Unexplained

About 6 weeks ago, in the middle of the night, I awoke to see a shadow at my door. Although it was dark, I could see an outline of a person walking past the moonlit room. At the time I told my husband about it and he said that I must have been dreaming it. Then maybe a week or so later I awoke again with the feeling that someone was watching me. I reached over to turn the bed side light on and felt a hand, it felt like a man's hand. I tried to call out to my husband to wake up but I couldn't get the words out of my mouth. When I managed to turn the light on there was no one there.

Then, a few nights ago again, in the middle of the night, the lights in our bedroom came on, not only the bedside light but the ceiling light as well. It is starting to unnerve me a little and I don't really know what to do about it. I spoke to a girlfriend of mine about it and she got quite excited about it, telling me to keep an open mind, maybe this person is trying to tell me something. I told her that I wish that this person would just get on with it and tell me what he or she wants. I have not normally been someone that has had much to do with this sort of thing and in a way I am a little scared even though I know that there is nothing to be scared about.