You are here: Real Psychic Experiences :: Telepathy / Empath :: My Clairvoyant Abilities Are Ruining Me

Real Psychic Experiences

My Clairvoyant Abilities Are Ruining Me


My telepathic/clairvoyant/some psychic abilities are ruining me. I don't know how to deal with the fact that I know exactly what friends and strangers think of me. I also can't deal with the fact that I have to let bad events that I foresee or sense happen and then pretend that I'm totally surprised by it. And, I used to have more freewill with my telepathic abilities. Now, almost every time I speak to someone, I know what he or she is thinking.

It's nerve wracking knowing that your friend of six years dislikes you for absolutely no reason and she's acting like nothing's wrong. It's upsetting when my friend thinks that it's the end of the world because her boyfriend broke up with her, and I can't tell her that they're going to get back together by the end of weekend. And I especially can't tell her that they're not going to last after they reconcile. It's hard when I envision my mom getting a really expensive moving violation and I force her to get off the phone. It's also hard when I see newlyweds and instantly know that they're going to have a messy divorce. I just want to save everyone from the hurt and the pain, but I can't. I'm not God and chances are, they won't believe me anyway. They'll either think I'm crazy, or jealous, or just looking for attention. And because I'm an empath, when they are hurt, I feel it too.

Also, I had just turned 18 and my abilities are becoming stronger. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to balance them out as I used to. It's really stressful and the fact that I'm alone is not helping. My parents and brother are gifted too, but I'm different and they can't relate to me.

I just hope that some day, when I'm more experienced, I won't be as troubled with my gifts. But right now, it's a struggle.

Other clairvoyant experiences by liz_gray

Medium experiences with similar titles

Comments about this clairvoyant experience

The following comments are submitted by users of this site and are not official positions by Please read our guidelines and the previous posts before posting. The author, liz_gray, has the following expectation about your feedback: I will participate in the discussion and I need help with what I have experienced.

lightb2 (1 posts)
13 years ago (2011-02-02)
I can tell you that I know exactly how you feel. I cannot see the future, but I feel other people's thoughts and feelings. Sometimes when people are speaking to me about a situation and replaying the scene in their mind I can feel it. I don't like it. I don't know how to block it out. I don't like when people tell me something and I know what they are really thinking about when they talk to me. I don't like knowing what will be said- especially bad news. I can sense negative thoughts a mile away! I can feel the tension- it is very annoying. I can't even imagine knowing or seeing the future. Just know that at least you are not alone- there are others out there that struggle just like you.
star11103 (2 posts)
14 years ago (2010-08-25)
liz grey, I'm very interested in your gift, and wonder if you can try helping me. You see I have a hard time understanding my purpose on this earth.I'm very curious and searching for my sprituality. For sum reason I have always felt I Was different from alto of people and that people see something in me that I can't see. Its very frustrating feeling lost and not knowing what I'm suppose to be doing while I'm here on this earth. I have two kids and still with the father. As of right now everything is all on him. I feel really bad that he feels alone and I'm not able to help him. I want to work but I feel like something is always and has always been holding me back. I'm just a lost soul trying to find it self. If you or anyone can help me please do thank you and god bless
littlepuppy (1 posts)
14 years ago (2010-08-23)
i understand what your going through and it must be hard but hopefully things will get better. I have faith that it will in due time
Diane_17 (3 stories) (46 posts)
14 years ago (2010-08-22)
learn how to block your abilities at times so that you can handle them. I do it all the time. You can do it through meditation too all you have to think of is a bubble around you that they can get into.
Iunderstand (3 stories) (153 posts)
14 years ago (2010-08-21)
Wow I really felt you while reading that. I'm so sorry its such a burden. I know what's its like to feel disconnected from people, even close friends and family. It is a very hard thing to keep your mood up when you feel so alone. I really do understand this.

Here's what I think is happening. You are being allowed to see things for the way they truly are. The truth is painful. The real world is ugly. I think God is showing you these things for a reason. Take each of these experiences as lessons to learn from. What you have truly is a gift. Ignorance is not bliss. Now that you know how to see the bad, pray and ask Christ to show you how to use your ability to help people, beg Him if you have to. I beg sometimes when I pray. I'm not ashamed at all. I want my God to know I'm serious. By the way, I'm going back to school soon to become a councilor so I can help people, I'm an empath too. Feel free to read my empath story and say hello, when I wrote it I was going through a hard time.
Texan17 (2 stories) (66 posts)
14 years ago (2010-08-20)
wanna talk about it.? Don't get me wrong, I don't experience all that like you do. I have ability but as far as telepathy goes, I only get peoples thoughts ha then il say what theyr thinking, then il laugh and say oh you wer thinkin that too.? But I can understand how it gets fustrating to just know somethin yet people don't listen when you tell em, eyeroll* pfha. Hell yeah its annoying. But it doesn't bother me like you say it does you. Only if its serious then il get upset by it. Like to know if someone feels bad because of whatever reasons, il feel their energy, that's when it gets over whelming. Mmm anyway, id want to talk to you about this, I love talking to others who are psychic I don't find too many who are and WANT to talk about it. Ha I'm 17 so I think iv done this about as long as you have, just ugh in different areas. Just give an email, I'm always in the mood to talk believe it or not =P ha wel alright cya
sweetz (12 posts)
14 years ago (2010-08-20)
I hope that you can find a way to relaxed because you are very gifted person.😊
MidnightBlueSwan (8 stories) (134 posts)
14 years ago (2010-08-20)
Have you ever tried to meditate and shield the feelings and thoughts of others? It is quite useful, and that is my advice for you.

~I share my library of wisdom
Stark (2 stories) (52 posts)
14 years ago (2010-08-20)

Just live life like you don't care and your life will be good.
blueberrygirl (2 stories) (5 posts)
14 years ago (2010-08-19)
its ok, it always happens to me and be proud that you have your gifts, everyone is psychic only if they try and believe. And that's normal for being an Empathy it happens to me too. Don't let other people make you feel bad. Be happy 😁. I know they'll one day except you. You can email me anytime you feel like there's no one that'll understand.

Hope you feel better soon, stay safe
Adaryn7 (6 stories) (460 posts)
14 years ago (2010-08-19)
Sometimes, I think that we sense bad things not because we are meant to change them, but because we are meant to help those changed by them. You know what's going to happen, so you'll come out with the right words to help your loved ones when what you receive via claircognizance comes to pass.

Hope this helps, blessed be

To publish a comment or vote, you need to be logged in (use the login form at the top of the page). If you don't have an account, sign up, it's free!

Search this site: