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A Little Medium Help Needed


I am new on this website, so I don't know yet if it's possible to ask for this kind of support, and I apologize if not.

So yy story is the following:

I have always been interested in mediumship, ever since I know my mind, and I had a few experiences with spirits, but I was too young to know what was happening to me. My very first experience was when I was in the 3rd grade primary school. There was a girl in our school, I don't know how old was she, but if my memory is correct she was in 6th grade. One day that girl got really sick and after a few days she passed away. Her picture was placed in front of the entrance, I think for solidarity. As the lunchtime break was over, I was going into the classroom, and on the way I checked her picture. And on the way back to the class I was walking through a corridor, there were only a few students outside, when I saw the exact same girl from the picture standing at the end of the corridor, smiling gently at me. I don't know why, but I started to go into her direction, and as I got closer, she stepped into a classroom, and when I opened the door of that classroom, I found it completely empty. Back then I didn't really realized what happened to me. So I didn't care too much about it.

About a month ago, I met a friend of mine who is really experienced in witch crafts and stuff like that. He has a guardian spirit, according to what he says, and this spirit communicates with him through his dreams. (The spirit only communicates during the full moon and only for an hour, according to my friend.) After a few weeks that friend has visited me, and told me that his guardian spirit has checked me, and said that I have the abilities of a medium, and it would be wonderful if I would learn how to see spirits again, so I could help them to communicate, and to be able to help other spirits to cross over. Ever since that time, I get useful advices from his guardian spirit.

I would only like to ask those who are more experienced, professional in this topic, that:

- Should I believe this friend?

- If I should, then please give me a few advices on how should I start developing my abilities?

- I tried meditating on my third eye every day for about a week now, but what else should I meditate on, I mean what should I visualize when I meditate?

It would be wonderful if it would be true, because I really want to help those spirits who need help to cross over, or to help those who have lost their relatives or beloved ones, to communicate with them. I don't want to do this cause of its cool or from fashion.

Thank you for all of the help forwardly.

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Kristina (4 stories) (31 posts)
11 years ago (2011-10-07)
I have the same thing. Maybe the guardian ghost could help you on one of your questions (referring to "should I trust my friend?") I have a guardian ghost too, and he (I think he used to be my boyfriend) warns me in my dreams whenever something bad was going to happen. My advice: stay calm and practice your medium skills. I've been doing it for years. 😊
Lyro (467 posts)
12 years ago (2010-05-07)
I'm not sure... With me, once a connection is formed, I don't really do mental Empathy anymore, that is all natural. I can't really stop the physical Empathy anymore, unless I stop the connection, or limit it. Pretty much, as you have experience, which is in time, it will come naturally. Your abilities will grow. You will start being able to recognize feelings easier, and at some point grow further. I have...
Chris82 (1 stories) (12 posts)
12 years ago (2010-05-06)
Hey Lyro. The thing is the last few weeks is when all this has started happening. With the empath thing, sometimes I kind of try and guess what their feeling. The thing is I would like to know if there's anything I can think of in my head like concentrating on their heart chakra or something that'll really help me feel what their feeling.
Lyro (467 posts)
12 years ago (2010-05-06)
[at] Chris82 you are prob Empathic like a lot of people here. The shadows, I would guess that you can see spirits too, which also is not that uncommon.
Chris82 (1 stories) (12 posts)
12 years ago (2010-05-06)
Hello, I'm not sure exactly what's going on with me either. Ever since I have started meditating things have been happening to me, like feeling others emotions and seeing shadows. If someone who knows what there talking about can help me out with this stuff just message me I really really would like help.
isisevangeline (3 stories) (172 posts)
12 years ago (2009-11-23)
If you want to believe your friend that's fine. But if your still doubtful I would ask your friend some details about his guardian. It's kind of odd in my opinion that his guardian has a specific time slot as to why he can only communicate with his charge. Especially it being only on the full moon.
That's really great that you have a considerate heart for wanting to be helpful but I do hope you do completely understand what it means to help them. Sometimes it can be frustrating, other times there isn't anything can be done. As long deeper you go more guided lines you learn about their limits and what you can do as to help them. But if your still sincere about it go ahead and ask your friend about his guardian. Why he is asking you to be a medium. Its always important to understand any guides or anybody's intentions if they wish for you to be open to your spirituality. When in the beginning your not aware of it yourself.
It's good that you meditate but another way is to open yourself and listen, focus on your feeling of wanting to help. If your destined to be a medium, the spirits will hear your call and come.

