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Even After Death, My Best Friend Is Still Here


Exactly a month ago my friend/love interest (only 20 years old) passed away very tragically from someone who had punched him in the face. He didn't pass from the hit, but he fell back to the concrete and broke his skull. He later suffered a stroke and went brain dead. This is when I went to see him in the hospital.

They kept his body alive so he could donate his organs at approx 3am the next morning. As I went to see him, I felt like someone was behind me the entire time. We had an argument before so I wondered if he was there, was he behind me because he was still mad? But I decided to talk to him as if he could still here me, I didn't know for sure if a persons spirit leaves when their brain goes or if their HEART goes.

Even After Death, My Best Friend Is Still Here

So I went on home and fell asleep. Around 4am, an hour after his scheduled organ removal, I woke up to a tingling sensation that was so strong it almost made me cry-it was so strange but I knew it was him-like he was sitting next to me, and I felt a warm sensation on the underside of my hand as if he was holding it! That confirmed he wasn't angry so I said 'I love you' and I'm sorry we had our stupid fight, and I didn't mean anything, I said. So I fell back asleep.

Then I was awoken TWO more times the same night. I started to worry. Why did he want me awake? Why wake me 3 times? And on the last time he awoke me I felt hostility in the air-or maybe just frustration-he was a gemini HAHA. I heard over my shoulder while I was laying on my tummy-'UP! UP! ARGGGGGGggg' and the gurgle noise faded away. That was scary more than reassuring. Should I be scared? Was that him?

A couple of days later I was listening to a song, without realizing it, I started to sway like I was dancing-then the words from ANOTHER song popped into my head-'if you want a show, let me know and I'll sing it in you ear' and instinctively I looked slightly over my shoulder and saw a shadow of an elbow, like it was grabbing my waist, dancing with me (not a scary shadow) kind of like a negative of a photo.

I since have felt him when I'm going to bed, like he touches my face and it tingles a bit. But sometimes afterwards I feel a hostile presence-and last night I really truly felt like I was being choked! I'm so confused.

Can this be two different spirits or am I being tricked? And lastly, do you think its truly the SPIRIT of him that comes to visit me in my dreams, he has green eyes in my dreams and he never looks directly AT me, he didn't have green eyes but he new that I liked people with green eyes lol?

Please help

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KaraJeanK (2 stories) (7 posts)
15 years ago (2008-12-03)
i do believe that I might have been keeping him here. I have never experienced a loss like this... And I have lost quite a few loved ones. I was scared to see him go, but I wanted him to go. Maybe he could pick up on that? I feel a great peace now. Like he has moved on-i still see him in my dreams, he doesn't try to talk to me-he just kisses me on my forhead and puts his arms around me... His eyes are still GREEN though...?
raychel (1 posts)
15 years ago (2008-12-02)
I'm very sorry for your loss, but I do agree with you that it could very well be him. He may be confused at where he is at and doesn't know what to do or how to get you to see him, which could be the hostile feelings. He may be trying to get you attention, or help. If you still feel him and he is still feeling unconvertible, then you could see what you could do by seeing a medium or physic.
GlendaSC (5 stories) (1475 posts)
15 years ago (2008-11-30)
Being in school, and being pushed to your max, is a lot of stress. I think that you are being tricked, either from yourself or someone outside yourself. Later, try to figure that out. Right now, just know that you have work and can't afford being tricked. You sound very intelligent. Thanks for sharing. It reminds me to be watchful. Perhaps that is your message.
mystical2 (16 stories) (483 posts)
15 years ago (2008-11-29)
As far as being gifted as a psychic, I get what I get, when I get it, at least for now. Had experiences with spirits throughout my life and still have a lot to learn, but I will give this a shot.
I am sorry to hear about your loss and I do hope you get through this okay. I know it is difficult. I've lost a boyfriend when I was younger, not easy. He also came to me after passing away. I did what he needed me to do and it was the last time he came to me.
Now, there is one question that is coming to mind. Are you in anyway keeping him here? There are times when someone losing someone very close to them and they mentally do not want them to leave, even spiritually. They want their spirit to stay with them, keeping them close. This at times keeps their loved ones from moving on into the light. At times, their loved ones become very frusterated because they want to move on, so they become angry.
Let him know you are okay and that he needs to go into the light. Let him know he has other loved ones waiting for him.

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