Special Ability

I'm not sure if this is a psychic experience but me and my friend were driving down a road. We started talking about how much we hated this girl, who was basically screwing us over and was a real b****. This girl was dating our guys friend. Whom we were really close to. Just jokingly we said I wish she would just die and were laughing. So we decided maybe if we said it over and over it would happen. Just kiddingly not serious like a joke. So we said " I wish that b**** would die" in about one minute the police ambulance and fire trucks past us sirens blaring. We laughed saying ha ha maybe she died. We were very young and immature. As we were turning on the main road to see what was going on we came upon a car crash. Low and behold it was her car. With our guy friend and he in the vehicle. There was another car she rear ended. The other car was on top of her car with the wheel of the other vehicle broke the windshield and tire right in front of her steering wheel. Our guy friend broke his arm. I was scared she was okay but said her flip flop got stuck on the accelerator causing the accident. We wondered if this was a psychic experience or something evil. Needless to say we never wished anyone to die again. Also I have had another. Experience where I dreamed my dads house burned down. He lives far away and woke from the dream so realistic I was sobbing and drenched in sweat. So real was the overwhelming grief and distraught emotions I had even when I woke up. I called him to see if he was okay. A year later I received a call from my uncle telling me my dads house had caught on fire and he was in critical condition. He was on a ventilator for a long time and almost died twice. My many visits to see him I experienced the same emotions of my dream. Leading me to believe there was a connection. Is that psychic as well? These are completely true and. Please don't judge I just want to know why? There have been minor things that have come true people I my dreams telling me things were going to be okay.etc. I feel like these experiences are somehow connected.