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Please Give Advice To A Fellow Lightworker?


I'm a 16 year old guy, and am a lightworker as well as an empath. I believe myself to be an indigo also, as I follow many of the traits. I have been going through the ascension process and the last 6 months of my life have been kind of hectic. My beliefs and values have literally been turned inside out.

Relations with my parents (who I've always been close to) have gotten very tense. They firmly believe that I should follow a normal life i.e. Get good grades, go to college, get a good paying job, work 40-50 hours a week for up to 50 years, retire, grow old, die. I just don't see the point in that. What does that accomplish? I really have an urge to do something for the good of humanity to leave the world better than when I entered it, but I have no idea how to do that.

I've never felt like the average Joe, and have always thought I'd do something different but now that I am seeing the world I feel stuck and enlaved by the system. I don't know what to do.  I get a strong urge to "get out there" and help, but I don't know what to do and where to go.  What should I do? I've kind of waited and just had things come to me where I can help, but I feel like I can do more. What do you think?

Also, since I was 6, I've taken meds for ADD and irritability/anxiety. I've heard that they hinder the ascension process and feel like I should get off them. Is this true? Would I notice a big difference or small? Also, I'm afraid my parents would force me to go back on because off the meds my natural indigo comes out and I have an issue with authority. So they pretty much drug me into following society's standards.

For those other lightworkers here, do you struggle socially? Since a young age, I have struggled to connect with my peers and make friends. I spent most of my childhood alone usually in my room reading or something. I still really struggle, and feel intensely lonely. Do any of you have advice?

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Kahlyn (4 stories) (311 posts)
14 years ago (2010-07-01)
Actually the answer is yes.

I am light worker and yes I work in a retail side of the job market. As for my co-worker for the most part I just ignore them.

I work with my co-workers and the most of the time talk about me while I am there. In all honesty I don't care what they say but when it effects the store operations I do start to get really annoyed.

I speak with people at various level of awareness and I know that the people I choose to deal with are not the same level of people I have to work with.

If anything these people are at a lower vibrational pattern than adverage people of this world. Just as I don't fit in with the people of this world. They don't fit in with the people in this world.

Anne V is right this world is a prison but worse we can sense it as such. For the people I work with they are in this world as a prisoner but they don't know it.
SpydroEyeslow (15 posts)
14 years ago (2010-06-09)
After reading some post I see how some people can limit thereselfves very badly just by saying what they can take this from a person who see everything he has ever wanted or had a great desire for i.e. Helping people realizing their full potiential which is UNLIMITED come into my realitly as if just placed there... 😉 lol I want to say this don't constrict any path you wish to take in life with any notions of not being possible due to any circumstances You can think of anything is possible. Whether it be finding a way to help other to mastering all the phychic abilties you can think and even the ones one cant. Sometimes when you are dealing with a great decision in life its best to stop trying to figure out how you will achieve your goal i.e. School,40-50 hr wrk week but to focus on a feel confident in yourself that YOU Will achieve whatever YOU feel is right for YOu not what others say which should neihter be ignorged nor followed aimlessly just aware of so you can make decision that are totally you which you will find bring you great happiness in life. Not working a same job for 40 years and hating everyday instead doing what you always seen yourself doing as a kid or rather be doing now. I'm saying go do whatever it is you wanted and know that you can no if, aints, or buts. Chea
Droski ❤
SpydroEyeslow (15 posts)
14 years ago (2010-06-09)
reading accounts like yours make my solar plexius smile I perfectly can feel you in what you wrote it seem like withing the last two months my realitly around me has been changing rapidily with I too have question all what was held to be normal just do because its what's everyone else does attittude what I can say to is that don't ever feel you have to conform to what other hold to be secure and right follow your own path you will truly be free.
brooke_wortham (guest)
14 years ago (2010-04-29)
Oh my God!

I feel the EXACT same way. Like, we can't make friends because no one will understand us. I know that, as a fellow empath, that we are able to pick up people's energy so I am scared to make friends because they might turn on me and because I am feeling their emotions as well as mine, that I'll turn on my self! Whew that was a long sentence.

I can also read people's intentions. Like I can feel when people are pulling up into my driveway and I know who it is. I guess that is called reading people's energy but I don't think that I am doing that.

