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What I Do And An Awkward Situation


I'm a 16 year old medium. I hear and see spirits all the time. I also see auras. (the light around people) I try my best to be a normal teen but sometimes it gets confusing and upsetting when I can't tell the difference between what's there and what's only there to me... Some of the spirits that come to me have the most heart wrenching stories and it kills me to hear about them or when they tell me to tell someone something but I'm only 16. I had a man come to me in November, He asked me to tell his daughter that he loved her and that he gives her his permission. So I asked ok well where is she? He said WASHINGTON D.C! I'm all the way down here in g.a. So I politely said Sir I'm sorry but that's to far away. And he said you will know her when you see her. Then he just disappeared. Now how the heck am I suppose to find this woman and say Ma'am yes uh your father came to me and told me he loves you and gives you his permission, say 5 years later... What if she needed his permission now not then... What do you do in that type of situation?

Another thing is that I'm alone here... Nobody has the ability as I do, so no one understands what I'm going through and its hard not having someone to talk to about this. I wish someone would say o I'm like you... Instead of... Oh you uh... See dead people... Or OMGURSH THAT'S SOO KOOL. I'M LIKE THAT TOO... When really they aren't...I'm 16 and nobody gets me. People try but they will never fully understand how hard this is.

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spirit_journey (2 posts)
13 years ago (2011-07-18)
Hi, there are a couple of things you can do.

First of all, you can refuse visitations or make your own conditions as to who shows up when and where. This is your life and you get to choose. They are just coming to you because you are a light in darkness to them and they need some help.

My wife used to see people all the time, and it was disturbing her sleep. But someone said, hey, just say no, and they haven't come back.

The other thing is that these souls need to move on. You may be able to help them get to where they really belong. Mostly souls are afraid of going on, or are really stuck thinking about some unfinished business.

Assure them that they are loved and forgiven and that everything is all right. Then point them to the light and ask God for assistance to help them cross over. I have never done it, but have seen it done many times.

Much love and blessings
brooke_wortham (guest)
14 years ago (2010-04-22)

I'm Brooke. I live in constant fear of my mediumship abilities. I don't know how to react to when spirits come to me and want me to send some sort of message to someone halfway across the country. Believe me, I have been through that too.

The best advice I can give is to tell them to back off and leave you alone. That you want to help them but you can't and to leave you alone. I don't know if this will work for you but I hope it does. I say it with lots of force in my mind or out loud if I am alone. I also push my energy towards them and make them back off. It works a lot of the time!:) Maybe that will help you!

stardust77 (2 stories) (15 posts)
14 years ago (2010-04-22)
I'm guessing this man spirit that came to you knew that you will meet his daughter someday. Some humans can astral project themselves through time to see a (potential) future, so who's to say that spirits can't too?

Also, you might feel alone physically, but when you read the words of others in this site or in books, you'll know that you're not alone in your experiences. It's true that you're still young, but to be able to empathize and sympathize with others - human or spirit, is a good trait to have - just don't get too attached. How? Again there are many instances in this site which can help you. One of the things that my mentor has mentioned before, and which I think is true, is that other people's problems remain theirs to solve. You can provide insights, new perspectives, new attitudes, but you should not feel responsible or force them to comply with what you say, even if you feel strongly in your gut that it's true. Also, if you get overly attached to their problems and it causes you distress, how are you going to think of solutions to help them?

So whenever you feel isolated, alone, just do a search on this site reading other people's stories. Some have far "stranger" abilities, some want any of it badly, some are just fantasizing. You, on the other hand, already know what your abilities are. And it is only maybe you, out of a thousand or perhaps even more, is able to help these spirits that no one else can. For example, myself, since I can't see or hear them. So use them for good. You still have the rest of your lifetime to do good and lead a different, spiritually meaningful life.:)

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