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I am 17 years old and a decent empath, I have known I have been empathic since I was 12.

I also have dreams nonstop of local places, mostly my house but all dreams seem so real. Ever since I learned of my empathy I could never have a relationship with anyone without knowing when someone didn't like me, when it would end, or even when they were cheating on me.

I have recently noticed that instead of getting my heart broken, I stop caring about that person and usually don't know until after a break up or just ruining a friendship. Is there any known way that I can better myself to actually be able to have a normal relationships with people without hiding who I am?

The biggest problem I face is when I just switch "feelings" instead of personalities but I am completely in control, but feeling the exact opposite towards everyone I meet (like Jekyll and Hyde). Is there a known way to take control of my "Hyde" of my empathic self in any way?

Is it possible that my abilities affected my brain because ever since I first discovered my gifts I could see and play anything from movies to music in my head vividly, as long as I remained in my "zone"

I am also interested in talking and trying to help psychics since I grew up psychic in a catholic school, and parents who never to this day believe me.

Thank you for the help!

Dustin Phillips

Dusman11 - at -

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leighmillage95 (2 stories) (13 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-31)
my advice is the same as the others... Be yourself. A girl only wants someone who is himself, and there's no logical way you could "Hyde" yourself from them and others who are your friends.

Best hopes,
vendettaBabes (3 stories) (335 posts)
16 years ago (2008-10-07)
well, the thing is, you kind of can't hide what youare, no matter how hard you try. And, umm, not to make you feel bad or anything, but you're NOT normal! LOL. So, you'll always know things that others wish you disn't I totally get what you mean with the whole "hyde" feelings thing. Hahaha, sometimes, I'll be very pleased with a friend, ad out of nowhere, I'll hate themand want to get away from them. Its normal, however, you can learn to controlit some, just make sure you don't chain your empathy. Its not meant to be chained. So what, you're different, ad sometimes its hard, but listen, being different is GOOD, bcause you can help a ot of people.
CloudyCloudyCloud (51 posts)
16 years ago (2008-09-22)
I know that once I started trusting my intuition a lot more, my intuition grew strong. I was on vacation in the Midwest when my boyfriend cheated on me.
I called him up and I cut him off. I said, "I have a weird feeling you cheated on me. Am I right?" He denied it at first, and I apologized. We continued talking, when I stopped again.
I stopped to ask him again, because my intuitive feeling grew stronger as he began talking again.
He admitted that he had cheated.

Another time, with my previous boyfriend who I had known for ten years, I knew when I had been "replaced" by another woman.

I could not sleep one night and started feeling really paranoid. Everything seemed to be going great, so I assured myself of that. Nothing worked... I couldn't go to sleep! It felt like I was sensing him cheating on me.
So, I called him up despite the time of night. He didn't answer. I realize this is a very compulsive act, but after about 30 minutes, I drove to his house.
Everything was weird!
His lawn was mowed (haha) and he had apparently traded his car with his dad's mercedes. Weird.
So, I knocked on the door. When he finally came to the door, he had a haircut! I was like, "Man, I know this is weird but I have a bad feeling." He asked me to come inside and explained that he was going to start seeing someone else.
Dusmann (1 stories) (3 posts)
16 years ago (2008-09-15)
its seems more the psychic me is all the positive with none of the negative aspects of still being human, I don't get emotionally hurt or get weighed down by normal problems that I would have in my other state. The negative side "my hyde" seems to be all the negative aspects of life like hate, lust, greed, gluttony (all of the 7 deadly sins). But if I do get attached to someone it seems like love blinds me of all gifts as long as I stay connected to them, and I almost act like a normal human being, without the whole still being able to be psychic but on a smaller level than the "secluded Dustin". But thank you for the advice and help I will surely bring it into consideration for further use. 😁
YVE72 (5 stories) (212 posts)
16 years ago (2008-09-15)
You can only be yourself.

Question-- Is your "Hyde" just ambivalent? Ambivalence is not always negative. For now, ambivalence seems to be your "off" switch until you can find a middle ground.

Here's some inspiration for those of us raised in "religious" homes with skeptics and naysayers. Tell them to read this:

1st Corinthians 12:1 "And now, dear brothers and sisters, I will write about the special abilities the Holy Spirit gives to each of us, for I must correct your misunderstandings about them."

Then have them read verses 4-5, verses 8-11, and verses 27-28.

Peace & blessings.

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