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How Do I Develop Psychic Skills?


I just turned 13, My name is Justin, and I would very much like to know how to develop psychic skills, just like, talking to spirits and etc, I've studied this and I went to workshops about it.

I feel connected to Angels a lot, there a big part of my life, I feel like I could talk to them, I've tried asking them to show their selves and guide me threw life, but I haven't seen any or communicated to any. I tried spotting symbols or signs. I kind of spotted some, but I would've like more then that, I'm a really spiritual boy for my age, I kind of don't fit in so I decide to take my own kind of thing I like, but this is the problem. I can't connect with them. But could anyone tell me how I could connect to the spirits and let them know I want to speak and for them to guide me threw life? The reason why I want them to guide me is because sometimes I have a lot of trouble with life, and then I also would like to because it feels like something I would like to do.

Also, Some people can connect to the elements like for example air, fire, water. As a young kid, just like I am now. I feel different from other kids or anyone else at hat matter, I feel like I'm special, but special as in I have something very special I could do, I have had a few experiences with them, like I could control them, or some people say manipulate them. But I have no idea how to control it or how to do it when I want to do it. The experiences I had was controlling the rain, waves, the wind, and the fire didn't really burn me. I hope you guys have some answers for me,

Thanks, Regards, Justin

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Reneemichelle (1 stories) (25 posts)
7 years ago (2013-11-21)
Hi Justin, my name is Renee. I am a 45 year old native Southern Californian who has had many psychic experiences ever since I was 5 years old. I too love Angels, I always did. You really can communicate with them and them back to you. If you go to any metaphysical store such as Lady of the lake, you will find a deck of cards, Angel cards by Doreen Virtue. I used to own a set of her cards and would use them to get answers to questions that I had pertaining to life. They really work. Try that. Many blessings to you, renee
ladydragonfly (1 posts)
7 years ago (2013-03-05)
I believe as dreamer said we all have psychic abilities but not all develop them. I am an empath and I'm very sensitive to other people. My goal is focusing on setting safe boundaries for myself right now because I can be easily overwhelmed by others emotions and stress. I know I have other gifts but just trying to focus on one thing at a time and develop a good understanding and control of it and when the time is right move on to the next. I am also audio and hear things other people do not hear. I record my experiences and from time to time look back at them. This can tell you a great deal about your gifts. Make sure you are approaching this with a clear mind and be sure to journal dreams, thoughts and experiences. Meditation is one of the things I use to help me open up and stay grounded. Good luck and keep us posted on your progress.
fossilera (4 stories) (124 posts)
7 years ago (2013-02-28)
Here's my advice - Some of it I won't repeat, as others have already said some of it:

1. Focus on a few areas at most to start (For example, right now I focus primarily on astral projection, lucid dreaming, clairvoyance, and psychokinesis every now & then). For you, I'd recommend mediumship or clairvoyance to start.

2. Acknowledge that everything will not come in overnight - if you aren't ready for something, then you won't be able to do it (it took a couple years to get one solid astral projection for me).

3. If you are going to try to work with a flavor of the "-kinesis" abilities (psychokinesis, pyrokinesis, cryokinesis, etc), remember that there are environmental factors to consider when testing.

For example, trying to manipulate the wind outside is NOT the best test environment - moving a piece of paper underneath a glass bowl or in a sealed container is though, as there isn't a "natural cause" for the paper to move, except by your mind.

4. If you seem to be making progress, and then everything "suddenly stops", no one stole your abilities - We all have "lull periods", where it seems like our abilities are dimmed for a little (or they feel like they vanish completely). When this happens, focus on something else, and eventually, you'll be back where you started.

5. Do experiments! I'm a psychic, yes, but I still do experiments to find the best way to do something at my best.

6. This one is the most important one (at least to me) - Know the boundary between fantasy & what is "real". For example, some people seem to confuse TV show "psychic abilities" with what a "real" person can do, anime especially.

Just someone in a show can send fire from their hands, or ride on an air ball, or can hover in the air while being surrounded by a flaming halo of lightning bolts, does not mean that you will be able to (and if you can do all of the above, I want to meet with you in person).

Granted, the above examples are a little extreme, but there's been posters before that "claim" to have an ability at that same level.

With a final note (for now), I will say that your mind is the limit - who's to say that with enough practice, you cannot shoot fire from your hands?

I mean, I've been controlling hurricanes for years now (ever wonder why there haven't been any hurricanes in Michigan)? (Just a little dry humor)
flyfly156 (1 stories) (5 posts)
7 years ago (2013-02-27)
Oh, wow thanks. (: Very helpful! If anyone else has anything to say, don't mind! 😁
destinyhope (4 posts)
7 years ago (2013-02-27)
Dear Young Justin, I can give you tips.
1.Meditate- it helps you clear your mind and allows you to be more receptive to energies that allow you to perceive things, also, it grounds you.

2.Keep a dream journal- I have found that psychic abilities are more prone to emerge when the patron has more of a firm grasp on their selves. And dreams are the best way of starting that journey, IMHO, understand your dreams, understand yourself.

3. Become more acquainted with nature, the pure raw energy of our Mother Earth is very powerful and inspire and fulfill your senses. Learn to appreciate it and understand the circle of life and how we are all connected.

4. Surround yourself with positive people- the last thing you need are "energy vamps" and people judging you, your emerging abilities are greatly influenced by those around you.

5. Notice your "signs" - whether it be your emotions triggering happenings around you, or a song, or even number sequences, I believe that everyone with functioning psychic abilities have their signs. You should keep another journal for this, just write everything down, everything and go over it with yourself. Remember: as you grow and change emphatically, your reality will too. And don't get discourage if something isn't fitting or making sense, if it is meant to be, it will in time. Just be.

6. Do some research- I recommend researching the Pineal Gland, things that have to do with spirituality, and even physics, getting to know your roots, your family tree, if there are any traces of shamans, witch doctors or anything like that in your blood line. Who we ARE is the most important thing.

And most importantly, I think is don't force it, we are indeed spiritual beings having a physical experience and practice and patience makes perfect. Just it really comes down to knowing and being one with yourself, but that is a journey and learning process that never ends (: I hope this has gave you some insight. Best of luck -Destiny Hope 😊
flyfly156 (1 stories) (5 posts)
7 years ago (2013-02-26)
Thank you,
I will Indeed look at auras, and try youtube. But I only trust certain people for this. Once I tried to get into contact with someone who taught rieki, but they said I was to young, so she's teaching me a different technique, I really feel like a belong on being a psychic. I feel if I keep trying I will succeed, but I just have to find out where I have to be in being a psychic,
dreamer13099 (5 stories) (40 posts)
7 years ago (2013-02-26)
I am unsure about how to help you with developing powers but it has been rumored for decades that everyone has a psychic power, some just never focus on them or have need for them. The ones that connect well with the earth and the world around them discover them at a very young age. My advice would be to first try seeing auras. They are more common for a psychic to see. I suggest going on youtube and looking up videos. Each person has different ways they find comfortable. Again I am unsure of how to develop them, having had mine since the age of five, but I wish you luck and tell me how it goes. Don't give up hope:)
- Dreamer

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