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Suicide Of A Friend That Hasn't Happened Yet


The other day I was sitting on the couch relaxing and I dozed off into sleep. I had what I thought was a nightmare, but seemingly unusual because I have had nightmares before however, they were never about a close friend killing themselves. In this "dream" my friend from high school that I don't really see that much now, gave off the feeling that she was depressed and then I see her flashbacks from her life while she holds a gun to her temple. She was also holding an index card in her other hand that said: "Plus 1" and then I see her shoot herself. This startled me so bad that I immediately woke up scared and shaking.

Since I have been a teenager I have had premonitions that something bad was going to happen however, they have not been clear. And to avoid people looking at me strange I hardly ever talked about them unless someone else would talk about having the same feelings happen to them. I would also have dreams of something happening, but I would ignore them until it happened. I also get feelings of deja vu on occasion. But all of these things that I experience I would tend to ignore, and they didn't happen all that often.

However, now I have been researching this and talking more about it because through the years I have experienced many deaths in my family and with friends where I would get some hint that someone was going to die or get extremely ill and I never paid attention to them until it happened more and more. Just about a month ago I was in the car driving home and I had a really bad gut feeling of someone having a fatal car accident. Obviously I thought it was myself as I was in a car, but after I made it home later that night my sister called me and said that a friend of ours died that day in a car accident. When I looked at the newspaper article I had that premonition within that half an hour time-frame of her death.

So quite obviously when I had this dream of my friend killing herself, it startled me. So I started talking about it to my sister and trying to figure out what "Plus 1" meant. Then, it came to me that it meant someone else was going to die as well and that she might be pregnant. So being concerned for her I looked at her page on Facebook since we are friends on there anyway, and everything looked fine as though there would be no reason for her to want to kill herself. She has a good job, she has a great boyfriend that she has been with for three years, she is now in a band as a singer, which has been a dream of hers since ever sense I can remember, and she just turned 29 last week and had a great celebration for her birthday filled with flowers all week long from her boyfriend.

So after seeing that, there was no reason for her to want to kill herself I said it must have just been a dream weird, but not plausible. That was until I saw a picture of an ultrasound. So now I am thinking that this is what they call a precognition. However, it seems as though this is not going to happen for a while. And Yes I am now trying to talk to her more, but not actually talk about my precognition, as it would probably not mean much to her. So the only question I have is does anyone think that I should be concerned for her as this might just be a dream, even though how did I sense that she was pregnant before she told me or before I saw the ultrasound?

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coco1851 (1 stories) (1 posts)
12 years ago (2010-11-16)
Thank you everybody! Especially for clarifying with me that this is most likely not just another random dream! I never had a dream so clear as this one! Although it is not reacurring, but when I go to sleep I tend to think of other things to avoid this dream again as it was extemely upsetting to me, and it runs in my head every day since. I also agree that it won't hurt to check up on her or send love through meditation anyways even if this is just a dream. I liked your suggestions on how to talk to her without bluntly coming out with it fossilera! One more thing if I have any questions I will be sure to contact you bloodredrose, and thanks for all the help!
Keiligh (1 stories) (4 posts)
12 years ago (2010-11-16)
I think this is all very good advice. I have had precognitive dreams since I was a kid. My mom has it too. I had three dreams about my ex dying. I was there on the Other Side with his mom as he crossed over. When the last dream occurred, my fiance died. I was hanging out with my ex-boyfreind talking about my fiance when it happened. I have felt horrible about it. My mom has had several dreams about people passing away. And they came true.
The thing you want to look at is how "real" the dream was. Was it vivid and clear? How were the colors? Do you have the same dream over and over again? One thing you can do is learn to meditate where you can ask your spirit guides and angels to help you decipher what this dream is about. Ask them to send you a very clear message about what this dream is about. Ask them to send you a sign in a dream that it is a precognition about your old friend and what you can do to help. Always ask for the will of the Universe to help you. She may have been reaching out to you for help psychically. If you feel uncomfortable talking to her about it, go into meditation where you can visualize her face clearly and imagine sending love from your heart to hers. This may shift her energy. Even when people seem very happy and secure, they could still be hurting deeply inside. People know how to hide their pain very well. Good luck.
fossilera (4 stories) (124 posts)
12 years ago (2010-11-16)
I agree with Rashidah and Bloodredrose on this one, because a similar incident happened to me (might've posted it as one of my stories on here).

At this point, you can either treat it as just a "bad dream" (don't recommend it), or as a warning like the other's posted. It never hurts to ask them how everything's going.

Also, if you decide to bring up the dream with them, don't start off like "Hey, I know about what you are planning to do...", as for all you know, they could only have been thinking about it, or it was just a dream. Instead, ask them how everything's going, or casually mention you had a dream about them (Say something like "Hey, I had a dream about you last night...").

Finally, if you suspect that they might be contemplating doing this, make sure you also tell another person (Friend's family member, parents, teacher, etc.) your concerns.
bloodredrose (11 stories) (162 posts)
12 years ago (2010-11-16)
these bad dreams of your friends are telling you to stop them from doing it. Like in any possible way. Sometime soon, something bad might happen to her and you must try to stop her from pulling the trigger. These dreams are important. And if you need more advice on dreams, contact me, since... I'm more or less an expert on dreams of the future. My email is ravengirl_90 [at] and I have been dreaming about my hometown enduring blazing hot summers and is about to flood all of Southeast Alaska
Rashidah (guest)
12 years ago (2010-11-15)
This maybe a warning dream. You need to talk to your friend about this.

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