Well I hope you will be cautious of that guardian even if its your friend's guardian. Remember the guardian duty is to help your friend personally.
cyopathic (5 stories) (513 posts)
13 years ago (2009-08-23)
This topic went booming I see I was at school so could not reply but time to see what I can do first off Your friend wants to combine his soul with the girl, Do not do it I don't trust anyone from the 1700-1800 thoose where bad times and if shes not a gaurdian and human like I would not trust you see when you do that its more like they are around all the time they can turn and pose more easly and its more like a possine to a vessal in a bibble book. And angels do not like witchcraft for veryas reasons one script said because it is more like poseing god but I don't believe to much and your friend is very very deep tell him to pull out while he can witchcrafters are more of a servent to demons I wish for you to tell him this and thank you for the compliment makes me happy.:D And I did not like the second comment from the top from Ghosttalker0628 there is a third eye I read about it in my medical books but its more inside of us then on are forhead but I will try to see if I can find thoose medical books. And for fight4freedom you are right about the rules I don't trust whitchcraft more then petter answers I think it is ok as long as you don't get carried away.
fight4freedom (2 stories) (40 posts)
13 years ago (2009-08-23)
not all witchcraft is bad. A lot of the nationalities and beliefs that use magic use it for protection and follow the 3 times law that wiccans do. Have your friend get the guardians name I'm going to need first and last. Just the guardians. Because hearing the soul merging part reminded me of something that happened in a friend coven (theyre all wiccans). And one is still in touch with the demon that tried to posses her. But if you can it would be a lot of help ill either check it or have her see about it
Ghosttalker0628 (7 posts)
13 years ago (2009-08-23)
I wouldn't trust anybody that does witchcraft or anything of the sort. But, as a medium myself, I must say that you are having the showings of a person like me. Something that I have noticed is that the spirits come to you more often when it is dark. To try and expand your abilities go into a dark room at night and open your mind and heart to all that is present. Relax and don't let anything that a spirit may do startle you. And I don't believe that third eye stuff. So just meditate on your mind and heart and peace and happiness. Hope I was helpful! And remember that your not alone in this world. Strange as it may seem.
Pickdam (1 stories) (2 posts)
13 years ago (2009-08-19)

Thank you again. I know what you mean, I get that feelings many times, but mostly in the bathroom of our house for some reason. No, I can bravely say that I do no wish to do any kind of witchcraft. I think he is really deep in this stuff, cause he just visited me today and he said that his guardian wants him to unite his soul with hers. I think this is a little bit of suspicious, or weird. Yes, that girl was the very first spirit I remember to see. She was just standing there smiling gently, I wasn't scared (Maybe cause I didn't realized what was happening, or I don't know), her smile was more like heartwarming, maybe this is why I tried to follow her. And yes, it was quite unusual.
I usually meditated like this when I was not meditating on the third eye:
I sat down comfortably and closed my mind, focused on my breathing, and cleared my mind completely. Then when I was really relaxed, I opened my mind and focused my attention in front of me. But I like your method better, its easier, and seems to be more effective.
Thank you Very much for all your help again, and the compliment as well. I really hope that I will be and I will do my very best to become one, and develop my abilities. 😁


