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Trying To See If My Mother Is Visiting Me


I have had a few physic readings, but none have answered the question of my mother.

I always get approached by psychics when I'm shopping at the mall, at the grocery store etc etc. I never call when they give me their card because I am worried about a scam, but it happens pretty often.

A little over 4 years ago my mother passed away from either suicide or an accidental overdose. Due to her suicidal past I am guessing she willingly took her own life.

I have always had very vivid dreams but I tend to have regular dreams now where my mother is alive and I am trying to convince her she is dead. They get pretty heated where I am basically screaming at her that she is not alive. I do not know if she does not realize she has passed away over or if this is my own imagination. She grew up Mormon (neither she nor I practiced the religion) and her Mormon mother and sister say they know she crossed over and is happy.

Growing up we lived in many haunted homes and she was always into angels. I am guessing if she crossed over I would be getting more signs from her and not these dreams that she doesn't realize she is dead. I was her only child and we had a very unhealthy relationship. For how much she probably regrets with raising me and how much she said she loved me I am surprised she does not provide any closure for me on her passing.

I would love a physic reading but don't know the best place to find an actual physic and not a scam. I have debated doing a reading with Chip Coffee.

Any advice on a good physic or how to handle my dreams with my other would be appreciated.

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The following comments are submitted by users of this site and are not official positions by Please read our guidelines and the previous posts before posting. The author, nicoleburron11, has the following expectation about your feedback: I will participate in the discussion and I need help with what I have experienced.

Tera (32 posts)
8 years ago (2012-05-17)
Please email me at alliania.energies [at]
I think I can help
Amytoday (2 posts)
9 years ago (2012-04-10)
I live in Asia but I have a similar problem as you. I desperately need your help. Can you tell the steps or those who could have help you to contact your mom? I am the only daughter for my mom. My mom is an extraordinary mother. I love her so much but in her living years I never got to tell her that much. My mother died from illness and I wasn't with her. I completely expected her to come home. I need to talk to my mother. The pain of not being with her and missing her is killing me. I can hardly sleep or eat. I am besige by guilt and anguish. Pls help me to contact my mother. I need to speak to her. I have been begging her to come to me by crying out aloud in my house but she didn't make any contact, not even showing me her face in my dreams. I know she loves me but am clueless why she is doing this to me. I m so depressed. Pls help me.
PathR (4 stories) (1247 posts)
9 years ago (2012-03-27)
Before aligning with Deeksha just be aware of
Possible problems others have had.


If you clear you mind in a meditation and all
The chatter noise is gone. Many people can contact
Their loved ones.
It is just a matter of 1) Clear mind, 2) aligning
Your emotions to open
3) being objective to see and hear.
Tera (32 posts)
9 years ago (2012-03-26)
You could go to a physic, but you could also do it yourself. If you meditate and get in the spiritual center you can go looking for her yourself and wouldn't need to find and rely on a physic.

If you can find a place that does deeksha near you I highly recommend it. Deeksha is a great energy enhancer and can help get you in the trance stage faster
PathR (4 stories) (1247 posts)
9 years ago (2012-03-26)
nicoleburron11 my feeling is your mother has not crossed over. But as to the why's I would have to take
A look to verify and try to answer your questions.

If you want me to look. I'll have time in about a week
Or so. No charge! Just send me an email, by clicking onto my User Name.

AnneV mentioned many people do cross over.
And this is correct for the majority.
The duration for people, still hanging around on the earth plane can be 4-7 days.
Some traditions even go as long as 2 weeks.

Two examples:
One of my closest friends husband died on the Hwy
From a motor vehicle accident close to christmas
Some years back.
She kept having dreams of her husband.
Her friend told her he had gotten stuck in the earth

For other individuals. Some of this can be even stronger than the dream scape.
Such as having items move around and feel as well as
Hear them which is what happened to a man whom was
A Case study for me over 7 years ago, he suffered from
Depression. His mother died of cancer and was on morphine at the time of her death.

If you are at your wits end. You can contact the
Mormon church in Utah and give your mothers name
They have a prayer ritual for the dead and this in itself could be enough to move her on.
vanillabean (9 stories) (168 posts)
9 years ago (2012-03-25)
Hi there,
If you want to email me, I can recommend a wonderful medium as well. I also live in CA (but that doesn't mean you and I live close together, and if necessary, some psychics are really amazing by phone too!). You can email me at greenpsychic [at]

You should think about what you actually want. If forgiving your mother is not even what you want, then there are ways you can stop her from coming to you. If forgiving your mother is something you want to do, you can get help and guidance with that--and extremely wise psychics have a way of helping to make sense of things and push us in the right direction. Either way, it's not helpful for you or your mother to interact in ways such as your most recent dreams.

Also, remember not to take things literally. My sweet and loving grandmother passed away, yet she haunted me in dreams for 10+ years. She was always very scary in my dreams, and it made me wonder if she didn't love me or something. It was VERY confusing. It turned out she had a message for me, and once I figured out the message (by total coincidence, not because I ever would have been able to guess), she began to come to me looking beautiful and radiant. I have no doubt she crossed over just fine as soon as she passed... So sometimes there are hidden meanings behind their visitations that would not be logical to you in any way. I know that's confusing, but I hope I am making sense in some way. Good luck! 😉
KaptainKrunch (1 stories) (15 posts)
9 years ago (2012-03-23)
Chip coffee is apparently really good I started watching ghost shows as of lately as I suppose advice for my transition into psychic. But I saw psychic kids and he is really awesome I am pretty sure he is the real deal... Although he is probably pretty costly.
swissmiss (1 stories) (4 posts)
9 years ago (2012-03-23)
I know a really good one. You can email me at nyilatt [at] You can look at her page and decide if she is right for you.
AnneV (4 stories) (1048 posts) mod
9 years ago (2012-03-22)
There is an article here on selecting psychics:

As for your mother. She's crossed over enough that she's no longer here. You didn't specify why your mother killed herself but unless it was to punish someone as in, "I'll show you for breaking up with me!", she probably is being cared for in a positive manner. She will of course reincarnate at some later time and pick up where she left off but from all the near death experiences I've read, people who can't handle earth and depart of their own means, don't go to hell but instead slowly heal, review their life (and trust me, she went through a life review of every moment that she effected you, both good and bad, just as you will in turn review all of your behaviors towards others when you pass on.) Some do exist in the lower realms for awhile if they've been completely self centered but even they ascend when they are ready.

The issue may not be your mother but with you. I think you still have barriers pertaining to your relationship here that are showing up in your dreams. First of all, she is alive so your argument with her is moot. She's as alive as you or myself, she is just in a different body. So you screaming at her is more the enduring friction in your psyche that's more within you than the reality of you seeing her in your dreams. Dreams are so often an opportunity for us to learn and grow, and while dreams are also disguised astral projections where we do in fact meet deceased loved ones. I think there is probably also some subconscious blame for her killing herself (overdose or suicide, both were in her means). You want this closure and aren't getting it. You just may not be ready to receive it. There is still blame and hurt in your words towards her ("You'd think she'd give me closure based on the way she raised me...") Paraphrased but there is deep rooted anger that's causing you yourself to be the wall.

Personally, I'd skip the psychic and work on forgiving your mother for all her perceived wrongs. Really get to the root of that forgiveness. I have no doubt that when you genuinely do, she will come to you in a loving dream and then you will be able to move on more freely. You probably don't know this but you two agreed to be reincarnated together as mother and daughter. You both had lessons and karma to incur or to work off. At some level, this is by your design. Take power back to yourself and realize you're not a victim but a co-creator with this woman. You'll find it easier to forgive her.

Thanks for sharing.

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