Perhaps It's Coincidence

As a child I had things happen that I couldn't explain away for example getting physically ill and loosing breathe at the same time when my great grandfather passed or startling from sleep around the time my dad passed in a car wreck. These things have continued through to my adult life. I cannot go to haunted homes I start to sweat and my skin takes on an ashen color and uneasiness sets in rather quickly. I cannot take things coming up behind me it scares the crap out of me. I feel frenzied in chaotic situations I have to go outside to feel somewhat sane again. I meet someone or see someone and automatically a color comes to mind. This is happening quite often I feel like an outsider. Last year my family and I moved into my husbands grandmothers home about a month after her passing. Quite a few times I will be setting on the couch or chair and I hear her talking usually asking" What time is it?" and I find myself answering her without missing a beat and looking at her chair automatically as if she was sitting there. Mind you she had dementia and asked this question often as she was worried for her next dose of eye drops. She has been gone over a year now and this still happens occasionally and normally around 9:30 and her dose was at 10. I have extremely vivid dreams that I can remember and they evoke such emotion as if in reality. These are just a few of the things I have experienced since I was a young child this started around 4 years old.

Is there anyone that can help explain these things to me?

Thanks in Advance,

Melanie