I am aware of a "timeloss" but agree that the tilt, poles and dimensions are strongly relevant regarding the shift and increase in no's of "us".

I have various written explanations, from laymans terms to technical jargon. Some of them (explanations/theorys) so out there you would be lucky not to be taken away by the men in white coats should a person shout too loud, in the wrong place about them! But yeah, it's funny sometimes what avenue of research you end up going don, from magnetic vibrational poles increase, to Teslar and Haarp technology! Gets a bit heavy sometimes huh?

I am (as always) positive and know my flame situation will resolve itself in the appropriate and correct manner, but thanks for your wishes aswell!

Linx

😊
Imogena (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
Hi Academylin,

I posted this on one of your stories, but thought since you were here recently, I'd put it here as well.

"I have a CD in which one of the channeling session I attended visited on this topic at great length. I will listen to it tomorrow or as soon as I can fit it, and write a longer post. It is quite interesting and even motivational. The #'s of us that are working on strengthening our abilities and our awareness is definitely increasing, down to our eating habits. I have also had a couple of lucid "dreams" in which I awoke talking about what is happening. As far as I can recall, it has to do with the polar tilt, the magnetic poles increasing in intensity and size and the dimensions being drawn closer together.

Has anyone recently experienced a loss of 15 minutes from their body clock?"

I am asking for the angels to help in my spirit's progression to be a positive in his life, and when the time is right, we will see that we are to be together for the higher purpose, whatever the capacity. I will ask for the same for you.

This morning I had a lucid moment where I was told "they" were working on figuring out what he is to me, and they had one factor left to figure out - they put it in language I could grasp, as time is different between dimensions, and said it was a Wednesday, so I think it has to do with astrological charts?
I'll keep you posted... Figures my test would be patience. Agh!

~ Imogena
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
Hi Imogena,

I have to keep reading your story as your description illustrates beautifully these wonderous emotions.

I am sending you lots of positive, powerful energy, I'll keep it coming. Will you just keep mirroring it back?
Linx
Imogena (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
Academylin,

Thank you for your comments. Plumeria is the flower from which lei's are made... Many beautiful colors, and my favorite (since before we reunited). I read the links you posted and I'm floored. It all sounds right, although apparently all variables need to be perfect for us to work: (It looks like patience and perseverance is required on my part, because I think he's a bit more "in his head" than I am. I think a trip to Salt Lake City is in order. He can visualize me, which is something he has never been able to do. He thinks very abstractly. He had a dream in which we were riding together on a chestnut mare, my totem. Synchronous events just abound, and all signs say he is mine... We have shared past lives before, I know that for a fact, if nothing else. More than a handful of times I have called and he's been thinking about calling me, or thinking about me period. Hoping he comes to realize that I am good for him, because if I'm not then I will not keep myself in his life... That's what I am asking for.

I think sharing space with your twin soul is one of the most wonderful, amazing things that can be experienced. The unconditional love that is shared has no equal. I had karma with my husband to work out in order for this merging to have a clear path. Of course your twin flame will understand, and sharing space can still be a beneficial relationship to you both. It may be that you aren't meant to be lovers in this life, but help each other.

I'll send you good energy if you send me good energy!
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
 
11 years ago (2009-02-20)
Imogena, I don't know what Plumera is, but to me this chap sounds like your twin flame... It's beautiful to find them incarnated at the same time as you, go google and see what you think... Lucky you... I'll tell you a seceret... I think I just found mine, and how awkward, considering I'm already happily married! Aaaaaagh!

Apparantly us flames will understand... We will see!

Http://www.crystalinks.com/twinflames.html
Http://indreamshecame.weebly.com/what-are-twin-flames.html

Love love Linx ❤

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