I don't know how to be a lightworker. Do you think you can explain it to me? I hope so!

loolum (guest)
14 years ago (2010-02-25)
yes, I'm almost 16, and feel so much like you do. I'm a psychic indigo empath too.
But, I want to help the world, but I don't feel the urge as strongly as you have been describing.
I struggled socially as a child, but rose out of that, and now I'm amazingly sociable.
I help people with their problems all the time, and people just come to me, even if they barely know me.
It feels very draining sometimes, but I just ground that energy and continue, for the sake of others.

Also, sometimes I feel like I'm doing the wrong thing, some people have done really nasty things to me and spread rumours, but the second they ask for forgiveness, I give it to them no problem. Its feels right, but it confuses me, and the other person aswell.

Again, I don't feel this as strongly, maybe it will get stronger.

I say, try your best to connect to others.
jm94 (3 posts)
14 years ago (2010-02-01)
Hello, I feel exactly the same as you. I just submitted an article, but neglected to mention about not feeling like your average joe. My parents feel exactly the same about me... Annoys me highly. I know they want the best for me... They have no belef in anything out of the ordinary. I too would like to leave earth better than I found it. I hope 2012 is the end to all this matirialism, and enslavery! You are on the right track. I feel less like an indigo and more like a crystal and follow more of the crystal traits myself. I managed to find a few people to relate to, but only two I can discuss this with. Carry a rose quartz crystal with you, that can help attract like friendship minds. Ask spirit to guide you to a close friend. Follow your gut. And good luck!
t3rrt3rr (3 stories) (13 posts)
14 years ago (2010-01-30)
Being a lightworker, born into a lower vibrating planet from the higher energy planes of existence is a difficult and lonely challenge.
You might not be able to relate to anyone. People just won't get what your saying, and sometimes, you might think that something is wrong with you.

However, nothing is wrong with you.
You were actually born into this body/this planet for a specific reason.

Here is the thing. You are here because Source/god (or whomever you believe in at this time)... Asked you to help the planet earth in it's ascension process.

You are on the correct path. You are not doing ONE thing wrong!

My advice for you is this:

As a lightworker myself, I have known the troubles you face now, a while back.

Something what helped me immensely, was meditation, and spreading the vibration of happiness, unconditional love, understanding and positive vibrations onto another person!

But your probably wondering how to do this?
Answer: Enlighten others!:)

This is why you are here. To enlighten others through your own personal understanding!

To help others, you need to help yourself first!

Whenever you go out, you are constantly carrying around good vibes within your auric field. (the energy around your body.) ... And when another person passes through your aura, or another person's energy field interacts with your energy, their sense of "self" changes. Their energy changes!

This is why you are here. To help humanity with their level of consciousness. To expand their awareness. You do it without knowing it!:)

Believe me when I say: Your on the right track. Don't believe you are doing anything wrong, because you couldn't be doing any more right at the moment.

When you come home very tired from school / outside / around other people... You are tired because you are spreading so much of your own light and consciousness to other humans!

2012 - it's a time to reboot the computer with new software. Right now even as I type this to you, you are defining what you want the new world to consist of.

So even if you aren't "out there" physically, you are out there conciously!

Don't worry. This world is in extremely good hands.
This change that is taking place is going well, and everything is on the correct track.

Universal and unconditional love and light - Terry.
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
14 years ago (2010-01-29)
Hi Mossme89,

You find people like you here and other places on the net. You are very lucky because when I was your age there was no net! This is a pot of gold for people to communicate. Not only are you not alone but you're blessed with this resources.

None of us know for true certainty what is going to happen in 2012 or any year. One thing about New Agers is they can't get consistent on what they think is going to happen. There's a couple of things I'd like to point out on this though. I remember the big hoopla that surrounded the year 2000. Tons of people were stocking up on what they thought they would need to survive the big year. Books were sold, people moved to Montana and God knows what else. My sister jokingly told me that people were going to die sooner from a heart attack related to the stress they were incurring than the actual year itself! And as we all know, nothing happened. Don't let any year dictate your behavior or goals. Every year can be your last on earth or a ground shaker for the world. The point is to live in the moment and live your day or year as if it were the last.