Then you exactly have what my friend says. He says that the spirit is a human, an about 20 years old girl, who lived around the 1500-1700's. But I am sure that more then a guardian he seems to be your friend as well.😁
Thank you very much for your advices as well, They are really useful. And I will stay away from them, I heard that they can open a door and let some nasty demons or "shadow spirits" (Or at least I call them this) into your house, and they can be troublesome. Hmmm... I never heard about the little girl, but thanks to your warning I will be prepared if she would show up.
Thank you for everything again.😁

lorynbaby (5 stories) (65 posts)
13 years ago (2009-08-19)
i have something like a gaurdian 'angel'. He really isn't one though hes more of a spirit that watches over me. He communicates to my by 'popping' into my head randomly. It is very annoying but I love him all the same. 😆
I don't see any hurt in trying to get ahold of your abilities. If you don't have them, nothing will happen. But if you do then you can take it from there.
But I have some advice for you:
Stay away from ouiji boards. They are bad news. They open a 'door' and anyone/anything can come right in. You don't know what may walk through.
And stay away from the little girls singing 'ring around the rosie'. You may hear them from time to time if you are a medium. They cause nothing but trouble fro you and people around you and they are very hard to get rid of. Just stay away and be careful, not everything is good and they may take advantage that you are inexperienced. Good luck.
~loryn. 😊
cyopathic (5 stories) (513 posts)
13 years ago (2009-08-18)
One more thing since you seem so nice I feel alittle like I was being watched by someone a hour ago and I felt it go away and one more thing it seems to look like I am happy to hear you do not do that witchcraft but I think you should not touch that and gaudin angels are ussaly assinded to someone or to someone who wants them your friend sounds to be deep in this and I will not say how to get one I do not wish to have one and I think your friend will be okay as long as he does not go to deep into this like ouiji boards and trying to devlope any kind of power or wizardy and you should stay on there good side but discribe what you know of him and you should be okay and you should be very carful around spirts and the girl you saw made me wounder about her but the empty class room is unsual but she seems happy you say and I think you will be a great medium just don't do what I have told you like no witchcraft or abusive power or your power will die down. And meditate how you feel comturbale with and you will get a answer. 😁
Pickdam (1 stories) (2 posts)
13 years ago (2009-08-18)
Thank you Very much for your tips, and help, I greatly appreciate them. And I am on the same opinion as you are with witchcraft I don't like it as well for the same reason as you do, and I don't do it. And I was just saying the exact same thing to my friend when he told me about this guardian angel, is that he don't know if he can trust her or not. And my point was that whether I should trust his spirit or angel, or not. I think he mostly do protection and wiccan spells but I'm not really sure about it. Like I said I never did and I will not do witchcrafts.
As For my deeds I want to develop this ability if I truly have it, to be able to help those who are in need. Personally I would never be able to use it in a bad way. It wouldn't be me.
Hmmmm... I see your point, and thank you for showing me the right way to meditate. I will do it your way from now on.
All Together thank you for your help again and thank you for taking your time to read my story. 😁

cyopathic (5 stories) (513 posts)
13 years ago (2009-08-18)
Well I know I am expericned in this case. Lets see you are asking me with these events if you are a medium lucky I certifie for one I DONT like witchcraft it gets spirts in the house good and bad and I do not wish for your friend to see about me I also do not like when gaurdian angels are around I want to make sure they are angels and not demons or other kind of bad spirts. But let's start off with your friend he does witchcraft and has a gaurdian angel tell me what does he or she use for this witchcraft and I might be nice about this you just have to work with me, I can give you tips on helping this abbilty you must be good and have done good deeds do not use your powers in a bad way they will die down and if you go with this witchcraft I suggest you learn its history and let's go with the next question. Ok I am going to tell you about meditating on what I am picking up someone is concentrating on me and I don't like that. I see that you are doing your meditating the wrong way focusing on your third eye is for empaths it might come with your abbilty later next you don't focus I do it the budist way or my way touch the ground and concentrate on your breathing don't think or vishilisze you need to focus on the earth giving energy to you and then do it for 15mins if you are getting better you will feel like a energy drink if you are doing this the wrong way please message back and I will check back.

Sincerly- Cyopathic
Very busy: Dont worry I will put something
Here maybe something with juluis cesar. 😁

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