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Is There A Reason We Are Connected?

 

I'm wondering if there is a reason for my connection to my ex boyfriend. We have always had a psychic bond, I see us being corded sometimes, know when he's thinking of me, see certain things he's doing. I have many odd things that happen involving him, like maybe someone is trying to tell me something, but I have no idea what, so I'm wondering if the signs are trying to tell me that I was supposed to learn something from him that I didn't. Some very odd things happen, most involve my phone, but its not limited to just that I would click on a person to send them a text, or call them, but my phone would send to him instead. Even if I pressed reply to their original message. My phone would be sitting on the table, I wasn't even touching it & it suddenly starts dialing him. Pictures of him would pop up in odd places, like on files I didn't assign them to. His birthday month & day popped up on my random lotto ticket on his birthday. I asked for a sign about him & a rare movie that he likes, that is "NEVER EVER" on tv started as I asked... I had no idea it was on! If I ask for signs, I'm usually flooded with random things. I asked a guy out, just trying to move on, & the guys name was Danny, same as my ex. Many other things, but you can get what I mean. It's starting to keep me awake, I've began having emotional nightmares. I'd like to let it go. Every time I stop thinking of him, this all starts again.

So, I am wondering if anyone else has had an experience as such? What do you think I am supposed to do with the signs? How do I go about finding out what it is that is being pointed out, but I am not seeing?

Thank you!

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star325 (2 stories) (15 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-11-10)
Well personally I think that you have a fear inside you of letting him go and that is what is manifesting in a sense all these things find the rope inside you that is still holding on and cut it free then see if these things go away...
jusmee (1 stories) (4 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-07-28)
I've actually done that too... I've started to hang out with a new man. Getting to know him, feeling quite happy, and I thought I had broke free of all of this finally. Then I am flooded more so by what I'm referring to as signs... All I can think is that maybe there's something I really needed to learn from my time with him that I didn't, and something is trying to tell me that. I just can't make anything else out of it.
IslVoter (257 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-07-28)
Jusme--

P.S. Also, realize that you ex is not "getting to you" through phone lines, it is your fear of thoughts of him that are manifesting these things.

You need to release some fear of him too, because you've given him all the power and that just isn't how it is. You have the power to control access to you. You can block out those you do not want and encourage those that you do.

Lora
IslVoter (257 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-07-28)
Jusmee--

Well I guess what you're saying makes sense--it's the old "don't think of a blue elephant" dilemma.

Then, can you visualize you, happy, unencumbered and in the state you want to be, whatever that is? Can you see yourself in a new relationship, or on your own and happy, or exploring all the things you said you wanted to do but relationships got in the way?

In other words, visualize what you want, not what you don't want.

?Or did you already try this.

Sorry, wish I had better ideas for you.

Isle - Lora
jusmee (1 stories) (4 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-07-28)
Thank you Lora. I have tried to do that. Someone once told me that spirits can easily control things with electrical currents, like tv, phones, ect... I've asked for guidance on why I get the signs, but all I get is more signs flooding me non-stop, which only makes it more confusing, and getting sorta of stressful. That's why I'm seeking help.
IslVoter (257 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-07-28)
jusme---

Can I assume, then, that you broke up with him?

You mention that you feel bonded/corded to him, and I think that might very much be the case.

I'm not an expert on this but have heard others say that people with whom you've had a close connection but no longer want one can sometimes keep you bound to them.

You need to go through an intentional severing of those cords. The ones I remember had them actually visualizing the cord, and cutting it. I would imagine you would have to be in a state of mind where there is not unfinished business on your end, where you can wish him well but sever the bonds.

Maybe others can comment further, but this would be a place to start. You might also Google "cutting spiritual cords" and see what pops up.

Good luck.

Isle - Lora
jusmee (1 stories) (4 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-07-28)
I know it sounds random, but many times I get flooded with this. It's not just here & there, it can be non stop for hours, like every 5 min! We used to have an extremely strong connection, like bonded. I do have some psychic experiences randomly, but I'm not sure I'm open enough to know why this is happening. I'd like to move on.
jusmee (1 stories) (4 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-07-28)
Ugh! I need some help with this... Every time I glanced at the internet tv, talk to people, either his name or the city he's living, something to remind me of him was popping up... Strangers yell out his name, or will talk bout how they are driving out of state to his town, ect. I was going out of my way to ignore it, but it honestly gets weird! When I ignore it, then he pops up in odd places on my phone. It's as if I'm being told something & no matter what I do it won't be ignored. How do I find out why this is happening? Does anyone have suggestions?

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