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My Boyfriend Is Alive, But His Spirit Visited Me


I have no clue what happened to me, so here is my story and maybe someone can explain it. THANKS ALL!

Basically, last night I was awake and had a hard time falling asleep. Right now I am on the brink of a breakdown due to school stress, and stress in general. So to continue, last night, I was laying in bed and all of the sudden my body felt really heavy, so heavy that I could not move it at all. A second later I felt my boyfriend next to me. MY BOYFRIEND IS ALIVE! HES NOT DEAD! WE DONT LIVE TOGETHER BUT HIS SPIRIT FULLY CAME TO ME. His hands were not on me, but I could feel his body next to mine, and his energy. Then I heard him talk to me and say something about cherries. Then he said he loves me and adores me. THEN he blew on my neck, but it was not a light blow; it was a strong blow of really cold air! It made me shiver for a second. All the sudden I couldn't feel him next to me anymore, the heavy feeling went away, and I could move again. I didn't see him (because he was behind me and I could not more my head) but I know he was there.


For sure I was not sleeping. I was totally awake.

That night though I dreamt that he was cheating on me. Normally when I have these dreams I wake up really sad, but this time I wasn't.

I asked my boyfriend if he felt weird or if anything happened to him last night, and he said no, he went to sleep after we spoke. He did say however that when he has dreams, he is always really tired in the morning. When he doesn't have dreams he feels really refreshed and awake. He didn't have a dream that night but he was exhausted. I have no idea if that has any significance, but that's what happened?

Any thoughts?

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ATLempath (1 posts)
6 years ago (2018-08-19)
I know there's a chance this may not reach you but... I just experienced this very thing however I SAW my boyfriend's energy open the door & walk towards me as he spoke. Hope this message gets to you. I've also known I was clairvoyant since childhood yet this was a first. My question 9yrs later is... Are you all still together?
goddess (2 posts)
12 years ago (2011-11-25)
I know this was experience 2 years ago, but for peace mind I'm in the shame boat. Its nice to read for your own sanity that I'm not insane. There are people like me out there. Society may see us as crazy, but we have a beautiful power and should enjoy and embrace it. This happens when there is a deep bond between two people and also when your souls know each other for lifetimes:)
XtjrX (7 stories) (300 posts)
14 years ago (2009-09-25)
There are many people who have the ability to visit people in astral (myself included). If you have a bond with someone, it's that much easier to visit them, take them places, show them things, etc. One doesn't have to be asleep, or deceased to do it. Perhaps you can go to him as well since the connection is there. Perhaps it would be empowering for you to try it. X
marlyie (1 posts)
14 years ago (2009-09-25)
It seems that you care about him a lot (I don't officially know) it seems you have an ability that allows you to feel people presences that you care about so if true you might be bringing his spirit to you causing lack of dreams (it's happened to me before except I'm a boy and it was my bff's spirit instead). 😐
Ruth (4 stories) (156 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-18)
Your boyfriend astro travelled to you. We all astro travell in our dreams.

Ruth:0) - medium 3 years
Kay102 (12 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-12)
Can you cause you're spirit go no a "feild trip". Because I need to know for mental sanity reasons.

shay (1 stories) (2 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-05)
Thanks for the reponses! Do you think that astro-projection could also be a possibility?
SarahMarie33 (2 stories) (10 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-05)
I've read about that before. Supposedly when you are sleeping, you spirit takes a feild trip (for a lack of a better word) and goes off to visit places. It was in a sylvia brown book. This would explain why he is really tired. Only his body is resting. Maybe he was thinking of you, or your spirits are connected some how:) either way, not a bad thing (spirit wise) but I really hope the best for you both!
Kite (1 stories) (2 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-04)
This is a common experience called a 'hag spell', or rather you were having sleep paralysis with a level of conciousness... Most people report the feeling of a weight on them, or struggle with feeling like they are being moved with out trying to move. The feeling mentally is dreamlike, but with a concious like awareness. You were probably subconsciously thinking of your boyfriend, and your 'logic' applied his presence with your physical experience. What is unusual is that your experience was not frightening, since most think that a demon is after them during these episodes.

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