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In my previous post I talked about the dark people I would see at night time. I don't think they are 'shadow people' as I would see their facial expressions (usually terrifying) and their body movement. This happens mostly at night time, which causes me to loose sleep. I sleep during the day mostly to not see these figures.

I don't know if I would call myself a psychic, because I don't think I have experienced any other figures, or normal ghosts that I've seen. I haven't had a normal experience, except once seeing my friend that recently passed away.

Do ghosts look like normal people? How can you tell the difference?

Recently I have started to sleep with the lights on, to not see these figures. But instead of seeing them, I just wake up with a feeling of fear, and something Is there. I use to get dreams of things that later happen to come true. It hasn't happened in awhile, because I don't recall my dreams that much now. I also get 'feelings' of when something bad is going to happen. The night my friend died, I felt like crying and staying home. I brushed it off because I feel like that sometimes. Actually there is one particular song that comes on and I know something bad is going to happen, and usually does after I hear it. Am I bringing that bad energy towards me?

Would you call me a Psychic?

And a thing about meditation, I really don't understand how it works.

I don't have that much patience so I sometimes expect to get results right away, I have tried it a couple times and was unsuccessful so I stopped. What happens to you when your meditating? What do you usually see? Can you contact a loved one with this? And can it improve your abilities? How can you contact your spiritual guide, or angels?

I would really like to find out if ghosts look like humans, and how can you notice them?

Thanks sooo much for taking the time to answer my questions.

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wolfwarrior (2 posts)
10 years ago (2011-03-11)
ghosts feed off negative thoughts. And if you put crosses in the house (I mean 5 in all of the rooms) they will show up less.
looseabi (2 stories) (5 posts)
10 years ago (2010-11-04)
oracle 101 can you please read my story I will really apreciated
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
10 years ago (2010-11-02)
Explain your problem and I will try my best to help you.

(in reply to looseabi's question)


Always happy to help others
looseabi (2 stories) (5 posts)
11 years ago (2010-10-13)
I was wondering if you can please help me I'm confused. Oracle 1o1 can you give me some advice.
Spithra (1 posts)
11 years ago (2010-10-11)
Oracle 101 is totally right. You gotta ask for help from you're spirit guides, they really can help you know. I remember the last time a spirit or whatever it was tried to hurt me one night, I couldn't see them but I felt them, bald head, smooth skin, hands. But when I opened my eyes it was gone. After that I meditated to reach my angels and ask for protection and you know what I never got attacked again. You should try it yeah. The meditation thing, it keeps you focused and calm. Well the pictures and colors you see sometimes are pretty cool too. 😊 😊
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
11 years ago (2010-10-11)
How to contact your Guides.

It is important to seek advice from your Guides. Unlike people, your Guides always have good intentions and their job is to protect you and guide you. When they visit you they will make you feel safe and comforted. It is like being visited by a good friend. They will never make you feel scared or afraid.

To confirm that you have Guides (and that they are who they say they are) ask them for signs then be on the lookout for those signs. I asked for specific detailed signs which are not easily found anywhere and they shocked me everytime by sending me those exact signs, so make your requests a bit challenging (but not impossible) and they will comply. Do not be scared. Think of your Guides as friends, Angels, etc. Your job is to develop and use your gift and their job is to show you how. Just make certain you only use it for good purposes. Also make certain they are Guides, not bad entities, by only thinking your thoughts to them rather than speaking your requests outloud, and first pray for your top level Guides to come guide you, and verbally outloud banish all bad entities from around you telling them they are not welcome.

Guides or spirits?

It is very important to confirm that they are good entities which you are meant to help and not bad entities trying to attack or manipulate you. They can see you and hear your spoken word but not usually hear your thoughts so the first thing to do is to pray for your guides to protect you and advise you on what to do. As for the entities/spirits you must speak outloud to them to ensure that they hear you and tell them that you only welcome good spirits and ask all negative or bad energies/entities/spirits to leave. This is also important to do when using lettered cards, tarot cards, scrabble, etc to communicate with your top level Guides for advice and guidance. Always confirm you are speaking to them and not to entities/spirits until you are ready to do so.