Yes, so much can be changed in 2012 but where should your focus be? The world or you? There is a very subtle nuance to understanding the need and desire for change in the world. It's hard for us to understand that a part of us might want change because we're bored, because we want the world to be different because our ego dictates that (Please world, be like me). But what we sometimes fail to realize is that whether or not the world changes or evolves, the change that matters most is what we're doing with ourselves. Do you know that there are physical beings on this planet that can become invisible to the naked eye? They could care less about 2012 because they are already self-realized and nothing that happens here will change that. If you want this level of consciousness try and look at the bigger picture of your life. Forget 2012, forget anything but who you are now. If you want to be a true light worker, you're that in this moment. You give illumination (light) through your love, by working through and illuminating your fears so that they can be shed, and by accepting the process, even if it's hard to understand. If you can do this, and there really is an upheaval in 2012, then your work will be done.

luna_fae (1 posts)
14 years ago (2010-01-29)

Also like you, I am a lightworker and an indigo child. I was always the quiet shy person and I never really related well to other children when I was younger and like sarah12375 I do have friends but no best friend and I isolate myself in my room after school everyday. I am in a very large family and was always the odd one out. When I was around about your age my parents got me involved in sports and activity groups and I changed schools and I am a more outgoing person now because it forced me to talk to people because I hated being alone all the time.

Although you don't want to conform and live an average life, you could have an average job and yet do extraordinary things. Even the most average jobs can help change the world.
I believe my purpose is to help people and I am working towards becoming a doctor.

Hope this helps
sarah12375 (6 stories) (106 posts)
14 years ago (2010-01-28)
Hello there!

I see Anne has written some amazing advice again:)

But she's right... Your parents say this because they want the BEST for you, they want you to succeed, but you do have to work hard for it.
I'm like you, a indigo child. I'm 15 so roughly the same age and I too have a dying passion to help the world... And I already found out how to do it and what kind of schooling I have to do to get to the point where I can help them:)
I struggle with certain rules too and sometimes get in trouble for it. You could say I have a lot of friends, but no best friends, so I'm lonely like you...
I also try and isolate myself in my room after school, knowing what kind of world is out there...

Sorry for rambling and my mini life story that you probably don't care about, my point was that if you just want to talk, my email is

Kikyo10kagome [at]
Mossme89 (2 stories) (1 posts)
14 years ago (2010-01-28)
Thanks Anne,

That really helped! Just curious, how would I go about finding those like myself, just so I have some people to relate to?

I really hope for a change in 2012, and not just a hoax or something. There is so much that could be changed...
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
14 years ago (2010-01-28)
Your parents are not wrong in wanting you to follow what they feel is a correct path. They do this because they love you and don't want you to suffer. They are not empaths or lightworkers so do not understand you. Be prepared, few people in this world will understand you. Your parents are doing what "they" feel is right.

But with that said, this is your life. Based on your profile, you're 17 and can do what you want in one year.

So let's look forward at your life. Okay, so you've looked at the world and feel enslaved. Evolved people call this planet the "prison planet" for a reason. You (and all of us to a great degree) ARE enslaved. I can't just pick up and move to another country. I can't move out to the forest and live on my own and barter for what I need. As long as you have a dense physical shell, to some degree you're going to have to play the game. If you don't they will arrest you (for not paying taxes, land squatting, whatever) and send you to jail and there is a lot more of "them" to enforce the law than those who want to get out of the trap.

So what does a person do? You can still live a very rewarding life but you've got to get some focus. I wrote to another person on this site a few days ago asking them to go inside themselves and find out what inspires them. Sure, you want to help people, but how? People aren't just going to willy nilly listen to or follow any self-proclaimed lightworker/empath. You have to do ground work, educate yourself (in whatever area that excites you) and build a reputation. You are young and want it now but it doesn't work that way for any of us. If it did, we'd all be bored.

Education is paramount! It doesn't matter if you want to produce something beautiful like art, work in the forest as a ranger, help people with education or health, you still have to get educated on the process. So take the ultimate thrust of your parents' message which is, "Educate yourself in your field of interest and pursue your dreams" versus the negative message being twisted of, "Get educated, live like a sheep in a helpless stupid flock and die."

You're an adult soon. All these decisions will shortly be all yours. As for going off meds, if you're struggling coping with life as it is (and we all do because life is hard) then you may have an even harder time coping. If you feel this is holding back your ascension, then know too that being utterly miserable will hold it back as well. You think the slave mentality and difficulty goes away when you're off meds? Think again.

Find your passion, get educated on how to be the best at whatever that is, and work on your spirituality on the side. If you do what you love then part of the spiritual work is already integrated.


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