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How Do I Develop My Abilities? I Think I'm Loosing Them


I need help.

Ever since I was young, I had a strong intuition. I experienced deja vu on a daily basis, could know a person's intent just by looking at them, and my dreams would come true. I would dream of the clothes that I would buy down to the last detail, questions on an upcoming exam, or important people who would be coming into my life. I actually got a near perfect score on the university entrance exams because I already knew the questions that would be asked. Sometimes I would even get information I had no idea how it came to me - knowledge of what people were thinking, for example.

My abilities would always present themselves in my dreams. It was hard to tell what was a dream and what was a manifestation of my abilities, because they were often a mix. But I developed PTSD, and my dreams no longer had any abilities - they were just nightmares. Since then, my abilities manifest when I'm awake during moments of deja vu. They tend to be very short, vivid, emotional clips of something coming up. I have predicted my boyfriend breaking up with me, fights I would have with friends, horrible texts, and traumatic events like car crashes. It's to the point where I don't believe what I see anymore, because it's too painful. These are all far and few between, they seem to be happening less frequently, and all related to something horrible. I feel like a walking omen.

I want to go back to how I used to be, where I would know useful (less horrid) information. I feel like I'm loosing my ability slowly but surely, and I don't know how to stop it. I know it's linked to my intuition, and that you can train your intuition like a muscle. Or, at least that's what I've been told by my family. But they haven't told me how I'm supposed to strengthen it because they just naturally get stronger.

The women on my mom's side all have this ability, with my mom being the strongest one. We don't talk about this outside of the family, and very rarely between us (my current boyfriend has no idea about it). I'm the only one that who seems to be getting less strong with age, and I don't want to be cut off because I feel I'd be loosing a part of myself. I also don't want them to know I'm loosing this ability, as some in my family are very proud that this is being passed down.

How do I control this? Once I start loosing it, is it gone? Those of you who are more developed, please help me.

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Onijinn (5 posts)
6 years ago (2018-08-31)
It is impossible to loose something you were born with, as it might be a manifestation or something you had in your past life/lives.What can happen is for you to loose your connection to it, such like when you learn a new skill but then stay months or years without using it again.

You need to train daily or weekly.

For your dreams, I would suggest that you learn to lucid dream, because this way you will be able to search for answers in your dream world or even enter your subconscious without "loosing yourself" to what is happening around. Hypnosis might help as well.

Gather more knowledge about oracles,dreams,soothsaying,psychology,mediumship and meditation. Expanse of your understanding over these subjects might help you to know what to do for your situation, as no matter how much advice others give in the end your choices will be the ones to decide the outcome.

As a last advice, try to take more time for yourself alone without the distractions of others or even of technology. Sit down on the soil, rest against a healthy tree, enjoy the strong wind blowing around.
Sometimes we just need to get back to our primal selves a bit to get our focus back.
N2Wishyn (1 posts)
6 years ago (2018-08-30)
I am curious if you have a malevolent spirit at your house. They can drain you and if they were a super hero they would find a way to turn your powers against you. I've know from experience...

But to the main topic at hand I would suggest getting outside in natural enviorments. Also try focusing on your senses more, like taking deep breaths while walking in a park and noticing the smell of pine. Basically think of being very observant of your surroundings, sounds, smell, emotions of it.Reconnect. Hope this helps.
Coolkidlo (1 posts)
6 years ago (2018-04-05)
I have this same problem and I don't want to tell my family because I'm scared they'll think I should get mental help and that may get read of it completely if anyone knows wut I should do plzzzz email me my email is coolkidlo864 [at]
black_wolf95 (3 posts)
6 years ago (2018-02-28)
Hi there,
As the previous user suggested it may be either or more, sometimes even we ourselves can put blockages and create walls. I don't think your gifts can dissapear forever, but they can become weaker or be temporarily blocked.

I suggest you to try meditation and energy work to clear your mind and develop this spiritual muscle and remember to take it slow it may take some time. If you have any further questions don't hesitate to get into touch my email is in the bio, hope this helps 😊
bsuttles3922 (2 stories) (165 posts)
6 years ago (2018-02-28)
It sounds as if your powers have been temporarily influenced negatively by the factors in your life. Or, perhaps this is just a developing stage of your gift. It is not altogether unlikely or unheard of to have a gift that nearly or completely focuses on the negative, in fact most people have an easier time experiencing the negative than the positive. Why? Positive energy is at a much higher level of energy than negative (this is why when you're younger and naive it is easier) while negative energy has a lesser level energy making it easier to pick up. If suggest trying to calm the mind and let what comes naturally come to you.

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