If you are contacted by someone touching you, they often disturb you when you are sleeping, tell you they like or love you, and implies they are your Guide, then usually they have not been assigned to you but is a spirit who has died, found you, and decided to "help" you since they like you. It is okay to keep such an inexperienced Guide only if they have good intentions, never do wrong, and only as a "companion" Guide. When in doubt it is best to pray and ask to be sent only your top-level Guides and to be protected by your Angels.

How to make first contact with Guides:

-First be relaxed and in a location where you feel most spiritual and protected.

-Next in your mind and outloud ask for all negative energies/entities to leave for they are not welcome. They need to be told this.

-Next pray innerly (not outloud). Ask to be protected from negative, bad, evil, or dark energies/entities/spirits.

-Once you feel at peace and protected, pray innerly to communicate with your Top Level Guides. Only those who guide you, care for you, protect you, and are of the white light.

-You will then hear some inner thoughts, which at first you might feel are only your own, but they will catch you off guard because you will know you yourself did not think that thought. Reply to it. Listen carefully. Ask it questions. Listen for answers.

-Now at this point you will wonder if you are crazy, and are imagining things, or making it up in your own mind. This is when you need to ask to be sent signs as an assurance that they do in fact exist. They do not mind doing this. They understand. Request a sign which is challenging and not so common so you will know for a fact that it is from them, but do not choose a sign that is impossible.

Be aware and watch for the signs.

Keep in mind that Guides do not always come forward until we know they exist, believe in them, and need them. Even then it might be against the rules for them to come forward. Others like to remain hidden and watch over us silently. Remember that Guides are on another level. They can make mistakes, be not so experienced as other ones, and might bend the rules and get in trouble for it. So be careful when making contact and making demands. They do have to answer to the highest power aka God.

Ways to communicate with your Guides:

-Rune Stones
-Asking for and reading signs

To get your Guides to TALK to you in a more physical voice they need to develop this ability just as you need to develop the ability to HEAR them.

Until then they will use whatever other methods they can in which to communicate with you (Inner Thoughts, Tarot, Rune, Meditating, Radio, Signs, etc).

Remember not to pressure your Guides with being able to communicate better with you. They want this as much as you do and it is a two way street. You try more on your end, and they will try more on their end. Teamwork.

Thinking of your Spirit Guide, and sensing them, might make you feel all kinds of emotions, such as nervousness, excitement, peacefulness, etc. Never will Guides make you feel cold, scared, threatened, or overly worried. Although communication with Guides can create confusion, frustration, and the occasional tear, since it is like any relationship in which it takes time to understand each other.

If you cannot receive messages from your Guides, even after following my advice on this, then either you just do not hear those messages from them, or for some reason they feel it is best not to communicate with you in this way at this time. They do know what is best for you, and everything happens for a reason, even if we do not understand or know that reason.

Be patient, keep trying, and pay attention to messages. Remember, Guides rarely can show human form and a spoken message will sound not like a physical voice but more like an inner thought. Ask them to speak louder and to repeat the message until you hear it.

Having trouble hearing your Guides is quite natural. It takes time. You may even only hear or see them in your dreams, or when you are sick and getting rest. Especially if you are a busy person (such as a wife and mother with many "distractions").

This is why teen psychics have decreased abilities while they attend school and date, and why some psychics do not date, marry, or have children. Some even live like hermits such as Leonardo DaVinci, John Dee, Nostradamus, and Howard Hughes (or like an Oracle. LOL)

Everyday life can distract psychics. Crowds can overwhelm us. Concerts can be nerve-wracking. You are married with three kids. Finding the time, quiet, and peace of mind to hear answers and messages from your Guides is going to take time and patience.

Remembering a Guide's message to you in a dream or visit might be difficult to recall later. This is quite common. It usually means your conscious self is not allowed to remember for whatever reason, only your soul is to know.

Oracle101, Psychic and Medium for 44 years

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raybabay13 (4 stories) (37 posts)
11 years ago (2010-10-10)
i see shadow people all the time, along with regular ghosts and orbs. I get the same feeling when I don't see them too! I wake up terrified out of my mind and I kknow I have to get out of that room NOW. If you want, it would be great if yoou could email me, id love to share stories and I might be able to help you.
My email is musicroxmylife13 [at]
gaiamara (19 posts)
11 years ago (2010-10-09)
ladyrara26: I can give you many pointers on how to learn to meditate. It's something that I teach everyday. If you'd like to email me at teneal79 [at] I'll send you a heap of information and teach you some techniques that work.

