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What I Can Do To Have More Control Over My Abilities?


I guess I have know sense I was about 12 or 13-ish that I was different from other people. I am the person that you see by him self all alone and you wouldn't want to be by me cause you could just tell that I am different. Sense I was 13 when I know that I could read other peoples emotions at first that thought I was just reading there face and I thought that for about a year. Then people just stared coming to me and telling me about what was going on in their life and asking me for advice and telling me stuff that they would never tell anyone knowing that I would tell no one.

One time in the summer I went to a summer camp and when I meet one of my cabin mates for the first time. I read him emotions and told that he was angry a lot and he was angry towards him stepfather he looked at me with fear in his eyes and said how did I know that. At that moment I know that was doing something more that just reading his face but I didn't know what.

Then I meet someone that was friends with one of my friends. We quickly became friends to, then one day he was sitting down and he had his eyes closed but he wasn't sleeping to trying to sleep. So I asked him what he was doing and he said that he wan't doing any thing but, after I convinced him to tell me. First he said we had to go where there was on one around after we did that he told me that he had the gift of begin about to see glimpse of the future. He told me that he had seen that his grandma was died and about a week later she had died and many other small stuff he told me. So I told him that I could tell people's emotions by reading there face, but then he told me that I wasn't reading there face but looking into their heart and seeing/feeling what they feel. So we found out that I was an empathic. The friend that had got us to get to know each other also has the gift/ability to see shadow people. I am also able to control people's emotions and sometimes make them do stuff and I can tell if people are lying to me. I am able to sense the shadow people around me but I can't see them.

I would like to know what I can do to have more control over my abilities and how to make them stronger. I want to use these gifts and help other people through hard times.

Just turned 15


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Crash3499 (1 posts)
11 years ago (2013-06-28)
I have what I believe to be an enhanced sense of electromagnetic fields. I have the same social life as you but I am a gamer and I felt different since I was 12. Depending on their field, I am comfortable of the opposite around specific people. I also feel watched constantly by an unknown force. Any advice would help
IntuitiveMama (22 posts)
11 years ago (2013-05-24)
J-sabedra, I am also from Iowa. If you are in the Cedar Rapids area, there is a place downtown which you could go to and find some common friends. It is the Newbo Healing Arts center. Also there is a church on the north side of town that is supportive of your gift, if you are interested in that. Iowa City and Des Moines have similar places. If you are not from this area, maybe you can find a similar place--you can usually find them (try googling your local area).

Kind regards,
DiamondS (guest)
11 years ago (2013-05-23)
Hey thanks for help with my story. & reading your story made me feel better. But I was doing some research & it said meditating helps to control it. I've only tried it a few times but hopefully that helps you.:)
Higherfire (1 stories) (8 posts)
11 years ago (2013-05-21)
It's great that you are aware of your abilities. I also have a similar story as you; with feeling and intuitively knowing information. It's funny because everyone has these abilities, some people are just more naturals; yet most people are blind to sensing the underlying nuances that occur around us all the time.

I feel "control" comes with age but more so with experience. It's best to practice with someone on your "level" so you can point out and talk about what you feel. Also, the empathy is felt in your own body so by exercising and being highly aware of your body and how it reacts to situations will tell you a lot.

With meditation, exercise, and eating healthy; you strengthen your energies and this increases your intuition, awareness, and control. Through direct experience is the best way to learn, then we take those experiences and make sense of them with our minds. Which helps to put things into perspective.

I would love to do your Astrology Chart or just chat if you would like. My email - higherfire [at]

I'm always looking for people who feel the way you do, because it's everything to me and is nice to talk to others about it. If you start practicing it can get really intense, but it's thrilling:D


Kyle =)
tereseawhite (1 posts)
11 years ago (2013-05-21)
All my life I have also had people come to me for advice and just to spill their heart out to me. It has even people I'm not friends with but know of.
I also can tell what people are thinking and my mood changes with what others are feeling because I feel what they feel.
I have had dreams come true. One dream I had was about two huge robots fighting in the streets here in America and my husband and I had to hide to get out of the way. A few months later, a friend (not aware of my dream) tells me that Obama is wanting to use droids.
I want to build and control my ability but I don't know where to start. Could someone help me please? I think my oldest son has abilities too but I need to control mine before I can help him.
AndreaDouglas (1 posts)
11 years ago (2013-05-19)
It is also very ironic that I have stumbled across this story today also.

I have always known there is something very different about me to other people, but things have been happening more frequently now so it is only today I have took it upon me to look into this to see if there is others out there like me.

Everyone I ever meet comes to me and tells me there deepest and darkest feelings. I'm left wondering, why me? I'm like a magnet. Why do they want my advice.

I'm a very deep and emotional person, I feel things for others around me all the time. I like you have massive instinct by just looking at another person, I can tell a lot about how they are feeling just by looking at them, I get like a weird gut feeling.

I also have dream type visions about a friend or family member something that is happening there and then with that person. Its weird, as I could be awake or sleeping when this happens, but when its happened before I called the friend I had the feelings about and that exact vision was happening there and then to her. I freaked her out that much that she didn't admit it was happening until 4 months later as she was too scared to tell me as she had no clue how I could have possible known. Has that sort of thing happened to you?

I know when my phone is about to ring and who is calling 7 out of 10 times. I think about someone and within a few hours or a few days they appear at my door or txt me out the blue like even if I haven't heard from them in over 10 years.

Randomly I say things just totally out the blue, and sure enough that happens the next day. Could be coincidence but it happens all the time now so I'm starting to freak my fiancé out as he has been with me for 10 years and in that time ever time he say's oh "sexy, guess what",... I'm like, you bought us a couch! And he's like how the heck did you guess that right! I always guess things right that anyone i'm close to asks of me.

When I think of something that like say I need, the next day my mum calls me up and says oh you will never guess what was on sale in the shop and I just had to buy you. Its totally weird, so feel that guilty I've tried to stop thinking of anything that way its not like I'm making her buy me the stuff.

Now i'm just rambling, but I hope that some one out there understands me and perhaps maybe just maybe has the same stuff happen to them and therefore has a bit of advice as to how you could control your abilities a bit.

Best wishes

crimsonwings93 (2 posts)
11 years ago (2013-05-19)
Its sort of ironic that I came across your story when I'm in a similar situation although my abilities are sort of imbalance. I believe that with maturiy comes control, in other words, as you grow older you'll come to control your abilities...

Wish you the best.


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