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Why Am I Being Haunted?


This has happened to me for the past four years. It happens to me randomly at night time when I'm sleeping. I am sleeping but I am well aware of my surroundings. Its sort of like I'm not sleeping at all just sitting in my room. Then suddenly a figure or body appear in the shadows. They are either standing beside me, or across. There once was a figure hanging from the back of my door, and when I noticed it, its head started turning to look at me. Another time was when there was a twisted faced man lying on my floor.

They usually appear as dark figures, or like the one that was on my floor, with scary, twisted looking faces. I usually scream out loud when I see these figures because they really are horrible. The twisted face one on the floor I actually stomped on it because it looked so real. The only time I did not freak out, was when there was another body beside my bed. This was the first time one has appeared to me during the day. I sat up and turned towards it, this body was missing a head and there was a fly buzzing around. I blinked once and it disappeared. It's really hard for me to fall asleep at night being afraid of these figures to show up again, I researched this on the internet and came up with 'Night Terrors'.

The Only time where it was not a frightening moment was when a recently deceased friend of mine was above me, slowly appearing with his face and then upper body. He was smiling down on me. Was this some sort of sign he was sending?

I haven't really experienced any figures lately, but now its more like a wake up scared and have a 'feeling' someone is around me. I keep my eyes closed before I turn on the lights.

I also have huge black spiders crawling around me. Is this a bad omen?

Please help me, I want to fall asleep not being afraid of these figures, and someone help me figure out with the recently passed away friend on mine, was this a sign?

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ladyrara26 (5 stories) (9 posts)
10 years ago (2010-10-03)
Thanks everyone for commenting.
These shadows come to me at night time so I am guessing that these are the bad, demonic spirits. Only once did I see a body with no head at sunset, though I wasn't afraid of this one.
How can I tell the difference between real people, spirts and human ghosts?
I don't believe I have seen any when I am not about to fall asleep or at night time.
I guess I'm only seeing bad spirts because when I do see them I am terrified,
And when I do see them, should I speak to them? What if they disappear or will I hear their response?
Thank you for taking the time to answer my problems, and questions.
vanillabean (9 stories) (168 posts)
10 years ago (2010-10-03)
I posted a response on your other post, but I just wanted to add that one response above said, "I feel as though the black spiders are a psychic manifestation of your fears" and I would have to agree with that. It's not necessarily that you have a fear of spiders--because you likely have fears of many things. But for some reason the spiders are representing the fact that you're afraid and perhaps adding fuel to the fire.

Definitely, definitely learn how to meditate and communicate with loved ones or good spirits. My guess is that you are seeing these things, but you have not yet outright tried to talk to them or to God or any of the good spirits that surround you. Don't feel weird about it. It does take some time to get used to talking to people you can't see, but try and communicate with your friend or maybe an aunt or grandparent who you were close to.
ZiShu (129 posts)
10 years ago (2010-10-02)
Well some of these are actual human spirits, while some of these are demons trying to terrorize you for your negative energy.
Spirits come to you for help because they know you can see them. However the demons scare you because they are trying to block out your power. The shadow ones are the demonic ones. Can you only see them when you are trying to sleep?
If you see them when you are awake and walking around, do they look just like live humans?
Your friend came to you possibly to say one last good bye.
SnowAngel12 (guest)
10 years ago (2010-10-02)
The reason these spirits, entities, angels, or demon comes to you is because you can see them and they know that you can see them, feel them, or hear them. Your more open to the surrounding and blessed with many different gifts. They come to you for many reason. Some come to you for help, because there are not a lot of people who are open to the world. Other comes to bother you or freak you out, because that is what they like to do. There are many that wants you dead, so they can destroy or eat you. Others are your guardians or angels that come to protect you. You can tell the difference, but its up to you to find out. There are many more reason that even I do not know.
ladyrara26 (5 stories) (9 posts)
10 years ago (2010-10-02)
thank you for your detailed answer!
But can someone answer to as why these ghosts are coming to me? Or are they even ghost and not something that my mind is just playing tricks on me?
gaiamara (19 posts)
10 years ago (2010-10-01)
It's so hard when they bother us in what we consider our sanctuaries - our bedrooms and our sleep. However, I suppose if they can't get through at any other time then they do what they must. In saying that, you don't have to allow them access when you don't want them there.

I would, as shahidutz suggested, protect my room. You can use salt, or salt water, and pour it around the edges of your room. As you do this visualise the clear energies of the stars pouring into the "space" you're describing with the salt. Imagine the light of the stars is as bright as the blast of an atom bomb (sorry for the morbid concept but it works for me) and it is chasing away the darkness in the room. Obliterating and cauterising all the dark corners and crevices leaving it sparkling with clear, white light.

After this I'd suggest you source a smokey quartz crystal or a black tourmaline to wear on a pendant. They're very effective in protecting the wearer from psychic attack and unwanted energies.

It might seem weird, but I feel as though the black spiders are a psychic manifestation of your fears. You can blast them with white light if it makes you feel better. When I feel as though I'm under too much psychic stress I wrap myself in an egg of white light. All within it is protected and nothing can enter it. You might like to ask the aid of a guardian spirit or an archangel (I highly recommend Michael) to protect and watch over you through out the night.

As for your friend, I think you can contact him with your thoughts. If you can take the time (after protecting yourself psychically) to calm your mind and ground your energy into the earth (imagine roots growing from your feet/tailbone and down into the ground) then you can ask him to come to you. Just be careful that it is him that comes and not something that is trying to trick you. Ask that the true form of your friend connect to you. Once again, a guardian spirit or guide would be really helpful for this.

Wow... Lots of words. Sorry. I hope I've helped a little 😜
shahidutz (21 posts)
10 years ago (2010-09-30)
Many of peoples have experience, I discussed with many peoples and friends and even in real life I had experience. In Every religion tell us about spirits and how to remove them, maybe you should contact any church father, I hope it will helpful, otherwise if you bring sea water and inject at your room corners perhaps it will helpful.
PureCheese (4 stories) (79 posts)
10 years ago (2010-09-30)
I think they are
Spirits come in different forms

I read a while back that this girl could see these spirits and they were very terrifying to her because of the shapes they would come in

You just need to stay strong so you won't be bothered by them
ladyrara26 (5 stories) (9 posts)
10 years ago (2010-09-30)
they want to harm me?
How can I communicate with them?
Thank you for your advice
JVALLE24 (guest)
10 years ago (2010-09-30)
Something might have happened there in that room or land. This earth is so old and it has supernatural history. Sometimes in order to get rid of them you have to listen to them. Maybe they need help or they want to harm you. You will no in your heart what to do if you center yourself. If you feel like you need to find out then go for it if not let it be. No that it will continuesly happened and you shouldnt allow them to bother you. Be available for them but not always.

Hope I helped take care!
ladyrara26 (5 stories) (9 posts)
10 years ago (2010-09-30)
Thank you for the advice... I have some questions if you don't mind...

Are they always going to be this horrifying?
What do they want?

Is there any way that I can contact my deceased friend?
Thanks again
PureCheese (4 stories) (79 posts)
10 years ago (2010-09-29)
Your friend just wanted to see you one more time
Have you thought of that?

And I am not sure about the spider
It can be a bad omen
But I am honestly not sure
And now to answer your question from the title
Your not being haunted
You are just aware that they are there and they are aware of you
The only person they can go to is you
Some cause harm and others don't
Just take care and...
Meditate to clear your mind

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