We use meditation to focus the mind. When the mind is focused and without the general clutter (and the mind takes the opportunity to claim your attention when you are still, like a cheeky monkey that can't be told to stop) that is when we gain the most control of our subtle senses. It's about learning to hear them beyond the usual static that everyday thoughts create, not about staying still and silent.

I never thought I'd manage to meditate. I can now meditate for an hour or longer if given the opportunity and if I take the time to prepare the mind and body. Trust me, you definitely can learn this. Everyone can, it's just a matter of finding the practice that works for you! Xox
Doublemint (3 stories) (261 posts)
11 years ago (2010-10-09)
Your question > Do ghosts look like normal people? In my experiences over the years ghosts have shown up looking physically normal but I have also seen them as a silhouette human form but see through.
Your question > How can you tell the difference? For me if it's during the daylight hours sound disappears. I call this the 'dead zone' when spirit makes its presence known to me.
At night it's a little different my mind is highly receptive so I am sensing presence like a radar I call this psi-dar.

ZiShu (129 posts)
11 years ago (2010-10-09)
Contact me, I can help connect you to your Guardian Angel. Yes Meditation does help.
Ghosts look just like alive humans. It depends on what they last remembered before they died. I become a ghost sometimes, but I am not a shadow... Shadows are something else, or dark figures... I know what they are, I've banished them before.
ladyrara26 (5 stories) (9 posts)
11 years ago (2010-10-08)
Thanks for the comments.
I don't mean to be frightened of these figures. But I only am because they come to me as scary looking figures, or faces.
But when AnneV said the ghosts were passed love ones I did feel a hint of sadness for being so ignorant.
I would like to help them, speak to them. But I am to afraid to confront them.
As for the meditation I am complete opposite maybe that's why it doesn't really work for me.
My mind isn't loud with lots of thoughts its pretty... Queit.
When I try to meditate, that's when I start thinking of things because I'm sitting still and doing nothing. Does this mean meditation will not work for me?
Thanks ❤
Shaolin (1 stories) (212 posts)
11 years ago (2010-10-07)
Insticntual feelings are varying degrees of clairvaoyance, happens to almost every human being, even though a lot of them don't accept it as a psychic thing. Alot of times these episodes induce anxiety or at least adrenal responses, and make you feel nervous, scared, intense, etc. Work on controlling your insticntual responses, so you can call on them at will. The more control you have, the less frightening it will all become.

Best wishes, my friend.
AnneV (4 stories) (1056 posts) mod
11 years ago (2010-10-07)
We are all going to be ghosts soon enough because we're all going to die. Earth bound ghosts are just people who have not gone to the light. They usually stay behind either because they don't want to leave family or friends, or something is yet resolved (like a murder). How they appear depends on the psychic. Some see them as plain as day and some see them as shadows, half embodied, or transparent. But some food for thought here; what we think we attract. All that fear is negative and will attract such in return. Love these people if you can. Every one of them is either a mother, father, sister, daughter, brother, or son to someone. They are lost and if we'd love them instead of fearing them, more could find the light. They are only scary because we are an ignorant society who associates "ghosts" with ghouls and demons. I know it's almost Halloween here but those ghosts are just you and I but without the body. Every time I astral project, I'm a ghost!

We are all psychic to one degree or the other. Don't doubt yourself. You've seen and heard plenty to know you're psychic.

People make meditation more complicated than it is. All meditation is, is clearing your mind so you can allow several things to happen 1) relaxation. Some people clear their mind ("meditate on nothing") to ease the stress of their day. 2) To allow visions or voices to be heard. If we'd all shut up in our heads, we'd hear and see a lot more! But we chatter non-stop and who can hear anything from the subtle realm with all that noise going on? So they quiet the mind for as long as they can, to allow data from other channels to come through. Remember, we are all just a filter and so the more we open and clear the filter, the more information we can receive. 3) To work on the ego. When we stop the ego's control of our mind, we allow something more pure to exist and be felt. We might consider meditating on the feeling of love, or light, or whatever other pure thing we can think of (or those poor souls that you're afraid of that need our help).

So decide what you want to accomplish. Relax? Seek visions or communication? Help ghosts? Let your inner soul be quiet and rest the ego? You decide!


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